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Vancouver_cinful -> Need help brainstorming... (9/6/2005 5:46:09 PM)

My dominant has decided I should be the one to come up with the consequences for blurting out "Don't touch them!" yesterday.

Just to bring you up to speed...We were trying new nipple clamps and I blurted that out in reference to my nipples immediately after the clamps came off...

I offer no excuses, although, in my defense it really wasn't meant as an order (it was preceeded by another comment which he didn't hear but I don't want to complicate the post)...Yes, it sounded exactly like an order to him, and I accept the blame. ::sigh:: I intend to take it gracefully!

Please keep in mind that neither of us believes in corporal punishment. We'd rather the consequences fit the crime, so to speak.

I'm hoping that some discussion might spark my creative juices on this...I want him to feel assured that I am sincere in my intentions.

Thanks so much,
Cin



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/6/2005 6:29:28 PM)

Obviously he should simply not touch them...for a long time.

While I don't think punishment is really useful in this situation- automatic responses are simply that and your intention was surely not anything against his wishes, he should just give you what you wanted- no touching, at all, for a long time.



Gauge -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/6/2005 6:52:34 PM)

The closest I can come to a brainstorm is a light drizzle. [&:]



CreativeControl -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/6/2005 7:50:40 PM)

cin,

Very simply, perhaps having your mouth washed out with soap may help you...or even being made to hold a bar of soap in your mouth for several hours. Or a variation of that...holding the soap in your mouth and being made to wear the nipple clamps while weights are added over several hours.

Those are off the top of my head...hope it helps. I can cook up some more if you want them.

Good luck...oh, what type of nipple clamps were used? That might help the creative process.

Farris




OscarHargraves -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/6/2005 10:20:54 PM)

I think you should have to beg your master to touch them for awhile. I would like to see you on your knees, head bowed and begging for his touch. Be specific. Beg for each little thing you want touched and each thing you want done. Show him that you really want his attentions and are very sorry for your exasperating lack of control.



fastlane -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 5:16:10 AM)

First off, write "Don't touch them", 500 times on note book paper and then follow that up with a paper stateing by you, how that was inappropriate behavior as a sub to give order's to your Dom.

I'm not into all that extreme Pain shiat, but I probably would also show you some humiliation tactics, like making you write in lipstick on your breast, these are Master's to do as he pleases with.

I have nipple clamps that adjust the tension rather nicely and ease those that don't like nipple pain into it slowly...BTW



KatyLied -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 7:45:30 AM)

quote:

I have nipple clamps that adjust the tension rather nicely and ease those that don't like nipple pain into it slowly...BTW


Well it looks like someone is planning on some "fun" (punishment)



fastlane -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 8:28:11 AM)

are you volunteering?



KatyLied -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 8:46:36 AM)

You know I'm all over that punishment curious stuff....but nipple clamps....OUCHIE



fastlane -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 10:08:38 AM)

Katy
You want to be punished for your personal enjoyment, not to truly be punished.
So, I would suggest to behave and you will not have to worry about the nipple clamps, which would be a true punishment to you.
As for the other stuff you are curious about...I'm all over it and although it may hurt a little....it is not punishment....it is.....satisfying your curiosity![:)]



KatyLied -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 10:14:31 AM)

[;)] You know what it is.



CitizenCane -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 3:59:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

First off, write "Don't touch them", 500 times on note book paper and then follow that up with a paper stateing by you, how that was inappropriate behavior as a sub to give order's to your Dom.

I'm not into all that extreme Pain shiat, but I probably would also show you some humiliation tactics, like making you write in lipstick on your breast, these are Master's to do as he pleases with.

I have nipple clamps that adjust the tension rather nicely and ease those that don't like nipple pain into it slowly...BTW


The first part of this is a really poor way to accomplish anything- condition exactly the wrong message.

Cane



RandBcouple -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 6:11:27 PM)

I'd get bitch slapped, for sure....and not in a fun way either. A none physical way would be to have you walk around in the mall with your Master with your hands firmly grasping your beasts.

It sounds like a very simple task, however, can you imagine the looks you'd get and the humiliation you'd feel, i bet those words would never come out of your mouth again so quickly.

RandBcouple



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 8:09:16 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: CitizenCane

quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

First off, write "Don't touch them", 500 times on note book paper


The first part of this is a really poor way to accomplish anything- condition exactly the wrong message.

Cane


I have to agree, I thought the same thing when I read that. I'm leaning towards having to write [Dom's name]'s toys all over my breasts and taking a photo. Something for me to look at to remind myself, and for him to keep as a promise...LOL

Cin



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 8:14:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RandBcouple
A none physical way would be to have you walk around in the mall with your Master with your hands firmly grasping your beasts.


Hmmm, I'm pretty sure all the families with children in the mall wouldn't appreciate that much. There's public humiliation and there's socially unnacceptable behaviour. For me that would fall under the latter. But thanks for the thought.

Cin




raeanha -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/7/2005 9:36:57 PM)



quote:

I have to agree, I thought the same thing when I read that. I'm leaning towards having to write [Dom's name]'s toys all over my breasts and taking a photo. Something for me to look at to remind myself, and for him to keep as a promise...LOL


What about having to post the aforementioned photo on the D/s friendly site of His choosing, to publicly express your commitment?



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Need help brainstorming... (9/10/2005 6:41:02 PM)

Writing on my breasts and taking photos (with nipple clamps on, of course) went over big, and we're both happy with the results. T. now has a photo commitment of my promise and I have to use one of the photos as a wallpaper on my computer for a week to remind myself.
I love creative and effective discipline.
Thanks everyone for the ideas.
Cin



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