hermione83 -> RE: Switches need not apply (2/11/2008 2:45:34 AM)
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Honestly, I am weird, but I can put each of my qualities into neat rows of boxes in my head. I want someone in exactly opposed, or exactly the same boxes, depending on what, for a mate. If I don't understand you, you make me feel not secure, and like I can't knwo you, and you're not meant for me. So, since I'm not a switch, and I'm one role 24/7, and never have even put my head into the other role, I would want to make sure the Dom is dom enough for me - really wants me to be who I am, doesn't want me to change, and it's okay that this is the only role I ever want. I would be constantly paranoid that he doesn't really want to dominate me, and that I'm a burden. Actually, I already do that with "straight Doms" but if they fit into the right boxes I start to trust it. It's so hard for me to get why anyone would want to be a Dom, I know I wouldn't... so if he likes/ever liked to be submissive at all, I would always be thinking he prefers it and all sorts of negative things I don't want to think.
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