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Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to was... - 1/20/2008 11:03:16 AM

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...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:11:33 AM

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Offended or upset? definitely not.

Aroused? probably not.

I'd think she's taking liberties, but as it's early days, it's nothing that can't be ironed out.

P.S. acknowledging that she's stepping over the line is not akin to taking offence.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:12:03 AM

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I don't have a problem with it. Perhaps after getting to know her better, I might tell her not to with out my permission. If the chat is growing toward a relationship I would want more control. I'm not one of those who thinks that because someone is submissive, she is MY submissive.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:14:06 AM

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I'm not a guy, but may I answer this one? It's about depth of knowledge of another person, and intimacy. Regardless of gender... if someone wanks over someone else whilst hardly knowing them, I think it's rude, base and utterly apeish. On the other hand, if my husband starts jerking off as I talk to him... I'm immensely flattered. As he is when I do it with him :-) .

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:14:59 AM

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...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

Akasha

Aroused? No. Offended/Upset? Yes, considering I'd just be talking to this person as a friend. In fact, yes in a hypothetical world where I'm not taken and this is just the first conversation between myself and said person.

I'd feel used and objectified in a rather insulting manner. I'd likely hang up and that'd be the end of that.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:16:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

Akasha

Aroused.

Edited to add: would I be a little peeved if I felt she wasn't listening? Maybe. But I'd be peeved with a hard-on.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:20:31 AM

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I suppose it would depend on the conversation was, that we were having. If we were talking about something serious, I think I'd take it as inappropriate. If we were chatting about sexual topics, like our histories, I think I'd be okay with it. (I find it a bit flattering when someone says my voice is arousing to them, which seems to happen often.) If I was actually in the mood for phone sex, I'd proabably ask for more details, then start giving her directions... LOL

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 11:36:33 AM

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Depends on what was going on- is their pleasure distracting from the conversation? Are they just using talking to me as a sex device to help them get themselvess off?

If the answer to those is no, then I would probably laugh, and either get into it with them then or tell them to stop.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 12:46:57 PM

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Aroused.

Edited to add: would I be a little peeved if I felt she wasn't listening? Maybe. But I'd be peeved with a hard-on.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Indeed :)

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 12:50:34 PM

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quote:

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...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

Akasha

Aroused.

Edited to add: would I be a little peeved if I felt she wasn't listening? Maybe. But I'd be peeved with a hard-on.

I don't believe you Level, I need proof, pics please, hehe

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 1:21:07 PM

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I don't have a problem with it. Perhaps after getting to know her better, I might tell her not to with out my permission. If the chat is growing toward a relationship I would want more control. I'm not one of those who thinks that because someone is submissive, she is MY submissive.

well said, it wouldnt excite me unfortunately and would sugest a meeting so we could both have some fun

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 2:38:55 PM

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I'd be trying to figure out how she managed to do it through the phone.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 2:59:20 PM

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...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

Akasha

Aroused.

Edited to add: would I be a little peeved if I felt she wasn't listening? Maybe. But I'd be peeved with a hard-on.

I don't believe you Level, I need proof, pics please, hehe

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 3:09:52 PM

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What ever foats their boat.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 3:16:33 PM

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Offended: no
Aroused: depends on the woman

Most likely I'd just be flattered and/or surprised.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 3:23:25 PM

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Offended? no
Aroused? no
I would think they need a life away from the computer.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 3:28:13 PM

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That would be freakin' sweet

Of course, i'd probably be so distracted by the idea that i'd lose my ability to speak coherently.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 4:24:36 PM

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Depends on if I would want to continue to get to know them better.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 4:31:48 PM

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I'd feel a little weirded out, especially since I try to tone down the sexy in those first few conversations.

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RE: Men: If you found out the woman you were talking to... - 1/20/2008 4:36:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: LeMis

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ORIGINAL: Level

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...would you be aroused or offended/upset?

Specifically, in an early on "get to know you" type phone call (someone you have not met) - femdom or submissive, just in casual conversation perhaps on topics that might be a little suggestive, but nothing outright sexual. If she confessed to you that she was pleasuring herself, how would that make you feel?

Akasha

Aroused.

Edited to add: would I be a little peeved if I felt she wasn't listening? Maybe. But I'd be peeved with a hard-on.

I don't believe you Level, I need proof, pics please, hehe

Best I can do on such short notice, missy... http://www.savills-oficinas.com.es/productos/Torre%20Agbar.jpg

ahhh...
so IT IS true what they say about Texas....

Thanks Level!

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