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Phin -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:22:56 AM)
High heels where not part of the bargin... just tights a tiera and a feather cap. that is enough... [8D]

laurell3 -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:24:06 AM)
oh yeah...the cap....mustn't forget the cap...

BitaTruble -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:25:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? No. Celeste

girlygurl -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:32:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin "Excuse me, Lint, why do you hang around in Asher's belly button? And why are you always blue?" LMAO Phin, why do you have blue lint in your belly button? girly

laurell3 -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:33:05 AM)
Ok stop hijacking this thread and go bid http://www.collarchat.com/m_1549538/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1549538 Sorry OP.

Justme696 -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 1:56:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Asherdelampyr I have actually been told when I worked at haunted houses that I was being too sexual... And I honestly wasnt trying to be! I'm pretty sure its just me though I have that problem too. Well sex is very important in my life. I speak freely about it. LOl at work..when a remark is made that has sexual content...the groups eyes are always pointed at me, because they expect me to reply first. BEsides that... I am decen to every one. We have parts of the factory where just females work. When you are nice to them, you get lots of remarks. And of ocurse you tease back, without wanting soemthing...just for fun. OThers seem to think then..that you want to do them all, while I am just having fun.

tulitukka -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 4:34:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle well, you do kind of ooze sex and gorgeousness in your photos, so i can understand why they might think that. i think it's the long hair. and the black. and the general gorgeousness. Yeah he is hot, intelligent, witty and seems to be down to earth. I'm not even going into the whole vamp thing and the erotic stories. I have an idea...let's auction him off! [8D] Sounds great. When do we start? I could take him home as a present to my friend who has a birthday in a couple of weeks. :P.

tulitukka -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 4:35:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia Can I just ask that we NOT have the words "oozing" and "sex" together in one sentence. My imagination is wild and I get visuals. They aren't nice visuals. You're so like a dear friend of mine. She'd have horrible visuals of things people talked around her. Of course, sometimes she would have terrific visuals as well.

RCdc -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 4:42:42 AM)
No - and not so wise. the.dark.

Asherdelampyr -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 4:59:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tulitukka quote: ORIGINAL: laurell3 quote: ORIGINAL: hisannabelle well, you do kind of ooze sex and gorgeousness in your photos, so i can understand why they might think that. i think it's the long hair. and the black. and the general gorgeousness. Yeah he is hot, intelligent, witty and seems to be down to earth. I'm not even going into the whole vamp thing and the erotic stories. I have an idea...let's auction him off! [8D] Sounds great. When do we start? I could take him home as a present to my friend who has a birthday in a couple of weeks. :P. See http://www.collarchat.com/m_1549538/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#1549538 :P

lusciouslips19 -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 5:20:50 AM)
Well sexuality and sensuality are 2 different things. I am however, not responsible for the scent or what others smell on me.[;)]

LadyHathor -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 5:25:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? I totally disagree, that statement puts all the generalizatins that BDSM is all about sex, right back in front again--I am a sensual, sexual being all the time, I don't try, its Me, and that does not mean thet I walk around in skimpy clothes, or horny all the time--far from it--I am thrilled to be a woman and as such exude that sensuality--it isnt any different if Im writing a marketing plan or beating a boy--the essence of sexuality is ever present.

fluffyswitch -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 6:32:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? to me everything comes back to sex. EVERYTHING. but then i'm just obessessed. *looks at her book case where if the book isn't erotica it's paranormal romance and if it's not paranormal romance it's theoritical/historical works on sex/sexuality. you mean it's not everyone's life goal to be the next gayle rubin or alfred kinsey? scratch that. i WILL be the next kinsey lol. to stay on thread, no i don't agree. i think that there may be more aspects in this lifestyle that make sexuality more obvious which in and of itself is debatable but i don't think there is anything about this lifestyle that is inherently more sexual.

Mercnbeth -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 7:10:09 AM)
~ Fast Reply ~ We describe our daily life as 24/7 foreplay interrupted by rest and recovery from frequent and intense orgasms. quote: A touch of sex on everything you do - Do you agree? Oh, our answer is -YES! However, I don't think it is any special attribute of BDSM v. vanilla. Having a "touch of sexuality", or better yet, a touch of 'sensuality' with every look, every touch, every word, and expression happens in all flavors of relationship.

MadRabbit -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 7:32:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? I find nothing sexual about typing out this reply. You just don't really do it for me, buddy.

Prinsexx -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 7:35:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHardxdrive A wise dom many, many year ago told me the differnce between the vanilla lifestyle and the bdsm lifestyle is that whatever you do in the bdsm lifestyle. There is a touch of sexuality on it. Do you agree? i have tried to answer your question but the reason why i can't is because i find it difficult to make distinctions between vanilla and bdsm....i know what the difference is for me but cannot make a generalised difference for others except to suggest that the b/d part reles more upon a power dynamic (restraint?) than necessarily upon a sexual one and that the s/m part relies more upon co-opting pain into the dynamic. Sexual sadism is, as i hope i understand it, quite the pathological opposite to onsensual sado-masochism. i get 'sexed' just thinking about Our dynamic, i get 'sexed' whilst doing Our sado-masochistic thing and i get sexed as a sort of empathy when it occurs to me He is thinking about our dynamic. It is rare for me to participate in any bdsm activity and not get sexed but that is a statement about my sexuality.... i've done vanilla sex (well at least i think that that was what that heterosexual-Friday-night wham-bam-not-even-a-thank-you-ma'am-crap was all about: you know the sex where i felt duty bound because of the kid project, or the house project, or trying to please my mother project....... So i would say that for me bdsm has heightened my experience of sex..............yes i would most definitely have to say that ..... ed to say: i run out of words when trying to describe how intense my sexuality is right now because .................

Bound2One -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 7:42:44 AM)
No, I disagree. Sensuality comes from within a person, whether they are vanilla or into BDSM.

DesFIP -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 8:10:45 AM)
Nope. Doing the laundry does not have any sex associated with it for me.

wisteriaV -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 8:13:56 AM)
For us BDSM is the PLAY aspect so sure there can be sexual overtones to it or there can nto be depending on Masters desires. We live the M/s aspects and trust me when he farts theres no sexuality to it nor is there when I am washing clothes or cleaning...

MrRodgers -> RE: A touch of sex on everything you do (1/19/2008 8:22:42 AM)
For the marquis (the Marquis deSade who put the S in bdSm) it was ALL about the sex...something the online BDSM community often forgets.

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