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BikerDom4 -> RE: Confused Sub (7/8/2008 1:02:40 PM)

Im healing :) and happiness is round the corner :)  but thanks for your good wishes :)



lateralist1 -> RE: Confused Sub (7/8/2008 1:27:41 PM)

I think your a very lucky boy.
Just think it might have happened after years of trying to get her to submit to you.
Good luck for the future.



cillydom -> RE: Confused Sub (7/8/2008 4:23:08 PM)

if you care that much the question becomes, who's in charge?



XaviersXian -> RE: Confused Sub (7/8/2008 4:34:10 PM)

greetings to the OP,

I am so glad for you! you sound like such a lovely man.  You deserve much better than someone like that.

I hope you find what you are looking for.

well wishes,



Bloodrose88 -> RE: Confused Sub (7/8/2008 4:50:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Well, you've really only got her word on that. And believe me, this kind of thing is neither random or unusual.

This is the net, and people do bullshit.

She's said that she doesn't want to choose either of you. So whats her option? Keep being with both of you? If it were me, I'd tell her no contact until she can definitely state that she has stopped talking to this other, has no interest in him, etc.

No, actually, if it were me, I'd tell her to bugger off, but then I'm harsh and unforgiving.

this is exactly what I was thinking.



BikerDom4 -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 12:30:13 AM)

and exactly what I have now done !! theres no way ill be second best for anyone.



silkncarol -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 3:05:13 AM)

Live and Learn.......... every experience...good for bad is a learning opportunity.  

Good luck ot you BikerDom4....you've just had one and gotten thru it. :-)



lovingpet -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 7:40:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BikerDom4

my attempts to be dominant with her recieve no response at all....unless I treat her badly....


And what is her response when you treat her badly?  Is she offended and openly angry?  Or does this seem to encourage her?

I will be anxious to know and may further help clarify her intentions.

Regards,
lovingpet



lovingpet -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 8:11:19 AM)

So completely did not look at the date on the start of this thread.  My apologies!  LOL

Glad to see you now have closure and have learned about yourself and relationships in a way that can only help you become better both as a person and as a Dom  Best wishes on your search!  The right one is out there somewhere!

lovingpet



BikerDom4 -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 8:14:26 AM)

Laughs.... shes a pain slut slave and loves to be treated badly...... even her existing Master cant punish her.... but think the thread has been somewhat lost here... shes with her Master, not with me , despite the fact she says its what she wants. She still wants me ... still craves me , still loves me (her words) so the only course of action for me is banishement,,,,, end of shes gone ... !!  she cant serve two Masters and i pity her Master now, because he has so obviously lost control of her ... mentally.... physically shes there....



batshalom -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 12:41:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BikerDom4

Laughs.... shes a pain slut slave and loves to be treated badly...... even her existing Master cant punish her.... but think the thread has been somewhat lost here... shes with her Master, not with me , despite the fact she says its what she wants. She still wants me ... still craves me , still loves me (her words) so the only course of action for me is banishement,,,,, end of shes gone ... !!  she cant serve two Masters and i pity her Master now, because he has so obviously lost control of her ... mentally.... physically shes there....


She sounds like an attention whore with self-esteem problems really. I hope she can eventually heal and get past it.



Missokyst -> RE: Confused Sub (7/9/2008 1:37:45 PM)

How can I put this... online is not always real.  I mean there are plenty of people out there who seem sincere, honest, willing, but that can be because they are skilled.  I talked to someone for 2 yrs (the first as a friend only) before I finally got clued in that a meeting would not happen.  At the end of that year I discovered he was also a lesbian female impersonator online to some other woman.  He was really good at what he did.. ONLINE.
Not everything is how it appears.
*Edited because I didn't notice how old this thread is.*
but.. I do hope you save those strong tender feelings for women you meet in real life.  Online is like trying to get nutrients from eating a steady diet of marshmallows.
Kyst



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