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RE: Safety when visiting in real life - 1/16/2008 8:26:22 AM

lovetokissnylons

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LOTS of good advice on this thread. Thank you to the Dominas who've responded.

And, thank you to OP for having the courage to air his uncertainty and apprehension -- I certainly know one person who shares this and I'll bet there's a lot of us like this !

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RE: Safety when visiting in real life - 1/16/2008 12:25:00 PM

Siona

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Wondering how things went.

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RE: Safety when visiting in real life - 1/16/2008 12:29:01 PM

sub4hire

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So am I. Hopefully he is safe and sound.

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RE: Safety when visiting in real life - 1/16/2008 12:42:23 PM

agoodboy

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Had a weird experience awhile back. Swapped messages with someone who wanted to meet, and move beyond textbook pro to where I would still pay her, but we would have sex. Said she wanted to be monogamous. But we were still in our first day of messaging, so actual monogamy could not really have been on the table. Then she asked if we could meet in a hotel the first time. When I said no, she offered to meet at a bondage house, but wanted my real name and birth date for the reservation.

This seemed a bit suspicious to me. Then she starts talking about how she didn't like her mobile phone. I got the impression she wanted to know what kind of phone I have, but I didn't offer the info.Then she mentions a particular kink device that she wants to play with (I don't recall what it was) but when I looked at the web site, my virus protection started going wild.

Maybe a lot of this was just coincidence. But it gave me the willies. So I bailed.

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