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Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:15:23 PM

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There's a popular genre of porn called clothed female/naked male or CFNM. Although it occassionally centers around consensual nudity, such as guys volunteering to strip and model for women or serve as a naked waiter, it more often involves guys coerced or tricked into being naked for the enjoyment of females. For example, guys forced to strip and act as props in a health class so girls can learn about maleanatomy or girls spying secretly on guys as they shower.

There's a lot of debate in cfnm circles as to whether the claims of cfnm situations are real. Some older guys claim, for example, that boys in high school had to swim naked at the school pool while girls got to wear swim suits.

So get a load of this. Seems like proof to me. What do you think is going on here?

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:34:43 PM

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Why is the person who wrote the letter spending so much time spying on his/her neighbors and going so far as checking the boy for arousal?

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:42:15 PM

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*laugh* Sounds like a prudish neighbor cant handle a nudist boy next door. Some families are perfectly comfortable being dressed or undressed around one another, others arent. That article has nothing to do with CFNM. Its just a young man whose family is understanding enough to accept however he is most comfortable, and a neighbor who needs a hobby.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:49:11 PM

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Hi DiurnalVampire,

I disagree that the article has nothing to do with cfnm. Since the guy is naked and the females aren't, it's cfnm. CFNM doesn't have to be about domination or humiliation although I think that's the hotter kind.

I wonder if the woman who wrote Abby secretly enjoys what she's seeing? I guess I wonder how often older women like that get curious about younger guys, like their sons buddies, for example.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:49:56 PM

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I agree, its just general nudity, not neccisarily a kink of any kind

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:56:43 PM

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OP, I think you are reading what you want into this whole thing. As has been stated above me, the kid has a family who is ok with him hangin in his birthday suit. Its no big deal. Theres nothing sexual about it. He's apparently just comfortable and feels more free. The neighbor, however, needs to get curtains, a hobby, or avoid the family all together. He's not hurting anyone at all.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 6:59:52 PM

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But why so quick to dismiss anything sexual about it? What's wrong with it being sexual? Let's say he gets off on being naked and the women get off on seeing him naked. So what?

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 7:08:31 PM

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Well, seeing as the only confirmed women who see him are his sister and his mother...

It'd be incestuous. That'd be just a little wrong in a lot of people's eyes.

There's no way of knowing the gender of the person who wrote the letter. It could have been a male neighbor.(as I recall)

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 7:13:15 PM

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Ok, Hapki. You ask why I am so quick to dismiss anything remotely sexual about a guy wanting to be naked in his home. I'm just giving you other points of views. Nothing is wrong with being sexual. I never stated that, and if you knew me personally, or seen some of my online photo albums, youd know that. If he gets off being watched, and knowing that the old bat is perving him, more power to him. Since however, I know neither of the individuals, it just seems like a guy that likes being naked.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 9:36:07 PM

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It also says in the article that 'he isn't aroused'. Nothing in that entire letter suggests that anything sexual is going on. Like Kyttyn said, I think you're just reading to much into it.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 9:55:36 PM

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Hi DiurnalVampire,

I disagree that the article has nothing to do with cfnm. Since the guy is naked and the females aren't, it's cfnm. CFNM doesn't have to be about domination or humiliation although I think that's the hotter kind.

Erm... people just being naked doesn't make something porn. A story about a woman being raped in real life doesn't make it rape porn though someone may find it arousing anyway.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 1/31/2008 9:57:27 PM

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quote:

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But why so quick to dismiss anything sexual about it? What's wrong with it being sexual? Let's say he gets off on being naked and the women get off on seeing him naked. So what?

I think the odds of it being sexual when it's his family are pretty low. If you were talking about this going on in a dorm or apartment I could see it more but still, being naked is not by itself a sexual thing.

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 2/8/2008 5:41:18 AM

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Why is there a thread here regarding naked teenagers?????????????????????

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RE: Dear Abby, CFNM, and the Naked Teen Guy - 2/13/2008 5:51:34 PM

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Am I the only person who reads this and thinks he's just really sensitive to clothes? You know, like not being able to wear socks that have loose threads inside, or ripping all the tags our of the clothes. Sensory Integration Dysfunction.

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