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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:44:07 AM   
KatyLied


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I hope you can drop the armouring one day


She's a hot dog?  Who knew?


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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:46:17 AM   
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domahpet...you sarcastic, bitchy, and bratty??   Never. smile. Someone...PLEASE spank her...until tears. 

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:51:01 AM   
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OMG, I am laughing so hard.

Someone definately needs an attitude adjustment.

What is it with these new boys lately?


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:52:30 AM   
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What is it with these new boys lately?


I dunno.  Hopefully they'll be appearing all week....


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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:54:36 AM   
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Oui, they do make for a humorous start to a day. I almost missed the ravish/rape scene duo from yesterday.....those two were hysterical.

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:55:00 AM   
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Smirks...........

Jeff

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:56:39 AM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: domahpet


note to self,
read the profile and the journal before
posting on a thread.
somebody spank me!



that is just TOO easy..

Jeff

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 7:58:47 AM   
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If they're not local (In my state) I'll have to spend 3 months online, 1 month on phone, then -I- will fly up there, and see them. Then they can come down to me, and I may even pay the ticket that way. As long as I know they're real to begin with.

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:03:09 AM   
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Fast reply. 

I don't see why everyone gets so uppity about one person's post.  He just wanted to tell his story and heartache, and invite others to chat.  Deal with it, what's the point of trying to chew the dude out? 
Anyway.  I don't have any deep truths I'm comfortable sharing, as it has been said, with a buch of strangers... but I *will* say that... I really love pizza.  <nods>

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:06:09 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Indemnis

Fast reply. 

I don't see why everyone gets so uppity about one person's post.  He just wanted to tell his story and heartache, and invite others to chat.  Deal with it, what's the point of trying to chew the dude out? 
Anyway.  I don't have any deep truths I'm comfortable sharing, as it has been said, with a buch of strangers... but I *will* say that... I really love pizza.  <nods>


If you shared your adress...we could have one delivered?

Jeff

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:11:22 AM   
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~~~domahpet...you sarcastic, bitchy, and bratty??   Never. smile. Someone...PLEASE spank her...until tears.~~~

you say that like you know me from somewhere, do you think you do?
i can tell you that just from your AGE that if we ever have met, you would have been
the one on the end of the paddle (silly boys!) 

questions on the serious side,
you say you have patients, and at your age i cant imagine you having a Phd yet.
what is your treatment style? community mod? attack therapy? maybe 12 step?

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:13:11 AM   
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Jefffffffff, i was KIDDING

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:15:43 AM   
Jeffff


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ORIGINAL: domahpet

Jefffffffff, i was KIDDING


ummmmmmmmmm ...I knew that...lol

Jeff

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:16:12 AM   
Indemnis


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff


If you shared your adress...we could have one delivered?

Jeff


Free pizza?  It's almost worth sharing such a great personal truth as my address... <ponders>

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 8:34:14 AM   
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i disagree with You so deeply JoshuasHeart. i have put myself out there, as well as seen many others here on CM do the same. As a matter of fact, i have seen such a thing come to pass almost on a weekly basis here on Cm. Actually i find i am lied to more often in r/l than online, hence the reason i do not attend Mass any longer!! i to have been hood-winked here, nevertheless, i choose to learn from each interaction ..... no matter positive or negative.

Count Your blessings Good Man, she could have told You she was a Nigerian super model/orphan and lifted Your wallet as well!!!!!

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 10:56:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JoshuasHeart

Now there is one smart Lady.  SimplySubmissive understands what I had proposed. Articulate as well. Smile.
Very attractively done.  Looking forward to your "suitable secret."
Warmly/Joshua


I understand exactly what you are looking for in the post, however I'm not willing to share some secret here on this forum that I wouldn't have previously. We are pretty open to meeting people so if someone wants to get know us better all they have to do is met up with us at a local event. This is not, by any stretch of the imagination, a safe place in which to open up and share. This is not because of flammers or trolls but simply because you can not trust that everyone who reads it will treat the information respectfully as there is no way to control who reads it.

I do feel for you in what you went through and I'm sorry it happened. Hopefully it won't in the future.

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 10:59:42 AM   
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domahpet...you sarcastic, bitchy, and bratty??   Never. smile. Someone...PLEASE spank her...until tears. 


What the hell? She isn't yours.

Eww. Talk about a bad impression.

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 11:04:12 AM   
domahpet


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its ok AquaticSub. Jefff and i had a lovely time chatting on the other side and im totaly ok with that comment

i am however, stilllll waiting for my answer
grrrrrr

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 11:10:16 AM   
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I don't find people terribly willing to go beyond convenient truths, and what is fairly politically correct.  This is in Life (real-time), and certainly my experience in a short time on CM.   Just a few have I found remarkable to offer up head & heart, putting armouring aside, embracing vulnerability, to allow for the deepent revelations.  And I certainly understand this.  Everyone is interested in keeping the soft underbelly guarded.  No one wants to be cast-off, disregarded...or eat bad news. 
 
 As a teen, I knew a girl for a summer, adoring her but assuming I could never win her heart.  Late that summer she approached me and asked if I disliked her.  Aghast I said, "No."  I pointed out what I just shared, the truth.  She explained she had been hoping I'd say something since she had a bit oif a wild crush on me. 
 
I learned an important lesson that summer.  ASK.  Mathematically the odds are with you in large numbers.  Never let that one who looks sogood get away without saying,"You're really quite pretty.  Want to grab lunch sometime?"
A no and you've lost little.  A "yes", and anything can be.  THEME: Toss a bit of unpoken honesty out here.  Honesty on CM?  What a concept.
 
My honest burp?  I signed with CM as a hoot.  Thought this would be "interesting."  After talking to one woman (talking being PMs, then phone), for a week, I was astounded at how she "got me" faster than I can recall in the last several years real-life.  I looked so forward to our talks, and was, maybe for ther 1st time in a LONG time, anxious before she'd phone.  Then she told me she "thought it possible she could love me..."   My mouth went dry.  I poured my heart out about how stunned I was at the intensity of my feelings.  I 'gushed', if you will...smile.
 
We said in the next call we'd make plans to fly her to me.  I believed her words as I knew I was alive.  The time came for the phone call.  I was so damned prepared.   I told a good friend.  He raised a brow, "online?" 
 
The time arrived for the call.  It never came.  after 3 emails, and no response i let it go.  Bitter pill.  Did it hurt...good god.  I decided to keep the account here open...just to make certain I was not running away.


fine.

honestly? honestly i don't like the implication that because you don't like what's been posted here you have the right to be rude.

honestly? you ARE acting like a punk. for no apparent reason.

honestly? i REALLY don't like the implication that because i post here i'm a lier.

you have NO way of knowing someone is spouting off or not so don't make sweeping generalizations, if you read the boards here awhile you'll find it's a good way to have your ass handed back to you.

oh and my secret? i'm really a raging b*tch but actually like people on these boards so i tend to just *ignore* posts i don't like instead of getting *narky*

which you were.

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RE: Honesty. That which you've never put out there. - 1/22/2008 11:11:10 AM   
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i have a deep dark secret... i want to be able to lick myself the way my dog can.  i get sooooo jealous watching her go to town on her tender bits  ~sigh~     oh to be a dog

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