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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 2:11:35 PM   
summerblossom


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Status: offline 		Okay I know what a BBW is obviously but what is an SBBW and a BBBBW ? Never heard of these terms and haven't a clue what they mean.

And on this topic in general...its okay to have your physical and sexual preference but personality should come first and you should never just write someone off because you don't like the way they look as looks can ALWAYS change and DO change, but someones personality RARELY ever changes!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 2:15:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

At first glance this post seemed to be supportive of BBW's, then morphed into putting down thinner women, which was bad enough. Then I realized it was a personal ad for the OP.

With as much fat bashing as there is, it is equally as bad to bash thinner women. The whole thing is ridiculous.

Tsk, tsk.


Ah, someone beat me to it.  Agreed here, though.  You're no different than the people who bash BBWs, you're just not doing it to the BBWs.

As for size; to each their own.  Generally I'm not attracted to -too- much larger sizes, but if a woman can be a bit heavier and carry her weight well she can be as hot as a smaller one.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 2:25:15 PM   
hardbodysub


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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 5:33:14 PM   
Evility


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ORIGINAL: moki1984
A woman should not be a size 2... women who are a size 10, size 12, size 14... those are real women.


If you consider a size 10/12/14 to be a BBW then size 2 would be a fairly normal size, would it not? I think women of a wide variety of shapes and sizes can be attractive (or unattractive, as the case may be). Sounds to me like you have some insecurity issues about your appearance. Has anyone ever noticed that men do not have this same 'catty' gene that women have?

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 5:50:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kitttty

Wow, and I think I'm a woman because I have a vagina and tits.

not all women do and that doesn't make them any less of a woman

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 5:52:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: greenearth21

hmm...i dont approve of putting anyone down due to their weight/race etc....just plain shallow. but we are all entitled to our preferences which means wat works for me may not work for you.  a size 2 woman is just as much woman as a size 12...and can bear babies as well:) all this hate should just stop
Camille65's question are very legitimate
Thank you-- I couldn't have said it better myself. . . (Not a skinny girl, but dont consider myself a bbw)

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 6:59:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		ok I just have to have my say about BBW's. Being one myself, I know how some people look at us. Whether we are size 12 or 22, and neat as a pin,  we are looked at as fat slobs. I get tired of it. I have always been truthful and put in my profiles that I am a BBW. This way the men that like skinny girls can steer clear. It is just a matter of preference to the men. Skinny girls, big girls, we are still all girls/women..

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 9:46:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bad boys Bod boys what ya gonna do? what ya gonna do when they come for you?????

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 9:51:25 PM   
ShaktiSama


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Status: offline 		  I list my profile weight as 999 pounds, specifically to make sure that anyone who filters their profiles by weight will never see mine.  I really dislike dealing with shallow, judgmental people of any size and shape.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 9:56:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Bad boys Bod boys what ya gonna do? what ya gonna do when they come for you?????

( 2 men awaiting approval) love those bad boys.


Great, now I am humming that song!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 10:11:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Bad boys Bod boys what ya gonna do? what ya gonna do when they come for you?????

( 2 men awaiting approval) love those bad boys.


Great, now I am humming that song!


Hey red! Love the new pic! Hot!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 10:12:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Bad boys Bod boys what ya gonna do? what ya gonna do when they come for you?????

( 2 men awaiting approval) love those bad boys.


Great, now I am humming that song!


Hey red! Love the new pic! Hot Hot hot you Zaftig Goddess!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 10:40:08 PM   
cankles


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyred1

At first glance this post seemed to be supportive of BBW's, then morphed into putting down thinner women, which was bad enough. Then I realized it was a personal ad for the OP.

With as much fat bashing as there is, it is equally as bad to bash thinner women. The whole thing is ridiculous.

Tsk, tsk.


yeah, promoting the idea that there's only one 'right way' for a woman to look is really not helping the problem. body fascism goes both ways! you can big-up bbw's without putting down other body types.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 10:55:27 PM   
RazorJAK


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My $2.00 on the subject:

The heifers (and fans of them) who bash on women of smaller frames and call them unwomanly are just as bigoted and ignorant as the anorexic twits with brains smaller than their dress size (and fans of THAT body type) who bash on bigger girls.

Yes,  I insulted both ends of the spectrum.  Why?  For a couple of reasons, actually.

I'm waiting to see who misquotes me and/or simply reads that first paragraph and starts flaming me.  Thus showing their reading comprehension skills are as lacking as their acceptance of others.

Also, because once they bash the other side,  they've shown that their souls are far uglier than their bodies could ever be.  Thus they deserve nothing but disrespect and derision.  And I'm just the smug bastard to do so.

Most of my adult life (other than my time in the military) has been in jobs where it's in my best interest to study people.  The way they move.  The way they walk.  The way they talk.  And,  most importantly,  the way they treat other people.  I've seen almost every walk of life in these last few decades.  And I can say without any doubt that LASTING beauty does not depend on the outward frame.

I've female friends who are quite large.  I've female friends who are lighter than what I curl.  I've dated women who outweighed me ( ie 300+ ).  I've dated women who have been able to wear my necklaces as belts.  They've all been beautiful in my eye.

It's all a matter of self confidence as opposed to self delusion.  There's a fine line dividing the two.  And a lot of times that line is SHATTERED.  The woman who think that simply labelling herself BBW means that she can wear skintight outfits without looking ridiculous is just as delusional as the girl who thinks she needs to lose 20 more pounds; even though she's so skinny that fucking her would cause kidney damage to the guy due to her razorsharp hipbones gouging into him.

So go ahead and call yourself BBW.  But don't hate on the tiny girls simply for being tiny.  That will make you nothing but a disgusting fat tub of lard who's bitter because you can't keep your hands out of the ice cream vat.

Go ahead and wear your size zero.  but don't look down on the women who are bigger than you.  That will make you a vapid cunt of a twig who needs to be tapped in the forehead to see if your center of gravity changes and you snap in half at the waistline.

As long as you're HEALTHY then you should be happy with how you look.  You shouldn't feel the need to rip on the opposite end of the scale in order to raise your own selfworth.

(- I'll wait for the hatemail to start pouring in. The truth hurts. -)


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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 10:58:26 PM   
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I love a great fat thread, wonderful way to begin 2008!
I hope we have many fat threads, beauty threads, old vs. young threads,
who is real and who is not, and other great self-affirming threads next year!

Rock on!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 11:00:09 PM   
tegantwo


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Status: offline 		I can speak from 2 sides of this topic....I've lost an incredible amount of weight in the past year. The difference it has made is amazing. I don't think I'm a better person because I've lost weight. The main difference its made is in my health.  I now feel good, my health is better, I have more energy, I can run and walk and do the fun things I always wished I could.

And I have to say...I've told my friends, I should write a book on how differently you are treated when you are heavy as compared to thinner. I am not a size 2 however...lol

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 11:21:17 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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ORIGINAL: moki1984

I have seen posts in the past hating on big girls and I know of submissives/Dominants who have felt some angst towards them due to their weight. So...to all the skinny size 2 girls you might want to stop reading this now, if not I did warn you. Bbw's, big girls, chubby girls, whatever you want to call it look like REAL WOMEN. a woman shouuld not be a size 2..that it not feminine, it looks 
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You made the mistake by bashing those that are skinny, You are doing the same thing as those that bash BBW's.

You are no better than those that bash others for size, ht, age etc. You have put yourself on their level.

And who are you to decide what REAL woman looks like? A real woman looks like whatever someone has a preference for. Doesn't make either one better or worse than the other. Being feminine has nothing to do with size honey, it has to do with a good attitude and how you carry yourself.

People have preferences about what they want. So stop bashing people for having preferences other than yours.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 11:23:31 PM   
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I should write a book on how differently you are treated when you are heavy as compared to thinner.


Please do!

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 11:35:14 PM   
kitttty


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Status: offline 		It's sort of disturbing that 1) I am still fat compared to 99% of celebrities and 2) that I have yet to reach a point where I was treated better when heavier.

Cuz I am fucking small.

Anyways, you don't have to be a size 2 or a size 12 or carry yourself well because collectively guys will bang pretty much anyone that calls themselves female. So all this fuss is over nothing.

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RE: BBW'S - 12/30/2007 11:44:42 PM   
cankles


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ORIGINAL: kitttty

It's sort of disturbing that 1) I am still fat compared to 99% of celebrities and 2) that I have yet to reach a point where I was treated better when heavier.

Cuz I am fucking small.

Anyways, you don't have to be a size 2 or a size 12 or carry yourself well because collectively guys will bang pretty much anyone that calls themselves female. So all this fuss is over nothing.


HAHAHA

that pretty much sums it up, close thread plz

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