QnofH3arts
Posts: 35
Joined: 6/19/2004 Status: offline
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I probably should not be posting here because I am a Female dominant, however, I have an opinion that may be relevant... at least to Me I trained from the bottom up, by choice. I am one of those people who simply has to know all there is to know about something that interests Me. I explored all facets of the lifestyle, except those very few that I knew from the beginning were and will always be limits to Me. In that exploration, I discovered other things that I choose never to engage in again as well as things I thought I would have no interest in that I now enjoy immensely. Very few of the people with whom I trained or explored would be recognized as "Masters" in the active community; however, I consider them Masters of the craft/ritual/behavior/etc., that they taught to Me and I am thankful that they were willing to share. As a result of My extensive research, as well as the training and exploration, I am now able to say definitively exactly what works for Me. Does this make Me a "Master" (or Mistress, if you will)? Not over others, I don't believe, although I do believe I have the ability to master others. The reason that I believe this is twofold: First, I have mastered myself. I know who and what I am, what I enjoy, what I dislike, how far I am willing to go, the limits of My self-control, etc.. Second, I have mastered others to My satisfaction AND their's. I do not proclaim Myself to be a Master/Mistress. As I stated in another post, I do not require that anyone call Me anything other than what I inspire them to call Me. The challenge would then be inspiring them to call Me what I believe I am. I always enjoy a good challenge. There is, maybe not unfortunately, no way of proving someone is or is not a Master; no test, no proving grounds, no rite of passage. There is no set guideline for anyone to follow regarding how to obtain the title of Master. If stormi tells Me that she serves a Master, then I can only accept that He is a Master, simply because she sees Him as so... for she would not state that if He has not mastered her, would she? And that is the bottom line: We do not have to be Master to all, but only to those we *protect, love, cherish, rule, own, train, boss around, discipline, punish, control* *choose any or all of these that apply to your own situation and choices and add others as you please
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