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Suleiman -> RE: Not sure (1/12/2008 9:07:00 AM)
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That's normal, sweetie. A lot of folks who are highly dominant in every other aspect of their lives want to set aside their burdens and let their lover take charge for a while. With a little care and attention, such individuals often make truly spectacular submissives, because the same traits which make them dominant give them the strength and will to commit completely once they allow themselves to commit.
So welcome to CM. There's a lot of good folks here. There's also a lot of jackasses, and some times they even wear the same profile name. That's how it goes in any group. Ask a question, just about any question, and you'll get a lot of feedback. Some of it might even be helpful. Don't worry about labelling yourself. Plenty of folks will volunteer to do it for you. Just relax, get to know the scene, and take the time to get to know yourself. If it turns out that what you really want is to let go and submit to the will of someone, great. If you only want to do it part-time, great. If you want a long term relationship with someone who'll swap roles with you periodically, this is the forum for that. It can get a little tricky, but still doable. If you decide to give submission a try and it turns out not to be your thing, then heck, maybe it was just curiosity, or exhaustion. Mostly, just relax.
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