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divi -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/22/2008 7:32:50 PM)
I so agree the marks meant you had a good time .. And when you look at them you can think back at all the fun you had getting them

littlegrlatheart -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/22/2008 9:47:39 PM)
Thank you for your comments. It helps to hear from other people like me.

BBWnNC72 -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/22/2008 10:18:41 PM)
i love what ever marks, whelts and bruises i get from my trainer. i look at them a few days later and remember how i got them and i get all tingly inside and smile. i know how it feels not to have that for a while and it hurts emotionaly and physically. its almost as bad as PMS. i have cried at night needing and wanting and not being able to get.

tsatske -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/22/2008 11:08:36 PM)
[:)] I have a little saying: 'You know how you can tell when a little girl isn't loved? She has to go around with her bottom all white.' Do I believe it? Not for a moment. But that doesn't keep us from refering to marks as 'evidence' that I am, indeed, a well loved little slut. I love being marked. It does not always happen. The body is a fickle thing. Sometimes it can take such a beating and no marks, other times, a lot less will leave me well marked. I do love the way they feel. And I love it when we play so I have marks somewhere I can clearly see them, like my breast. I know when I am long distance from Master, the marks become esp. important to me, just as do all the symbols of my slavery. Even a vanilla woman caresses her wedding ring more often if her hubby is deployed overseas, or out of town on buisness. Why should we subbies be any differant?

serisa -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 3:15:06 AM)
Hi. i am no expert but i would have thought it if you are really a masochist then it makes perfect sense to me that you would not feel complete without the pain, the marks are proof, a symbol if you like of the experience you had so if it was a good to you i think they could look quite lovely to some one who feels that way about it. Having all the marks gone would be a reminder that you have not had what you need for little while so i think it would only be natural for you to miss them Going back to what you said about 'feeling complete' as a humam being rather than just being submissive i think that could be also to do with that you dont have to be masochist to be submissive so if you are both they are a little bit seperate in the sense you could be one without the other. i suppose it would be much more common to be submissive without being masochist than masochist without submissive, you would be submissive if you are a masochist but i think its fair to say you could be submissive ONLY as a masochist ie just for playing, someone like this could have no interest whatsoever in being submissive in any other area of their life. Anyway i think i have gone of the point here a bit but am using it to say why i think its possible it is understandable you have seperated the two parts of you slightly. i think its only natural you feel somewhat depressed when you have not had something you need for a while. feeling restless and disconnected could be compared to a sort of craving so when you get it again its like getting yor fix once more so you are bound to feel better again i cant say for sure i would feel exactly like you as i havent really done any pain stuff but i think the feelings you describe generally would make perfect sense to anyone who has a high 'need' for any particular thing

MRandme -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 3:33:11 AM)
Like a teenager proudly displaying a hickey to friends, i like the feeling of possession from being marked with bruises or bites. i like knowing that my Master put them there and remembering the wonderful time i had when He did. Even while He is biting me, i am thinking that the mark will last for days, maybe even till i see Him again. i don't feel a loss from the fading of the bruises or marks, but from knowing that it has been that long since i have knelt for Him. As for feeling complete as a person, since i discovered my submissiveness had a name and have found an outlet for it, i have felt more balanced and fulfilled. It isn't the bruises or the marks themselves, it is knowing that i am accepted and respected for all parts of who i am. The marks are just the visual confirmation of that. g

enslavederotica -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 6:56:28 AM)
when I am marked and my bodyis sore, I feel as if i am finally owned. I feel as if it wasmy body he chose to mark for everyone to see. I wear my bruises proudly, and they make me feel as if I have finally come full circle, and I am an owned slut.

LPslittleclip -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 4:56:42 PM)
i enjoy the marks for days after while sitting in class i can rember the play aqnd it makes the class so much more bearable. i dont have to have them to enjoy the last sub space trip but i do enjoy getting a new batch proudly collared by LadyPact

DiurnalVampire -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 7:39:07 PM)
The bruises themselves dont mean much to me. I got bruises when I was in karate and they were far from erotic or terribly interesting. Bruises on Fox that he and I both enjoyed making I find highly satisfying. Fox likes having pictures of his marks taken so he can look back at them. Are you craving and needing the bruises alone, or is there somthing about the connection with whomever is putting them there you need? If it is simply the bruises you want, Id suggest joining a contact martial art. Dont block a few hits and you'll have all the bruises your little heart desires. I wil assume those bruises wont do it for you, though. You might need the play, and the bruises are just the after effect. DV

whenstarscollide -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 8:33:40 PM)
i love marks and bruises on just about any part of my body save the face (b/c then other people start to ask questions). i see them as a symbol of my submission; a sign that i am giving my dom(me) my all...

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Do welts and bruises mean anything to you? (1/23/2008 8:59:59 PM)
To the OP...............Bruises on Fox that he and I both enjoyed making I find highly satisfying. Fox likes having pictures of his marks taken so he can look back at them. I was thinking, maybe you should try what is stated above...take pictures to look upon, when the welts and bruises fade???..Tempting

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