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IsabelleStPierre -> Introducing...well...me (1/11/2008 5:18:40 PM)
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Greetings Everyone,
Well, this space seems to be for introductions, so I thought I would take a moment to introduce myself to the boards. To be honest I hate these types of things since I do not usually like to talk about myself all that much.
Before I get too far I would like to say that I am a pre-op MTF transsexual, so if you are bothered by that in anyway, please stop reading here for that is who I am. I am happy within my own skin and proud of whom I am and all I have had to endure to simply make it so this point in my life...lets just say it’s been a very hard journey at times.
I have been in and out of the lifestyle most of my life, with my first discovering it back when I was a teenager. At that time I fell in with some folks who where into the lifestyle and they accepted me for me; that more than anything has always been one of my attractions to the lifestyle...being accepted as myself.
What I didn’t realize at that age was that I had a submissive streak, well, perhaps streak isn’t an accurate description...i was submissive to my very core. What I also didn’t realize was that in reality it goes even further then that into the realm of slave, but it wouldn’t be for a number of years that I would come to this realization. Anyone interested in my story of discovering that I was in fact a slave can find that story on my profile here on Collarme.com.
Some of my views of the lifestyle are a bit different then others I have run across during the years. For me it is about the exchange of power between Mistress and sub/slave. I firmly believe it is completely possible to have a M/s relationship without ever having to resort to some of the common BDSM activities found in the lifestyle. For me it’s not about kinky sex or sex at all for that matter, for me it is about service and the doing for others. Some may say that makes me a service oriented slave and to some degree that would be true, however for me it doesn’t matter what the form of service is, whether is cooking, cleaning, or serving in some more personal way. Guess what I am getting at is that my service is up to the Mistress I am in service to.
While I do have wants and needs, I also realize that those are secondary to the wants and needs of the one I serve. I also know that any good Mistress will use those wants as some form of enticement or reward for outstanding service.
I have a number of very important factors I consider the cornerstones to a M/s relationship; communications, honesty, and trust. These three factors are tightly woven together and it is not possible to truly have one without the others. First and foremost I need to be able to completely trust the one I serve; for once I submit to someone I am placing my entire being under their care, guardianship and guidance. To get to a point where I would feel comfortable doing that it takes honesty and communications to build that trust; it’s not a point that can be reached overnight either and takes work on both parties to truly happen.
Anyway...enough about me. If there is anything anyone wants to know, please just ask!
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