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RE: Married/Poly Doms - How do they find an interested ... - 2/14/2008 12:06:38 PM   
littlebitxxx


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From the other side of the coin (and probably not helpful at all)  I personally would see no problem in such a relationship.  I've very happily been with a married Dom whose wife was accepting but not in the picture.  It was short-lived and casual but fun nonetheless.  From my point of view, I don't understand the problem any sub would have with your offer.  Maybe some just want too much and knowing they can't have him full time, they don't want him at all?  And yet, hell, people are doing it all over the country....getting together once in awhile, doing the D/s thing then going home.  What's the difference that there is a You in the offing?  Myself, I would be perfectly happy having your hubby as a part-time Dom knowing you were okay with it but not necessarily present.  To have the close relationship of D/s, or even just the casual playtime, but still able to go home to my own place and my own space.

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RE: Married/Poly Doms - How do they find an interested ... - 2/15/2008 6:03:49 AM   
GACoupleSeeking


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quote:

If he becomes active in your local scene, his chances will rise drastically.


We are extremely active in our local scene and have been for almost 4 years. That has provided the occasional play partner. We are even cultivating new friendships in the scene bordering our state. 
 
quote:

  a) a married man who wants an occasional partner,

 
Actually, he is looking for more than an occasional partner. Our new joint profile, I think, will help clarify a bit more of what he is looking for.
 
Part of the frustration is that there are so many out here who are cheating on their S/O or spouse. Here we are being honest and he can't even get someone to even respond past the first email they send.
 
Thanks for your comments and the search goes on!

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RE: Married/Poly Doms - How do they find an interested ... - 2/15/2008 6:05:39 AM   
GACoupleSeeking


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To littlebitxx: how soon can you get to Atlanta, GA??? LOL. Thanks for your words. They certainly are encouraging!

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