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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/9/2009 1:36:35 PM

ranja

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and there is also this: you might be in-love to start with (if you're lucky) but this in-love thing will not last forever...i might be wrong but i don't think there are people who can claim that they have been in-love for say 10 years or so...the in-love-ness will wear off as far as i'm aware...and it depends what you have left between you then...hopefully just love

some people need to be in-love...when the in-love-ness wanes they will find another person to fall in-love with...i would get tired of that no-matter how much a high being in-love is...

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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/9/2009 1:47:35 PM

Venalismihi

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Agape love endures no matter what. Eros/Cupid love has the capacity to falter and fluctuate. I know which I would desire and give.

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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/9/2009 5:56:58 PM

califsue

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Anything is possible. For me, I am not looking to be in love with the one I serve. I do want/need an emotional/mental connection
with the person but I am not looking to fall in love. I have been there, done that in both BDSM/Vanilla life. As my current Sir has said his limit with one person is about 5 years and for me I would have to agree. I have had others tell me they are sorry that I no longer believe in love. I believe it is possible for others, I just don't think it is possible for me to be "IN LOVE" with someone for the rest of my life. NOW..who knows what the universe has in store for me and may want to show me that it is possible in the next few years.

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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/10/2009 4:47:06 AM

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Love is when the other person's happiness is essential to your own. This is the rule of thumb i apply and by that standard, yes i love my Master. And by that standard, i know He loves me, though He won't say the words.

i do not need Him to say it, when His actions show it.

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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/11/2009 6:14:00 AM

DarkEmpress

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I think so. My slave loves and seeks play with other Dommes but isnt in love with them. He is my alpha and we do love each other though
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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/11/2009 7:27:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MRandme

Love is when the other person's happiness is essential to your own. This is the rule of thumb i apply and by that standard, yes i love my Master. And by that standard, i know He loves me, though He won't say the words.

i do not need Him to say it, when His actions show it.

*smiles* In our marriage,it's the same but from the other side of the kneel. I am verbally efusive in my love for Carol. She doesn't say it so much. It doesn't matter. As I say to her, "I perceive every single time you obey as an eloquent 'I love you' backed up with deeds. I feel very loved."

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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

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RE: Love vs D/s - 5/12/2009 6:36:22 PM

berrysurprise

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i like that...

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