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ORIGINAL: Aylee I am wondering why the "loser mails" have not come with friends requests. Those people that keep sending me the same email and I keep deleting it after the FIRST "no thank you." Why do they want to submit, but do not want to be friends? I accepted... Why do they NOT want to be "friends"? Because many of them don't want to be "friends", you are new here. Some want to actually be friends, but many don't want to be "friends" only. Most want to be "friends" with benefits. Judgmental yet non-specific. Lame way to dodge the Mods if you ask me. MzMia, the reason you elicit negative responses is because you begin your posts with negativity. The fact that you do this REPEATEDLY tells me you do it on purpose. I think I'll stick with my initial "passive-aggressive" analysis of you from another thread. People who want drama incite it. People who want to argue make flagrant commentary to get their targets - then say something they think is witty and pat themselves on the back. To avoid the hypocrite label, I'll pointedly say both the previous examples fit you to a tee, which can be deduced by anyone who takes the time to inflict themselves with your very callous commentary. [Most want to be friends with benefits, indeed - did you take a poll and determine that from actual statistics, or make it up? I'm not seeing a poll for it...just your as-ever vocal opinion. Don't mislead by trying to make opinions look like fact, if you really want a reasonable conversation.] The best way to deal with this is probably block, and I believe it's time for me to exercise that handy little widget...which is, like the Friends list, nothing more than a tool to be used as its user sees fit. Applying an underlying motivation to a tool is like applying emotions to a goldfish, so in essence, you're just flaming the people who use it. Drama and argument generation, all rolled into one. Guess you couldn't resist. Oh well. And...like the other thread, I've posted all that is worth posting to this one, so I'll leave it at that. The observations offered here are free, like the site, and possess whatever value you assign to them.
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