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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/6/2008 9:27:06 PM   
creatrix


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Status: offline 		COOL! yay! I am so amazed at the response posts! (i lost this thread and couldn't find it)

All the girls I am pals with are of a mind to discuss sex, orgasm, toys, sizes, fetishes, etc., without any qualms (there is a group of about 25 of us (straight, bi and lesbian) that meet twice a week to just hang out, eat, etc.). We all are very openminded and curious. I have one friend who said she didn't understand what the big deal about sex was... and come to find out, she never had an orgasm... (of course that is a whole 'nother thread) btw, she does NOW! *yay*. So our group had been a great place for bouncing things around and satisfying various curiosities.

Anyway, awhile back, maybe two months ago, I asked of how female ejaculation comes about for them, ie; masturbation (hands or toys), lover's stimulation (fingers, penis, position), etc. and they starred at me like I was from outerspace! Mouths open and eyes wide! Only ONE of them had ever even HEARD of it, and thought it was a farce!

So then... I was battled with questions, and felt like I was telling highschool girls what an orgasm felt like! (I realized then, that I had opened up the biggest can of worms ever in our discussions!). They all wanted to know... EVERYTHING! I was so amazed! I really didn't know what to tell them except for my experience. They all are doing "research" now on their own! (YAY!) I have yet to find out how they are doing on that, as I moved recently and the holidays and such got us all crazy... so I am going to have to write or call them and find out how their progress is going.

When I saw the post on another thread that mentioned that only 4% of women even DO, that is when I thought, SHIT! I am SOOOO blessed! I was shocked! I really am curious HOW it happens, where the spot is, IS it the G spot, and is there more than one G spot? I have had similar experiences to what the other women earlier on this thread talked of ever since I began having sex... totally soaking whatever place I have been. So does this mean that all along this has been happening?

See, I have always been highly orgasmic, so I thought that was all it was... I pass out often with a heavy duty orgasm (if I have a good "operator" that is) and that ALWAYS results in a puddle (Now, i wonder if anyone else passes out!?)... hmm....

NOW, I am wondering other things... 

So, if it IS its own substance, this ejaculate (not piss and not cum), where on EARTH is it stored in the body, how is it "manufactured" in our bodies and what of those who never release it... is there a "blue-balls" thing that happens? does it dry up? What can we learn about it and how can we learn about it (or at least I want to know). Yeah, can of worms INDEED!

Alright, let's see what else I can find out here... Geeze, I feel like a freak all of a sudden... oh well...

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 6:51:26 AM   
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theres a good link here http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

Most of the misconceptions/old wives tales are born out of misunderstanding and little working knowledge until recently. for example this partial quote from the above site

The first person known to have described the "female prostate" in Western medical literature was Reinier De Graaf (1641-1673) in the year 1672.  Despite his observation modern Western medicine did not fully accept the concept of a "female prostate" until 2001 when the Federative Committee on Anatomical Terminology agreed to use this term in their next edition of "Histology Terminology"

Nearly 330 years just to be officially recognised as being part of half of the population???? bloody hell no wonder we are all so confused about it.
The first time I "gushed" I was 17.....the boyfriend thought he had "busted my bladder" I assured him that was impossible with what he was packing
For me it usually has to be after a long session of multiple small Os that build up to the "big one" or using my eroscillator..(then it happens pretty quickly and more often)
The more aroused I am the bigger the shockwave and yes I have had quite a few blackout moments, purrrrrr so nice to have someone put your lights out without punching you out.
Theres a reason the french call an orgasm "La Petit Mort" or the little death...trancendence or spiritual release.
Smiles I dont think you are a freak in that regard, I think its only with the help of the internet that we hear about it as much now, from forums like this, sites like clitoris.com etc
If you are a freak well you have good company
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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 7:01:37 AM   
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Status: offline 		Daddy makes me squirt all the time...(By the way before I met Daddy I didn't know i could do that) I was VERY embarrassed the 1st time it happen. I thought perhaps with my excitement I had had "an accident" It doesn't taste like urine though. 

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:17:35 PM   
creatrix


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I am glad to know I am not a freak.
(It really doesn't matter if I am I guess, anyway, it is awesome! sux to not be this way I would say, huh?)

I don't know anyone else that ever has passed out. When I am with a man for the first time, and they are "hitting it" right, I stop them and warn them... that I may pass out...

I remember the first time it happened, with my second husband, and he thought he killed me. I was out for about 10 minutes I guess... Scared the living shit right out of him. After we had split up, I had it happen with a fella i was dating and I was out for about 15 minutes... He had me in the car wrapped in a blanket ready to take me to the hospital... and I came to! LOL WAS THAT WIERD! After that experience, I knew it was something I need to be responsible about and tell someone if I am going to be with them sexually.

My buddie, the one that ALWAYS got me to "pour", never had a woman pass out on him or "pour", and he resolved to ALWAYS make me pass out and pour... and has, at times more than once in a session (he's totally enamored with the thought!) ***GAWD I MISS HIM!!!***

I wonder if that is anything that guys like or if it is just too freaky (well, not the guys here, I imagine) but who knows. I bet a sub-male wouldn't want his Domme to passout w/o knowing... ikes!

Well, anyway, I look forward to more talk about the female prostate and the passout thing...

I need to check out that site. (www.clitoris.com) I am interested in how my body works, I am surprised that more women aren't. I wonder what they are afraid of?

I ain't 'fraid! :D


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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:18:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: creatrix

Thanks LucyLastic
(cool name!)

I am glad to know I am not a freak.



Who said you weren't?

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:20:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		*ppssttt, Lucy is definitely a freak, pass it on*

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:27:58 PM   
piercedntattooed


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Status: offline 		hmmm 4% does seem low to me as well
Master can make me squirt a number of times in one night, and they typically get harder, stronger and they damn sure wipe me out, they exhaust me
but they are outstanding!

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:32:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't squirt,

I gush!! 

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 5:42:58 PM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		I think our perticular focus group.. ie us being very highly sexed femme fatales... who really enjoy sex.... might be squewing the whole 4% bit. In the average population yes 4%. In our lovely community of nymphs.. well we *are* the 4%.

I found out I could squirt one day with an ex girlfriend of mine.. We were hot and heavy.. and suddenly my orgaism built up like it had never before, and then *splat* it literialy hit the door a few feet away. I freaked out.. she went and inspected it.. and we did some research.

Luckily my girl can get me to all the time.. and a special sub I was seeing briefly could get me to do it 2, 3 times in a row all together with just his hands and mouth.

I can always tell when it is comming, and I could hit a target if I was paying attention instead of thrashing around. LOL

as some one else said it is draining when it does happen, but damn do I sleep good then. Otherwise sex just super charges me.. and I will bug the hell out of the person untill I have came enough. Or in the case of a lousy lay of an ex boyfriend throw my leg over his thigh as he tries to sleep and masterbate.... Loudly... usualy fantasizing outloud about someone else. *chuckles* only time I ever got a half way decent roll with him.

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 8:08:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		apparently I'm one of the "rare ones", too...been squirting/gushing for years...maybe all the squirters are here...!

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 8:15:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetstorm

I don't squirt,

I gush!! 


That too. Ever been doing it doggie style and made a waterfall?

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 8:17:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm just popping in with some mops and buckets. The floor in here is getting a bit slippery.

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 8:19:26 PM   
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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 9:07:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		<Raises hand>... I'm in the sometimes-passes-out club too.

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 9:43:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: breatheasone

Daddy makes me squirt all the time...(By the way before I met Daddy I didn't know i could do that) I was VERY embarrassed the 1st time it happen. I thought perhaps with my excitement I had had "an accident" It doesn't taste like urine though. 


I was horrified the first time it happened too...I really thought I had wet myself.  after the 3rd time we finally figured out what was happening.  I felt much better, but I still get a little embarrased, for some reason.  I guess I have a little puritan lurking inside me somewhere

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 9:48:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: creatrix

I wonder if that is anything that guys like or if it is just too freaky (well, not the guys here, I imagine) but who knows. I bet a sub-male wouldn't want his Domme to passout w/o knowing... ikes!



a former b/f of mine had a girlfriend who did the passing out thing...she didn't tell him before the first time and it scared the crap out of him.  but if I remember correctly, once he got over his initial shock, he was pretty proud of himself every time she did it after that.

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/7/2008 10:06:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was in my  30's  when my first time it occured  though the guy had no clue and he got really freaked out about and was not very happy which at the time did not do me much good.  Luckily nowadays it is seen as a good thing and many guys are aware and thrilled about having a squirter

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 1/8/2008 3:28:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		From what i have read, the aspects that are similar chemically to urine relate to the fact that the ejaculate travels down the Urethra upon exit, and picks some up some "leftover" on the way.



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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 2/27/2008 12:20:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hi. This is Daddy Deerest, and this is a post I made to another group a few years ago when I was together with my gf. Some of it isn't relative any longer, but most of it is.
I do not believe that only 4% of the female pop. squirts, I know that 50% of my gf's have squirted, but I try hard. I almost gave myself Carpel Tunnel Syndrome from working my wrists so hard! Oh! But what fun,
I can positively attest to the fact that it is not pee. For when she peed on me there was always a big big difference. And no, she never seemed to run out of the damed stuff no matter how much I made her cum and I could and did make her come many different ways and none the same. She had clitoris orgasms, vaginal orgasms squirting orgasms, which were the most intense and anal orgasms.
Don't ask me why she ever left me.
So here it is...

I've found that most of the time, there is no taste, nor smell, nor colour, just clear, cup fulls of hot forceful, squirts, that depending on what position I'm in, may choke me, shoot down my throat, splash my face, run between my legs, or I can just watch it spray out in torrents, onto the bed, or floor, or wherever.
This is happening more and more-not that I'm complaining mind you. I think it's awesome, except we have to change the sheets and put down extra towels and shit.
Before, when we first started to try anal, it was me loosening her up from behind, lots of rimming, then fingers and lube, then slowly, very slowly, my cock, an inch at a time, with me talking to her the whole time, keeping her focused, grounded. Until she was relaxed enough to push back, and then it was hard bangin' time. She really loves it. Sometimes more so than in her pussy.
So, but lately we've been starting a different way. First, she gives me head 'til she's chokin' and gaggin' and spewin' this viscous(look it up), ultra slippery, saliva, that's much better than lube, and she slathers my hard cock with it, and then climbs on board, facing me, and slowly inserts me into her unprepared, tight, asshole, while I try not to move until she's down on it. And then, slowly, I start to buck her. Gently at first, but only for a few moments until she's screaming at me to fuck her ass off! And Boy do I ever!
Within minutes, she's coming like crazy! Nothing touching her pussy. No friction.No clitoris stimulation. It's like I'm pounding her G-spot from behind, and as soon as this starts, I say shit like  "Okay, baby! Come On. Soak Me! Spray Me with your come!";. and things like this, and Man does she ever! Non-stop. For as long as I can last, or as much time as we have to play. Yesterday, we had anal sex for an hour and a half, and Like I said, The laundry bill is huge!
She also squirts while I go down on her, sometimes gagging me with her come! What a dream come true!
So, as you all can see, this isn't a problem, as far as we're concerned. Although our asshole neighbours have called the landlord on us for having loud sex. The Bastards.

So there you go people...It takes practise and trust on her part that she won't shit herself, because it's the same muscles used to hold all that in too. And if she's trying to hold in her shit, it won't happen. We found it best if she had an enema first to clean herself out, that gave her the confidence to relax and push the right muscles. And I've found that coaxing really helps too.  Good luck,
Daddy Deerest

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RE: Female Ejaculation/Squirters... only 4%? - 2/27/2008 4:10:11 AM   
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I really am curious HOW it happens, where the spot is, IS it the G spot, and is there more than one G spot?
Wait, really?  I never had an issue finding it fingering a girl, and I'm a guy that's *really* inexperienced. It feels completely different. Take the hand you masturbate with, stimulate yourself a bit. Now fold the fingers as flat as you can into your palm like you're trying to grasp something or make devil horns.

Now, shove'm in there. Slowly curl them. You should feel a rough but generally soft spot 3.5 to 4 inches in. There's your g-spot. Keep curling and uncurling them, and enjoy.

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