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xingxing -> Im going to beat my dom today---result (12/31/2007 2:34:55 PM)

I admit Im a bad sub, I did get the paddle, and he did beat me really hard after I beat him just like everybody predicted.

Then we had dinner and the rape play began. but in about 1 min, we stopped, bcos I hit him in the face with my elbow(on accident) and left a mark on his pretty face, he was really hurt, and the next morning, it turned purple !

my poor Dom, he tried to finish the force play, but I insisted some tender play since he was really hurt. Although he kept saying its his fault of not paying attention, I felt guilty.

So if you got a good Dom, plz take good care of him, bcos its not easy to be a good Dom.




RedMagic1 -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (12/31/2007 2:55:31 PM)

Doms need aftercare, just as subs do.  I suggest that you both read a sports first aid book together, or take a class.  One thing that's easy to remember: RICE.  Rest Ice Compression Elevation.  Accidentally whack him in the face and it can be part of your subbly duty to press an ice pack where you hit him, perhaps while sitting in his lap.

Aftercare can be as nice as foreplay.




domahpet -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (12/31/2007 4:27:07 PM)

[&o][:o] your poor Dom,
you are sooo lucky!




SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (12/31/2007 7:53:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: xingxing
my poor Dom, he tried to finish the force play, but I insisted some tender play since he was really hurt.


Hah! We Doms don't need no steenkin' "tender play!" I broke my ankle in two places just before my former sub and I met for a play session, and I still dominated her for three hours! And then I drove home in a stick shift car, using my bad left leg on the clutch.

True story...but I'm just kidding about the tender play. It was wonderful you cared for him like that.

Les (Purveyor of Fine New Years Kink)




TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (12/31/2007 9:50:14 PM)

LOL....sorry...I was just thinking you will enjoy telling this story a year from now with a lot of fondness..:0)...Tempting




breatheasone -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/2/2008 1:04:42 PM)

I'm ALL for pampering and babying my Daddy, He does it for me. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/s4.gif[/image]  Especially if I accidentally gave Him a boo boo. [:(]




junecleaver -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/2/2008 5:58:52 PM)

ROFL!!    Moments like that are priceless.

His family jewels have accidentally been hurt on several ocassions while we were playing rough.  But considering he's trying to beat me, I consider it fair play. [;)]






KnOcala -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/3/2008 12:54:13 PM)

something you can laugh about later.  I would have contiunued the force play though.  My pride would not have been hurt, but your bottom would have...





DesFIP -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/3/2008 1:30:17 PM)

What a pity. Perfectly good take down scene ruined. Oh well, try it again next week. I hope it doesn't put him off resistance play forever.




SailingBum -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/4/2008 12:24:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

something you can laugh about later.  I would have contiunued the force play though.  My pride would not have been hurt, but your bottom would have...




As I would explain to my slave.  This is going to hurt you a lot more that it will me. 

BadOne




girlygurl -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/4/2008 2:21:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Aftercare can be as nice as foreplay.


I second that!![:D]

girly




ArgoGeorgia -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/4/2008 7:51:13 AM)

Ah, you stopped?  That's the kind of rough play I like!  If it isn't hurting both of us, it isn't rough enough!  If your flailing appendages get in the way, suggest he use duct tape next time. ;-)  Very effective and realistic...




backseatbebe -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/4/2008 9:56:52 AM)

HAHHAhaaahahaaa argo well said




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/7/2008 11:18:26 PM)

One time Daddy was joking about body slaming me complete with slow motion fake jumping on me, and my leg instinctivly flew up and I knee'd him full on in the chest. I was laughing pretty hard and he was playing dead, and I was like what can I say you mind fuck someone and maybe sometimes instinct and reflexes take over.  last week he was pretending he was going to do the very same thing, and I said hey now remember what happend last time.




lablancsecret -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/8/2008 12:51:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

something you can laugh about later.  I would have contiunued the force play though.  My pride would not have been hurt, but your bottom would have...




As I would explain to my slave.  This is going to hurt you a lot more that it will me. 

BadOne


To be honest, after an incident like that, I think I'd just grin an bear it. I couldn't blame the Dom for getting mad and taking it out on me for being bad...

How embarassing for both parties involved.




SilentButSexy -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/9/2008 2:38:06 AM)

Just reminds me of this qoute from the movie 300... "This will not be over with quickly, and you are not going to enjoy this!" How beautiful




Phin -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/9/2008 8:20:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirJohnMandevill

Hah! We Doms don't need no steenkin' "tender play!" I broke my ankle in two places just before my former sub and I met for a play session, and I still dominated her for three hours! And then I drove home in a stick shift car, using my bad left leg on the clutch.

True story...but I'm just kidding about the tender play. It was wonderful you cared for him like that.

Les (Purveyor of Fine New Years Kink)

I dropped a knife on my foot, it landed tip down on my right foot and bounced off the bone. I still finished the scene, although it was almost done anyway... really should have gone for stitches... oh well... I will add it to the list of scars...




Phin -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/9/2008 8:24:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SilentButSexy

Just reminds me of this qoute from the movie 300... "This will not be over with quickly, and you are not going to enjoy this!" How beautiful
you forgot the "I am not your king" line, but I still think that he should have followed that up with "but you will still get on your knees before me and worship me" but what do I know? I see BDSM themes in places that they just are not...




KnOcala -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/9/2008 8:58:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lablancsecret

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

something you can laugh about later.  I would have contiunued the force play though.  My pride would not have been hurt, but your bottom would have...




As I would explain to my slave.  This is going to hurt you a lot more that it will me. 

BadOne


To be honest, after an incident like that, I think I'd just grin an bear it. I couldn't blame the Dom for getting mad and taking it out on me for being bad...

How embarassing for both parties involved.



I don't get mad.  I control the situation, I adapt to the changes.  If I can't control my emotions, I cannot properly handle another person safely.   The accidental elbow would not cause me to be angry, maybe to better secure the elbow to make certain there is not another "accident" and the sub would have a lesson to make sure she is more careful in the future. 




lablancsecret -> RE: Im going to beat my dom today---result (1/9/2008 11:20:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

quote:

ORIGINAL: lablancsecret

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnOcala

something you can laugh about later.  I would have contiunued the force play though.  My pride would not have been hurt, but your bottom would have...




As I would explain to my slave.  This is going to hurt you a lot more that it will me. 

BadOne


To be honest, after an incident like that, I think I'd just grin an bear it. I couldn't blame the Dom for getting mad and taking it out on me for being bad...

How embarassing for both parties involved.



I don't get mad.  I control the situation, I adapt to the changes.  If I can't control my emotions, I cannot properly handle another person safely.   The accidental elbow would not cause me to be angry, maybe to better secure the elbow to make certain there is not another "accident" and the sub would have a lesson to make sure she is more careful in the future. 


You are right... perhaps using the word mad was a bad idea. But I can understand why getting mad at an incident like that would not be safe, but may happen.

Either way, I'd be too embarassed to really respond to any  critique!




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