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Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 9:40:02 AM   
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Im a huge fan of force play. and my dom is very good at doing it.
but Im agressive today, so to trigger more intense in the force play later, I plan to grab his paddle and beat him when he doesnt notice... I have to admit I have a passion of topping a dom(the power over a strong dom is such a turn on, their reaction is usually very fun). Since I have never done that I dont know how he will react.
I have told him Im craving for a rape play today, I think he is excited too, but I dont think he really knows my plan.

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:03:58 AM   
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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:09:32 AM   
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How would he not notice you beating him with a paddle? Uh, ok....

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:21:05 AM   
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Crikey! Heared it all now.

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:22:46 AM   
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o....k......

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:28:47 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xingxing
Im a huge fan of force play. and my dom is very good at doing it.
but Im agressive today, so to trigger more intense in the force play later, I plan to grab his paddle and beat him when he doesnt notice... I have to admit I have a passion of topping a dom(the power over a strong dom is such a turn on, their reaction is usually very fun). Since I have never done that I dont know how he will react.
I have told him Im craving for a rape play today, I think he is excited too, but I dont think he really knows my plan.


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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:30:38 AM   
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It doesn't really sound odd to me, but then again in play I am allowed to do whatever I can get away with.  One of his favorite forms of play with me is when I fight back, kicking, punching, slapping and I have even taken his toys and tried to hit him with them.

To the OP, hope you have fun and enjoy the play.

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:31:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xingxing

Im a huge fan of force play. and my dom is very good at doing it.
but Im agressive today, so to trigger more intense in the force play later, I plan to grab his paddle and beat him when he doesnt notice... I have to admit I have a passion of topping a dom(the power over a strong dom is such a turn on, their reaction is usually very fun). Since I have never done that I dont know how he will react.
I have told him Im craving for a rape play today, I think he is excited too, but I dont think he really knows my plan.


If you are able to sit down after a few days, please let us know how it went for you.
 
<Shakes head> Sometimes I think that I have heard it all, til someone posts something like this.
 
ETA: Kyra, good point! Although, she did say that she has never done anything like this before and is not sure how he will react. But hopefully, he will react as she hopes <s>

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:46:46 AM   
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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 10:50:12 AM   
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I've been known to grab stuff in the minute and whap him with it. He always takes it away and takes back control. If he doesn't want that kind of automatic response to happen he makes sure to leave the stuff out of my reach.

This works for some people and doesn't work for others. Hopefully the op and her dom have discussed this theoretically.

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 11:40:36 AM   
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have fun with that! once we were sitting in the van and he said, "you want to slap me dont you?" i said i did and he said "do it" so i did! wow what a blast we had after that- in the van! 

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 12:13:29 PM   
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Knowing many masochistic Masters, I don't have a problem with that part. What I have a problem with is that it might not be consensual on his part. Just because he's the Dom doesn't mean he doesn't have limits. He deserves the same kind of respect in that area that any other masochist does.

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 12:22:11 PM   
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sounds like it could be a fun night.  Or a very unpleasant night.  All in all come back and tell every one how it went

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 12:44:12 PM   
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~fr~ While resistance play can be so damn hot, I'm a huge fan of it, if my partner thought paddling me would get her what she wanted (either Resistance play, rape play etc). She'd be SO wrong! But hey maybe your partner digs that style.

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 3:46:33 PM   
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There's tons of ways this could be a really great scene. 

But there are a few in which it could go bad- so be prepared.

I found unless I can seriously read my partners mood and desires very well, it's best just to ask permission first before getting all rascally.

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 4:06:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDaddyZ

~fr~ While resistance play can be so damn hot, I'm a huge fan of it, if my partner thought paddling me would get her what she wanted (either Resistance play, rape play etc). She'd be SO wrong! But hey maybe your partner digs that style.

Z-


::laffs::  I know wolf is in the mood to play a little rougher when he pulls stunts like that.  If I'm not in the mood, or just plain don't want to give him the satisfaction, I don't react at all beyond the verbal "Cut it out".  If I'm of the same mind though, it can be a great time. 
It really depends on the dynamics of the relationship. 

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 4:14:17 PM   
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That sounds like fun! What a brat you are, lol! I can't wait to hear the outcome either! Keep us subs informed too!

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 4:16:42 PM   
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I think that was a banned Looney Tunes from the '40s... Only Porky was the Dom, and Daffy was the Sub... It got pulled for blackface, but really that was the first recorded and animated record of the modern ball-gag.

I liked the Groucho Marx impression from Bugs in commentary: "Mehhh, and how they got the paddle out, I'll never know."

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RE: I'm going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 4:23:25 PM   
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i think that maybe it didnt work out as planned, i clicked on the OP's name and it says profile not found!! ruh roh Shaggy!!

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RE: Im going to beat my dom today - 12/27/2007 4:57:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xingxing
Im a huge fan of force play. and my dom is very good at doing it.
but Im agressive today, so to trigger more intense in the force play later, I plan to grab his paddle and beat him when he doesnt notice... I have to admit I have a passion of topping a dom(the power over a strong dom is such a turn on, their reaction is usually very fun). Since I have never done that I dont know how he will react.
I have told him Im craving for a rape play today, I think he is excited too, but I dont think he really knows my plan.

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Original: sexyred1
How would he not notice you beating him with a paddle? Uh, ok....


This will work well--if at all--only if you know your Dom will tolerate it!

I know of one Owner--I reveal no name, of course--who would most definitely have a bad reaction to an occurrence such as that one. It would be time for Hell to freeze before the slave tried that a second time. So, to repeat, be careful!

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