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For those of you who're not girly and your dom doesn't ... - 1/25/2008 9:19:04 PM

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I'm normally not girly I don't do hair nails eyebrows or feet nor do I wear jewlery. And normally I am quite happy being that way, and quite happy with Daddy not careing I am not girly girly. I wear dresses everyday, but I always have it has nothing to do with because it's girly.
Yesterday I had the thought that it'd be nice if my Daddy required me to be primped and preened each week before he came over, You know go to the salon have a pedicure, have a manicure, get my eyebrow's tweezed. I realize for me it's better as just a fantasy and not feasable, cause for one I don't have the money to spend on going to the spa every week, and two I'd just end up resenting having to go everyweek an spend the moneyI can use on other more important things, and even if it wasn't my money, I don't know I just don't like the idea, what if I didn't feel like going, or what if I went and I didn't enjoy it. If it was his demand I'd have to do it weather I felt like or not. I am the type if I don't feel like going/doing I don't want to or won't if it's not essential.

Anyway, Do any of you guys ever wish your Dom would impliment rules like that, Rules to take better care of yourself and your presentation?

RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:22:51 PM

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Well...it has nothing to do with a guy for me. I do all that stuff for ME. If there is a man around, then it is lucky for him that I am high maintenance girly.

Oh, and you know you don't have to go to a spa for all that and spend tons of money. You can get a manicure for $ 10 (or less depending on where you live), a combo mani/pedicure once in a while and you can do your own eyebrows or have them done at the Korean places for like $ 6.00.

But in the end, you need to do what feels natural and normal for you I guess.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:28:04 PM

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I call em spa's and of course I know that's probably the wrong name cause yeah you're right, the local beauty place here does manicures/ pedicures. And yup 1 act alone isn't that expensive but it's 10 for eyebrow's 10 for lip waxing, like 25 for a foot manicure, 10 for the nails times it per week all adds up it's be about 55 dollars times that by 4 and it's 220. and I don't have a lot of money left after bills, what I have left needs to go into savings.

sexy I am the type of person if I'm not capable of or interested in doing it for me I need to do it for someone else. IE clear the bed off, for me it don't matter that my books and my papers, and craft stuff are piled high, but to Daddy it does, so I am supposed to clear it off for him.

Other wise to me it just don't matter.

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Well...it has nothing to do with a guy for me. I do all that stuff for ME. If there is a man around, then it is lucky for him that I am high maintenance girly.

Oh, and you know you don't have to go to a spa for all that and spend tons of money. You can get a manicure for $ 10 (or less depending on where you live), a combo mani/pedicure once in a while and you can do your own eyebrows or have them done at the Korean places for like $ 6.00.

But in the end, you need to do what feels natural and normal for you I guess.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:30:01 PM

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I hear you, add to that hair and it does add up. I know. I am facing unemployment and have to maintain my look, so it is a pain.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:35:34 PM

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sexy1 I am just glad washing and going is good for my hair, I use pantien pro V rinse EXTREAMLY well cause my hair tends to harbour soap, and then airdry and it's shiney and gorgious till next washing.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:38:12 PM

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Make up and dress wise, no. I do that for myself anyway. I do wish though that he'd ride my ass harder on getting to the gym. We seem to talk each other out of going quite often lately.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 9:43:12 PM

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Grey exorcise is one thing I've never been good at, it's something I wish was higher priority for him, he don't care to exorcise or do anything either. Well it's ust he feels he runs his ass off going here going there doing this doing that for work, that when his days off comes* the only time we get together* he don't want to be psichally active he wants to be lazy.

So take two lazy unmotivated people put them together and nothing's getting done.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 10:00:21 PM

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He had me with a trainer who was whipping me into shape (God I hated that trainer) but I ended up needing surgery on my back. 7 months of barely moving before I had it...did good just to get to work.

I need the trainer again....because we have to pay in advance so I'd force myself to go just because I paid for it. He's doing OT so that's part of why it's sooo easy to talk him out of going after 10-12 hr days.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 10:06:34 PM

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grey paying for it don't mean shit to me lol. I used to be a gym member and the fact that I didn't feel like going so I didn't, and it was wasted money, didn't do anything but piss me off and make me regret joining the gym lol.

so yeah I'd get annoyed I'd rant and rage, btu I still didn't go an all that money was still wasted.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 10:19:04 PM

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girly is a personality...it has nothing to do with looks. it is a kind of gender.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 10:30:42 PM

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It is required of my girl. She has her hair and nails done, as well as she is required to brush her hair and use light make up every morning. She is to be pleasing in every way, and she says that over the last year she feels more feminine, is more confident in herself and her esteem is good. I set her diet and exercise routine. She is required to do something that improves her physically, mentally, and emotionally every day.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/25/2008 10:48:20 PM

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Was she disinclined to do so before you said to? See that's more the point , d o you wish your dom would set that up and he don't? Sometimes I wish James would hold me to a higher standard, but he's more like Ilove you as you are you don't need to change a thing, which is great overall, but it's not what I need in somecases

edited because I said wash not was

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 1:05:46 AM

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i'm not one at all, i just learned to put on eyeliner in the 9th grade and i have had one manicure...so i understand. Master only made me do it once and it was a special occassion. But if you have friends on the more girly girly side trust me they are more than happy to help (i don't understand why but it's like playing Barbie all over again to them i guess)
and in terms of exercise i hate the gym, just do something that is fun that you don't really realize is exercise (i've recently taken up belly dancing and it strengthens alot and builds endurance).
i hope something helps...
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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 1:39:28 AM

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prizedposession, I'd like to take our dogs for walks with Daddy, but it's been raining and wet, and none of us want to go out in the rain lol.

The one thing Ilove is swimming when the season warms up and we have our own place I want one with a pool so I can play an swim any old time an not have to have someone take me, or take a bus or plan to go:D

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 3:04:21 AM

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I don't consider myeslf "girly". I don't do my nails other than general filing, nor does anyone else. I have never had and never will have a pedicure (because someone touching my feet disgusts me). However, I haven't used store bought shampoo since I was like 8 and I take good care of my skin and hair, so to others I might be "girly". I don't wear skirts or dresses at work because I got tired of not having men not hear what I was saying about work.

Not "girly" to me means not wanting to have a 30 minute conversation on what color to paint the bedroom or nail polish colors or some other god awful boring mundane topic that's totally frivilous. In that regard am I completely nongirly and will tone that shit out so fast other women would think they were married to me. Then again, I have the same reaction to men discussing sports statistics ad naseum.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 3:22:13 AM

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ah i used to swim club but i had to give it up :(
i'm going to get started again soon it works everything and plus when your done you can play marco polo and accidently get frisky

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 5:48:22 AM

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it's not a rule however Daddy loves spoiling me with a monthly allowance for pedicure, manicure and hair salon. it's fun being a pampered princess for a day and if i have change left, i go shopping.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 6:25:04 AM

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She would do these things a lot less then, than she does now. She used to wear jeans almost all the time, and now wears skirts most of the time. She had many "lazy" days before, and very few (only when sick) now. These changes are what she says makes her feel better.

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Was she disinclined to do so before you said to? See that's more the point , d o you wish your dom would set that up and he don't? Sometimes I wish James would hold me to a higher standard, but he's more like Ilove you as you are you don't need to change a thing, which is great overall, but it's not what I need in somecases

edited because I said wash not was

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 8:10:17 AM

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Not "girly" to me means not wanting to have a 30 minute conversation on what color to paint the bedroom or nail polish colors or some other god awful boring mundane topic that's totally frivilous.

Hey! Ya know, you can be ultra femme girly and talk about nail polish and still be able to wax poetically about literature, world politics, the economy, culture, religion, and statistics. It is not mutually exclusive to be both.

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RE: For those of you who're not girly and your dom does... - 1/26/2008 8:16:22 AM

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I consider myself non-girly. I hate having my nails done because they are never perfect enough and always chip within a few days, I can't see any sense in paying for something that only lasts a few days. I am religious about my hair though, every 4 weeks cut/color. I wear some makeup, only foundation, blush, lipstick, that's it. I do better with a guy who doesn't expect all of that girly stuff because it is a reach for me.

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