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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 2:27:00 PM

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Hee hee. It was fun visiting the profiles of all the men who answered this thread and peeeeeerving their pictures. Love those male objects!

I feel so violated!!!!

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 3:10:35 PM

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Yes getting attention from females is hot. It never hurts to have the ego boosted.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 3:22:29 PM

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I've always been puzzled by that verb, objectify. Presuming that you all consider yourselves more or less autonomous subjects, how could you not objectify something you perceive, be it a man's body or an elm tree? The opposite act, of subjectifying, necessarily includes a moment of objectifying. The OP here has been shrewd enough to modify it with 'sexually', so you, madame, get my congratulations.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 3:38:15 PM

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Hee hee. It was fun visiting the profiles of all the men who answered this thread and peeeeeerving their pictures. Love those male objects!

I feel so violated!!!!

Me too...Isn't it awesome?

Being the object of some people's lust is better than others. ;)

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 3:59:49 PM

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I've always been puzzled by that verb, objectify. Presuming that you all consider yourselves more or less autonomous subjects, how could you not objectify something you perceive, be it a man's body or an elm tree? The opposite act, of subjectifying, necessarily includes a moment of objectifying. The OP here has been shrewd enough to modify it with 'sexually', so you, madame, get my congratulations.

Do you work for the plain English society?

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 4:04:07 PM

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They never offend but im always some combination of flattered and uncomfortable. If it's bad enough I'll kind of have the urge to "cover up," only to realize that I'm most likely not exposed in any way. Doesn't matter if the woman is attractive, but that will certainly affect the overall outcome. Ultimately I enjoy it...haha.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 4:28:14 PM

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Im good to go unless they touch more than my shoulders or arms, I had 2 go a little over board at the Harley Happening this year if they would have waited until I was there a while but I hadnt even gotten my first one down yet and was trying to talk to someone I knew them so it was ok but I had to be a lil bitchy seems like only women I know do that though, my Dr is a young female who I like but shes all Dr so ..... I really enjoy teacher confrences I can only get 1 to lock eyes with me and talk lol, picture a long hair all in black and leather with 3 lil ones in tow flirting with the teachers lol its has to be a sight.. take care all

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 4:45:18 PM

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I've always been puzzled by that verb, objectify. Presuming that you all consider yourselves more or less autonomous subjects, how could you not objectify something you perceive, be it a man's body or an elm tree? The opposite act, of subjectifying, necessarily includes a moment of objectifying.

Eschew obfuscation!

Do men enjoy being sexually objectified?

i like it... edgier than "Is the Pope Catholic?", but will slide past the FCC censors a lot better than "Does a bear shit in the woods?"

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 4:45:32 PM

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If I say what I really think, the walruses will get me.

No further comment.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:07:47 PM

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I've always been puzzled by that verb, objectify. Presuming that you all consider yourselves more or less autonomous subjects, how could you not objectify something you perceive, be it a man's body or an elm tree? The opposite act, of subjectifying, necessarily includes a moment of objectifying.

Eschew obfuscation!

To put it less litotically, in other words, to avoid that trope whereby an affirmation is expressed by the negative of the contrary, who is the signatory, the I, both instances of the 'and', in the structure understood with the spectre of semiotics that you are complicit in promoting? More to the point, is your I a teleologically stable sumploke...or not?

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:12:54 PM

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I've always been puzzled by that verb, objectify. Presuming that you all consider yourselves more or less autonomous subjects, how could you not objectify something you perceive, be it a man's body or an elm tree? The opposite act, of subjectifying, necessarily includes a moment of objectifying.

Eschew obfuscation!

To put it less litotically, in other words, to avoid that trope whereby an affirmation is expressed by the negative of the contrary, who is the signatory, the I, both instances of the 'and', in the structure understood with the spectre of semiotics that you are complicit in promoting? More to the point, is your I a teleologically stable sumploke...or not?

This guy? I like this guy.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:14:28 PM

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This guy? I like this guy.

I don't understand a word you just said.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:14:52 PM

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What I'm wondering is if there is a plate of glass his face is wedged up against in that picture.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:16:16 PM

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What I'm wondering is if there is a plate of glass his face is wedged up against in that picture.

Not in that picture, but that's exactly the method I used to perfect the pout.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:20:04 PM

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No.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:22:45 PM

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No.

I know we're supposed to be eschewing obfuscation, but really, the perceptive capacities of this board deserve better, sir.

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 5:23:08 PM

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To be genatatailia on a stick?? Fuckin' Z A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Men: Do you enjoy being sexually objectified? - 12/24/2007 6:02:48 PM

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This is an offshoot of an earlier discussion, but one I thought would do better in its own thread. In that thread we discussed the ethics of sexually objectfying others without them knowing about it.

I'm interested to hear how men feel about being sexually objectified by a woman. Some examples:

1. You know a woman is checking you out. She's look at your ass and whispering to her friends. It's probably not unlikely that she may be fantasizing about you.
2. Women in a convertible see you on a corner and lean out to whistle at you and tell you that they think you are hot.
3. A very attractive boss seems to enjoy making you get things from the lowest filing cabinet and you catch her staring at you.
4. Your dentist or doctor seems to linger a little and give commands that seem to be on the edge of normal, seemingly to see you in various positions.

Do these, or other similar scenarios, offend you or flatter you?
Does it make a difference if the women are "HOT" vs. very average?

Akasha