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a lost girl in need.... - 8/25/2005 6:33:54 PM

C0RPSEBRlDE

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yea so im new..
((my mums a member XD))
and im looking for one thing
((but that could change..))
a teacher
i want a teacher
either a sub or a dom or a slave
it dosnt matter

but thats what im looking for..
a teacher for advice and tips

<3 <3 <3

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 8/25/2005 11:52:56 PM

subversiveone

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do you ever talk to your mum about it?

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 8/26/2005 1:40:02 AM

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good luck in your search for a teacher!

hopefully you can find a few pointers here and there in the forums in the meantime. :)

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 8/26/2005 7:57:04 AM

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she knows..shes a member of collarme also
...but somethings i just dont want to talk about with her..

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 8/26/2005 8:11:39 PM

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understandable reaction to getting too in depth with mom... Good luck and have fun here at collarme! I'll bet you're going to find a lot of great info here!

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 1:24:04 AM

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Lost Girl;
Keep reading ... message boards, profiles, stories and in time you will learn about BDSM, peoples desires and your own lusts & desires. You will need to put some thought into the what you study, but Collarme is good place to be when you are learning.

Avoid the personal contact until you can establish your own list of limits. Once you have your list of both hard and soft limits you can then seek on the has the same list. Remember, once you are tied up you only have the dominate's limits to live by.

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 5:16:46 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Plcy
Avoid the personal contact until you can establish your own list of limits. Once you have your list of both hard and soft limits you can then seek on the has the same list. Remember, once you are tied up you only have the dominate's limits to live by.

I strongly disagree with this last paragraph. Offline organizations often have active educational programs. There is no reason to limit oneself to online sources. Get out, meet people. Not only does one learn, one might find the "right one,"

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 6:25:28 AM

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Not only does one learn, one might find the "right one,"

But John, then she would be lost to the online only doms...can't you see the tragedy in your advice.

*wink*

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 6:33:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TallDarkAndWitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Not only does one learn, one might find the "right one,"

But John, then she would be lost to the online only doms...can't you see the tragedy in your advice.

*wink*

Taggard

Why, Taggart, don't you see? I WANT to cause just that tragedy [evil laugh]

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 7:00:04 AM

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I WANT to cause just that tragedy [evil laugh]

But then you would be denying her the chance to learn her hard and soft limits online! You see, when one reads how loud that whip can crack online, one feels instantly the desire to kneel to the lash (or that one can never kneel to the lash).

You are a cruel cruel man to deny those slaves their years of online frustration...not to mention the countless number of wank sessions you have just cut off at the knees.

*smile*

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/3/2005 7:50:32 AM

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you dont have a profile visible.
is that so your mom doesnt recognize your writing, info on here?

if femsub, sure write me and i can share...i have mentored a few girls.
~~shy

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/9/2005 6:27:41 AM

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I did not mean to spark such controversy. On the other hand I will stick with my advise with only this small admendment: Avoid the one on one persoal contact. Give youself a chance to grow in knowledge and wisdom before you try to trust someone that wants to tie you up with ropes and chains.

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/9/2005 7:00:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Plcy

I did not mean to spark such controversy. On the other hand I will stick with my advise with only this small admendment: Avoid the one on one persoal contact. Give youself a chance to grow in knowledge and wisdom before you try to trust someone that wants to tie you up with ropes and chains.

I assume then, in your view, the only reason for personal contact is play?

Might I suggest that there are many reasons for meeting people face to face. Not only do you see them in a multifaceted environment but you can be surrounded by people "who get it."

Online is nice, but it is highly limited.

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/9/2005 8:37:20 AM

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hey lost girl see you at the bus stop so you wont be lost no more

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/9/2005 2:30:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: C0RPSEBRlDE

yea so im new..
((my mums a member XD))
and im looking for one thing
((but that could change..))
a teacher
i want a teacher
either a sub or a dom or a slave
it dosnt matter

but thats what im looking for..
a teacher for advice and tips

<3 <3 <3

I think if you do a lot of reading, I strongly recommend non-fiction first, and ask questions, you can learn alot.

But also your mom is a good place to start. She's the one who will know best what it is that she does and likes and possibly why. She doesn't need to give you explicite details but if you have concerns about her or are just curious, the fact that she's let you know suggests to me that she would be open to talking more with you.

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/10/2005 1:10:44 AM

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Little one. Don NOT learn person to person online (at least "Dom " to "sub" info")

there are many wonderful people online but you don't know who it is you are typing to they can say just about anything! And if you should meet a person you tink might be a "teacher

Take perscusions (sp?) make sure you have safe calls AND USE THEM! NEVER play on the first meeting even better have somone with you. A few years ago we had a subbie who met a sicko online and she would up cut up.

Now do not mis unsertand me. I have me some great men online met them and well they were great guys.. not good for me but for somone like you would have been wonderfull guys.

You sould like a prfound submissive.

If you want to find out more emalil me I'll help but me thinks there may be better around than I am

BJ

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/12/2005 12:42:35 PM

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Hello lost girl

I know what it feels like to have that lost feeling, I am from San Francisco 48 /f / switch/ living real time within the life style. I have a Master and we live together. If you need a friend I am here for your questions and friendship if ya like :)

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/21/2005 1:03:10 PM

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looks like we lost her!

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/28/2005 9:44:55 AM

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Mum forbided her it cos of too-much-speaking or ... ? oO

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RE: a lost girl in need.... - 9/28/2005 10:16:24 AM

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I agree with JOHN,lifestyle groups is a great place to learn,local people that will be there to answer your questions etc.ONline relationships is very hard for all and esp one with no experience etc..DIANE AND I are always available to answer questions and offer any help the we can, after all even we started as a newbies grins...BOUNTY

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