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lronitulstahp -> RE: slave contract? (3/1/2008 5:27:22 AM)

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 But many have told me they used this work as a guide to forming a contract or relationship agreement.
WHO?  C'mon it can't possibly be "MANY" as stated...somebody likes to embellish......[sm=lol.gif]




Vanatru -> RE: slave contract? (3/1/2008 6:56:01 AM)

No, there's no way to word a contract to be legally binding, and in fact where the chick decided she didn't like how she was treated, it was used against the guy as evidence.

for the OP
If a contract makes ya both feel better and helps outline some expected behaviors, that's fine, but from what I've seen you're asking for trouble to do it. Even without what I mentioned, it can still be carted out by the sub or dominant to use it as a crutch instead of applying real dominance and real submission. If you feel you need such a crutch, you'll quickly realize that a contract won't be able to ever cover every possible contingency and it'll either wind up being ignored, abused, or amended. You should be concentrating on each other (or each member if it's poly) than on a piece of paper.

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

mmmm  I thought it was more like
"do you want me"  - yes/no

but seriously..is this needed for legal reasons in the usa?

btw what is ;  76. Digital -finger sex




antipode -> RE: slave contract? (3/2/2008 8:50:06 AM)

I don't mind newbies, but if you are a novice at D/s and you're unable to use Google, you're not going to have a lot of information to work this relationship on. Or you're simply lazy, which is not a good way to handle a slave.




colouredin -> RE: slave contract? (3/2/2008 8:54:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Slave contracts specifically no.

However, you can do other contracts (I believe indentured servitude is still legal in certain areas) and one can agree to do X, Y, or Z for set period of time, hand over money, etc. It wouldn't a slave contract the way the others listed are but my basic understanding is that you can enter into other types of contracts that would have a similar effect though under a different name.

I could be wrong. Either way, if he wants something legally binding, it would be best to consult a lawyer so that both parties know how binding or not the piece of paper is.


There was a case in the uk recently where a contract was bought in front of the judge as proof and taken as evidence. Though it was a converluted case and I am not sure how much impact that it had.




DesFIP -> RE: slave contract? (3/2/2008 9:00:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Slave contracts specifically no.

However, you can do other contracts (I believe indentured servitude is still legal in certain areas) and one can agree to do X, Y, or Z for set period of time, hand over money, etc. It wouldn't a slave contract the way the others listed are but my basic understanding is that you can enter into other types of contracts that would have a similar effect though under a different name.

I could be wrong. Either way, if he wants something legally binding, it would be best to consult a lawyer so that both parties know how binding or not the piece of paper is.


Two lawyers. If he has his lawyer draw up a contract for her to sign that is clearly in his favor, then the courts will throw it out. She needs a lawyer of her own to protect her. The precedent here is pre-nups. If a wealthy man remarries and has his lawyer draw up the pre-nup, the courts declare it null and void because the contract is one sided. If the second lawyer works for the same firm as the first, same thing. If he pays both lawyers, same thing. She needs a lawyer of her own, not recommended by him or his lawyer, someone clearly independent from any influence by the prospective owner.

And good luck finding one who will agree that anything in such a contract is in the best interests of his client.




SummerWind -> RE: slave contract? (3/2/2008 9:32:50 AM)

Contracts and Lawyers give me a headache......




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