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simple -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (4/4/2004 6:29:24 AM)

ThankYou for Your Opinion Master Draxxe




Sinergy -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (4/26/2004 7:16:50 PM)

I fell into BDSM about 5 years ago for various reasons, and would never intimate that I was Old Guard or had gone that route. I have, however, read and discussed it with many people and see the value in the approach. But it is like (my opinion here) anything else, no approach is perfect because it is applied to human beings who comprehend and practice varying levels of it. To say that person A is better trained than person B because of [blah] is simply the circumstantial logical fallacy at work.

All professional hockey players are male. Danielle Dube (F) was the goalie of the Long Beach Ice Dogs professional hockey team in 2003, therefore Danielle Dube is male. The logic is flawed.

And having said that, the martial art I have studied the longest involved use of pressure points for inflicting rather grievous pain. Gave a seminar at a play party on how to use them for fun and perversion.

Sinergy




stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (5/4/2004 5:38:48 AM)

WELL SAID!!!!!


[:)]




stormiKnightBEAR -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (5/4/2004 5:43:39 AM)

Again... everyone has protocols. Master has HIS and since that does not fit your way of thinking you make the decision to not read or whatever.


It's like the saying "It's your loss", who knows what you might be missing.


Have a good day.


stormi
property of Master Bear




LadyBeckett -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (5/4/2004 8:31:25 AM)

Draxxe *mauahhhhh* What a delicious surprise!! Welcome! [;)]




MistressDREAD -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (12/24/2004 9:44:31 PM)

runs up and stands in line for My Lady Beckett ~kiss~




RealityFix -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (12/26/2004 7:34:17 AM)

Sighs, I try not to nit pick over grammar, but get to the gist of what is being expressed.

So I am going to ignore the "editing fetish" parts of this, and just address the origional poster.

I feel that focusing on such things only demeans the one doing it. It always comes across to me as petty ,and small minded. Not to mention a bit obsessive. That having been said........
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Welcome to the boards,Draxxe!

Yes, I do see many "masters" with attitude and ego problems, and perhaps if they had begun on the bottom thier ego control would have been more realistic and controlled. And do we not value a Master's ability to excercise self control?

But not everyone can do it the og way, or sees a need to. For myself, I tried subbing breifly about ten years ago. I simply couldn't deal with it, it pissed me off no end. It went totally against the grain of my core instincts.

Yet it was still a valuable learning experience about how subs can feel,and what strength it takes to go there. One I will not forget.

Pardoxically it made my views on submission both more compassionate, and in some ways harsher and more strict. I listen to concerns, and don't take needs for granted.

But I also don't tolerate a lot of excuses for screwing up,and the buck stays stuck.. NO ONE gets to pass it under my roof-me included.




draxxe -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (8/22/2017 2:10:47 AM)

Wow what a memory. I remember this post. I was explaining where I came from and the experience I had up to that point, during this time I was studying gorean. I have since figured out it was not for me and reverted back to leather. Lady Beckett. Lots of love to you. Has become someone I will always respect. Been to many classes, work shops, events, ran dungeons, gave classes, and workshops. Even earned leathers in two different communities and a sash at one point.




DesFIP -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (8/22/2017 1:36:34 PM)

Where I come from the Old Guard were gay leathermen after WWII. You're a half century too young to qualify. All the ones I knew when young are dead. Many from AIDS, the rest from old age.

You also are too young to remember when being openly homosexual was a felony. This matters because that's why the OG developed those protocols. Cops wouldn't agree to bottom in order to arrest people. Entrapment, it's a thing.

Once people didn't need to do this to have fulfilling sex and stay out of jail, they stopped doing it that way. Look up Stonewall 1969.





ThatDizzyChick -> RE: A Master: Opinions on BDSM (8/22/2017 5:45:13 PM)

quote:

I am old Guard to the truest form

OK, no need to pay any attention to the rest of the post.




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