AAkasha -> RE: Are you a 40 year old virgin? More info, please (8/21/2005 10:32:37 AM)
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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig I agree that the profiles frequently lack some vital information such as marital status. There was a thread some time back under suggestions for collarme, but many people had many reasons for why standardized checks would not clearly articulate what their status/availability is... I think in the course of normal conversation these things should come out, but I realize that only happens when all the participants are open and honest. M Yes. I think that those who are single and available for a relationship, though, would want to put that in their profile if that was their goal. And, to state how long they have been single and what the ex situation is, ie, "Had a 7 year marriage but divorced in 1997." I know some may want to wait until a conversation to discuss it, but some people might read the profile and not contact them by assuming they are married. At least, that's what I would assume if a guy is 40+ years old and says nothing about marital status at all. If he waits for a woman to contact him and he left it out for a reason, and her first email is "Are you married?" and the rest of the email is just fantastic, it might be hard for him to 'ruin' the potential good start and end it by saying "yeah, but ---". Just to "see what happens" he might be tempted to say "no..." Akasha
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