wolffeathers
Posts: 315
Joined: 8/6/2005 From: Clearwater Status: offline
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My experence with a sub that is attempting to Dom. It just doesn't seem to work. he'll get there sometimes, but, normally, falls flat. The reason why, he's used to being the one ordered. his fiancee will test the boundries, and gets away with it all the time. It's kinda of funny when he attempts to Dominate Me. If the person is a sub, then, most likely, they won't be able to Dom. However, the person (I don't know if your talking about yourself, or someone else, so I'm going to assume someone else for now) may be a switch and not know about it. Hell, I started as a sub, and couldn't figure out why I didn't enjoy it. Then I met a sub, and started to understand that I'm a Dom, not a sub. (My first relationships where with Dominate, not Domme, women). But, that's why there's this thing called experimentation. The sub may find, like I did, that their on the wrong side of the coin, or that they enjoy being sub much more then being a switch.
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