as a switch i have from time to time had the experience of being able to "switch" in the middle of a scene. has anyone else had the pleasure?
Yep, I've had that experience, and I love it. What I love even more is when there's no obvious top or bottom in the scene, but simply both of us doing whatever it is we're doing to each other, and both eliciting the responses we enjoy so much from both sides of the toys.
Unfortunately, there are few people that I have both good top and good bottom energy with. Usually the vibe goes one way or the other for me, not both. It's a rare treat to get the whole enchilada in one package.
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