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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:06:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: pregnavygirl

Sirs..... would you be afraid of taking on a sub who was pregnant? I mean im new to lifestyle.. and unfortuntaly pregnant.. but i still wan to learn and serve

Well, it would all depend of the situation.
In the right situation this could work, it all depends. A BDSM relationship can have all the normal relation issues+
And adding your unborn to the mix could just add to the issues. However I also think that with the right Dom you could get a lot of support and guidance that you might need.

So as so many other said be careful out there. You have more than yourself to look out for.

Best of luck
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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:13:29 PM

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disingenuous..... is a great word, and springs to mind. I think it's time to go make scrambled cheesy eggs.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:13:51 PM

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Pregnancy and BDSM...hmm....surely there are screaming throngs of women who assert that the two terms are synonymous. One pregnant poster said she wanted to serve. Well, my opinion is that she should serve her baby. If she's feeling any submissive urges, let them be directed toward her child. If she smokes, she should stop. Ditto if she drinks. And it would be dumb to allow BDSM-style talk to occur in her presence, because you better believe that baby will hear. Also, the submissive who is pregnant needs to know that her baby will be affected by her hormone levels, by the proteins in her blood. Even her neurotransmitters (which are themselves basically hormones modified to serve mental functions) ultimately affect her child. Why bias the baby in favor of BDSM thus? Why people the fetus's formative months with panting, foul-mouthed ogres?

Like it or lump it, folks, there is a lot--and I do mean a lot--of mental aberration that BDSM attracts. Pregnant enthusiasts should beware attracting that energy into their orbit.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:21:27 PM

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Pregnancy and BDSM...hmm....surely there are screaming throngs of women who assert that the two terms are synonymous. One pregnant poster said she wanted to serve. Well, my opinion is that she should serve her baby. If she's feeling any submissive urges, let them be directed toward her child. If she smokes, she should stop. Ditto if she drinks. And it would be dumb to allow BDSM-style talk to occur in her presence, because you better believe that baby will hear. Also, the submissive who is pregnant needs to know that her baby will be affected by her hormone levels, by the proteins in her blood. Even her neurotransmitters (which are themselves basically hormones modified to serve mental functions) ultimately affect her child. Why bias the baby in favor of BDSM thus? Why people the fetus's formative months with panting, foul-mouthed ogres?

Like it or lump it, folks, there is a lot--and I do mean a lot--of mental aberration that BDSM attracts. Pregnant enthusiasts should beware attracting that energy into their orbit.

While i do agree with the points regarding smoking and drinking, please get educated on what occurs in a woman's body during pregnancy before you start making assumptions as to what neurotransmitters and hormones "do" to an unborn child. "Like it or lump it" people DO have sex (panting) while pregnant and, BDSM does not equate "foul mouthed ogres".

I happen to have a KINK FRIENDLY doctor who has ASSURED me that minor play and participation in my chosen lifestyle will not, in any way, harm my baby.

*edited for "clarifying" punctuation*

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:25:01 PM

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Thanks for your great post. It was intelligent and well written. A pleasure to read.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:25:44 PM

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I am assuming that the pic I see is you.

When I mentioned your smile I should have been more expressive and commented on your pic. I was referring to more than just your teeth. I should have gone into detail about how wonderful your eyes smile when your mouth does. I should have included how sensuous your hair looks framing your radiantly smiling face. I might be wrong, but in your eyes I see a warm, sensitive, caring person, who would be a fantastic partner for the right person.

edited to add : I meant no disrespect and I hope I didn't offend you or your's, if you have one.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:26:56 PM

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a sub marine???

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:27:41 PM

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This thread has been the most vicious read I've ever seen -- and that's AFTER the Mods cleaned it up. It's not unreasonable to ask: WTF??????

Is there something about pregnant women having S-E-X that causes people to vomit slime all over their keyboards?

Absolutely 100% serious question.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:29:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

This thread has been the most vicious read I've ever seen -- and that's AFTER the Mods cleaned it up. It's not unreasonable to ask: WTF??????

Is there something about pregnant women having S-E-X that causes people to vomit slime all over their keyboards?

Absolutely 100% serious question.

i'm beginning to wonder the same thing Red

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:31:01 PM

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I think pregnant women can be quite sexy. I don't have a pregnant fetish, but I see many pregnant women as being ultra feminine. I think a pregnant woman having sensible sex is probably a healthy choice.

I am NOT a doctor, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:32:17 PM

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And, for the record, I am not talking about OldBastardly1's posts. In fact, I've been the lucky recipient of reportable email on the other side as well.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:33:17 PM

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I think a pregnant woman having sensible sex is probably a healthy choice.

It IS a healthy choice, barring any type of complications. Any OBGYN worth their salt will tell you that sex through the 9th month is perfectly fine and can actually be beneficial and comforting to the baby. They will only tell you to refrain if there's an issue or if it "hurts"....to err on the side of caution.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:33:35 PM

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i think my kid has done enough vomiting for everyone here.

it seems you may be right tho.

cant for the life of me figure out why tho, since thats how we get them in the 1st place!

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:33:45 PM

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Thank you.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:33:59 PM

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I suggest blocking. After one "love note", if anyone of that sort wants to say something to me, they have to have the balls to say it on the forums where everyone can read it.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:34:42 PM

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I want to say something but I honestly don't know what to say. How to say it. If some of the stuff hadn't been repeated I could almost think it had been typed in error? I don't understand how some people think.

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 4:43:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

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ORIGINAL: camille65

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ORIGINAL: takenbyjohnr07

messed up is right. If there is really a child, i feel sorry for it.

Why?Why would you feel sorry for the UM, and why would you feel it necessary to imply that she is lying? *curiously...*

Using the term UNMENTIONABLE is as pitiful as the judgment used of "taken."

Children are a wondeful blessing... not UNMENTIONABLE.

The use of UM on this site and others is a real slap in the face to children. Think about how they would FEEL, if they KNEW you called them UNMENTIONABLE. I wonder how worthy they might feel in your presence, if they heard you call them that.

Not directed to camille specificially but to ALL who use this term.

To navygirl... No matter your circumstances, you NEED to figure out what is first and foremost of importance in your life.

You must respect and gain acceptance of you and your situation BEFORE you give yourself and your unborn child into the hands of another. Without this, your reckless abandon will again open you up to "unfortunate" situations.

Just my perspective and opinions ....ignore all if you choose.

Sir's devoted property

huh... I've always used UM as a shortened version of "underaged minor"...repetitious, I agree...

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 5:03:48 PM

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i am a slave, and a mother...can i just say that littles and the lifestyle, do affect the relationship you will have with any Dom coming in.

slavelilly

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 5:15:22 PM

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another good point lilly, thanks

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RE: Pregnant and Submissive - 2/3/2008 5:16:21 PM

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i lovvvvvvve that jam, howd you know?!?!
gonna blast it while i cut up the chicken!

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