Termyn8or
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Moon, I just had a look and I see you are in Utah. I knoiw people from Utah and this does not surprise me. I suspect that you left, that you were not dismissed.
In Mormon country, if you are a Woman, you are a piece of property. While it might not be the law there anymore, it is still the attitude. I could tell you stories about my people from Utah that would put hair on your chest, curl it and then take it off in one fell swoop. You just don't know.
As a Woman, if you want full rights as a human being, get out of Utah. Yes the laws have been rewritten but the attitudes of those who enforce it have not changed. The cops, the lawyers, the judges, they all think of you as a chattel. I would never allow a female relative, or member of my chosen family to go to Utah.
I AM TELLING YOU, MOVE OUT OF THERE. The guy I know from Utah literally tortured his whole family there, and the malecentric attitudes of the police and courts let him get away with it for along time. Now the kids are fucked up, to the point that when their Mother died they rolled her up in a carpet and put her in a storage unit for eight months. You may have heard of this, I know these people. I don't hang with them but I know them.
If you have any marketable skills and the ability to relocate, I would suggest you do so. Yes it is nice in Utah, but for a Woman, it is not utopia to say the least. When there you are a secomd class citizen.
And even if you have a valid cause of action against this guy/couple, the court system is biased against you. The courts in other states are much different. If you ran over here to Ohio, and stayed with me, if we got on the outs they would almost give you my house. They can't because it is protected, but if not they might.
Utah is a place where guys can abuse Women with impunity. The law is written, but enforced selectively. Utah is a nice place to visit, but you don't want to live there. From what I have heard, if I were you I would be packing right now.
Utah is indeed a beautiful place, it's a shame that people fucked it up. All the way back to Joe Smith. The attitude has been set. And it continues to this day.
When Men are conferred power that they did not earn they get like this. It is human nature. When they can abuse you and get away with it, if that is their desire what do you think they are going continue to do ?
You are not going to find a good Man in Utah. You come here, OK. I'll give you two weeks on the couch. Within that two weeks you find a job, get your shit together. I do not offer this to everyone but I know how it is in Utah. Two things, do not rip me off and do not lie to me. That doesn't mean we are a couple, I require that of everyone. Hooking up that way is a whole different deal.
But I would help get you out of there. Just think, in Ohio you have the same rights as anyone else, possibly more, and they are enforced. It is way different than Utah.
Two weeks. After that you have a job, then you find an apartment. If you can live by that, come. If not you must become my concubine. I would think you might want some time to be on your own, in a place where your rights are enforced. But we don't know if you would ever want me, or if I would ever want you. But as a fellow human being, I am willing to help you get the fuck out of there.
Whatever you do, get out of Utah.
And be well.
T
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Seriously, don't get bogged down with the negative energy. You must realize there was some good in him or some reason he was in your life, so think "I hope you make better decisions to not hurt others and find some real peace and happiness in your life" and then LET IT GO. Trust me, I have had people wrong me in some horrendous ways...but when you can let it go, a huge weight is lifted. What you put out is what you get back, and when focusing on positive energy and ridding your life of negative, you will be AMAZED at how good your life can be! 
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