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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:11:34 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:26:10 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:37:37 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		I dont know...apparently the deal was the cash value for 5 of me...and since Im not worth very much apparently....how about I mail you a nickle?

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:40:58 AM   
Jeffff


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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:41:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......


Kick that bitch to the fuckin' curb.........


Ron

(Or, seriously, figure out a way to get the kids out of the house, leave go of the cupboards, have everything ready so there is nothing needing doing, and have a large and long 'Come to Jesus'.  Really 

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:41:40 AM   
SailingBum


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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......


This should be good now she is attempting to justify why she lied.  I get the warm fuzzies thinking about how a 6 year old responds.

You flatter yourself way to much self obsessed.  There is always the knee jerkers poor you ppl in life.  Like I said The grow up forum is down the hall and to the left!

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:46:15 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		Shrugs, maybe it was immature, maybe it wasnt, who knows...BUT..it did get me what I needed, and it actually helped..so...NEENER NEENER BOO BOO thtthhhbbbtttttt

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:48:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SailingBum

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......


Kick that bitch to the fuckin' curb.........


Ron

(Or, seriously, figure out a way to get the kids out of the house, leave go of the cupboards, have everything ready so there is nothing needing doing, and have a large and long 'Come to Jesus'.  Really 


The best part of her ran down her daddys leg.


Now see here, Bumstead, I rather like Ghita, and she does do girlish immature things from time to time, but hey don't we all?

Ron

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:49:46 AM   
ghitaPVH


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Now see here, Bumstead, I rather like Ghita, and she does do girlish immature things from time to time, but hey don't we all?

Ron


somehow...Id love to see Ron do some immature girlish thing....

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:49:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......


Kick that bitch to the fuckin' curb.........


Ron

(Or, seriously, figure out a way to get the kids out of the house, leave go of the cupboards, have everything ready so there is nothing needing doing, and have a large and long 'Come to Jesus'.  Really 


The best part of her ran down her daddys leg.


Now see here, Bumstead, I rather like Ghita, and she does do girlish immature things from time to time, but hey don't we all?

Ron


giggles

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 7:56:55 AM   
SailingBum


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: SailingBum

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

LMAO....yall are just way too funny, you know that?

OK...you wanna know why I "lied" in my OP? and no, I dont think I really lied..more of a ...asking in a hypothitcal way type thing..anyway...heres why. More and more I have noticed, that when people who are fairly well known on these forums create a thread going "I have this problem and Im not sure how to handle it" most of the answers are all "oh, poor you, just leave the fucker" answers...and those werent the types of answers I wanted, I wanted to know what answers you (generallyspeakingyou) would give in a more objective sense.......


Kick that bitch to the fuckin' curb.........


Ron

(Or, seriously, figure out a way to get the kids out of the house, leave go of the cupboards, have everything ready so there is nothing needing doing, and have a large and long 'Come to Jesus'.  Really 


The best part of her ran down her daddys leg.


Now see here, Bumstead, I rather like Ghita, and she does do girlish immature things from time to time, but hey don't we all?

Ron


lol reminds you it was your post...  naaaa i dont do girlish things

so...NEENER NEENER BOO BOO thtthhhbbbtttttt she is her own worst enemy! 

What a great topic for springer
my boyfriend wont beat me enuff ... but he beats other girls just fine lol where did i put jerrys phone #


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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:00:44 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		nawww...you gotta be inbred trailer trash with no teeth and a mixed marriage while cheating on your spouce with their sibling to get on Jerry....maybe I could make Montel....

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:01:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah, SailingBum...I'm sure you ~always~ tell the truth...100% of the time, in every situation- have and will continue to for your entire life.

Personally, I'd rather deal with someone that tells a harmless untruth than an insufferable know-it-all; but that's just my two cents.  Seems to me you have taken a rather vested interest in how you perceive ghita's integrity.   I suggest you ponder why on your way back to the grow up forum you speak of- since I can certainly see why you know the directions to that place so well. 

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:14:09 AM   
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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:18:02 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		Aint she sexy?

I find it a bit ironic...that it wasnt until AFTER someone else mentions that Im immature...that we all have to be told we are immature.....just think how much less immaturity this thread would have had in it if no one had thought to call me immature.....

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:28:07 AM   
SailingBum


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Yeah, SailingBum...I'm sure you ~always~ tell the truth...100% of the time, in every situation- have and will continue to for your entire life.

Personally, I'd rather deal with someone that tells a harmless untruth than an insufferable know-it-all; but that's just my two cents.  Seems to me you have taken a rather vested interest in how you perceive ghita's integrity.   I suggest you ponder why on your way back to the grow up forum you speak of- since I can certainly see why you know the directions to that place so well. 


naaa i don't always do anything.  I do try to do unto other as i would have them do to me.  I will take your advice under advisement.

BadOne 

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:36:46 AM   
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Aint she sexy?

I find it a bit ironic...that it wasnt until AFTER someone else mentions that Im immature...that we all have to be told we are immature.....just think how much less immaturity this thread would have had in it if no one had thought to call me immature.....


Frankly Ghita, even if your OP did state the issue concerned yourself and your S/O, my original opinion still remains the same. It is immaterial that you slightly altered that fact. Little things like that are of no consequence as far as I'm concerned.


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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:50:24 AM   
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oh yeah...Jeff, i'm sure as our one true Lord and Savior anything with Your signature on it would make the mods stop right away.....Because afterall, they know who You are....dont they??


On your knees when you say that, bitch.  Show proper respect to the One Twue Lord and Savior.

Cali



need more caffiene....i read that as the One Twat Lord and Savior

kitten, mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:52:32 AM   
MidnightFoxGirl


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Status: offline 		well, i don't have as much experience with this issue but I'l try to help as best i can. The question probably isn't "why can't I hurt her when she wants it" but more "Is this the person I should be with"
It sounds like a problem within the relationship itself if you can't get past the uneasiness with her but can with others. my advice would be to cool it with the abuse play for now and work through this with her or, if need be, end the relationship and move on to someone else. The relationship won't work if both parties are in agreement about things.
Anyway, i hope this helps a little.

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RE: getting past that "omg this is abuse" fee... - 1/8/2008 8:54:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

nawww...you gotta be inbred trailer trash with no teeth and a mixed marriage while cheating on your spouce with their sibling to get on Jerry....maybe I could make Montel....


OOoo go on a sylvia browne wednesday.  maybe your great-granny can give advice!

kitten, very tongue-in-cheek and being playful. 

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