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suessub -> Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 12:52:14 AM)

I sleep at my Mistress's feet. That is to say, when I climb into bed, I grab my pillow, do a 180 and snuggle up to her feet. Since now my feet are near her head, I make sure to angle them toward the edge of the bed, away from her.

Funny thing, this was not deliberate on either of ours part. Couple months back, after a particularly intense evening that really woke up my submissive self, when I came to bed I could not get comfortable. Something in me just felt unsettled. So, half-awake and not knowing why, I grabbed my pillow and cuddled her feet. And a wave of calm and contentness came over me and I fell fast asleep.

To this day, she does not demand I sleep thus. But she does invite me to. I think it is important to her that me sleeping at her feet is my choice. She enjoys it for me to offer her this submission. We no longer sleep as husband and wife, but now as Mistress and slave. As it should be.

Confuses the kids, but there's a topic for another day.

So...where do you sleep and how did that arrangement come to be?




Focus50 -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 1:00:36 AM)

The girl sleeps right next to me!
 
The little joys of ownership are having those naked feminine bits to grope at my leisure if I awaken during the night.  Quite the "security blanket", ay?  ;-)
 
Focus.




ForeverOwned -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 2:54:13 AM)

i sleep in my husband's arms.




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 3:00:19 AM)

No one who snores sleeps with me...and sometimes not in the same room. So, anne and I rarely sleep together when we see each other. Otherwise, I love to cuddle up...especially if I can be in the middle. Of course, I like that until I have to get up and pee.

Master Fire




ProlificNeeds -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 4:48:54 AM)

Wherever, whenever.
Usually in the bed and naked for easy groping has been the choice of most of my partners.




mhawk -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 5:25:14 AM)

well to be compleatly honest my Lord and Mistress have provided me with my own quarters including my own bed.

every night that is where i am required to sleep. sometimes on the weekends i either for one night  sleep with my Lord in his bed or sleep with my Mistress/His wife in her bed.

now when it's too cold, or storming,the house being drafty and such i am allowed to come downstairs and sleep in my Lord's bed.

the other exception recently was all in the same week i underwent oral surgery and had a cold at the same time so my Mistress allowed for me to sleep downstairs in the room accross from Hers so She could check on me to make sure i was allright.





fairerthanshe -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 5:50:00 AM)

I sleep naked in the bed next to SJ.  He tends to grope in the middle of the night and pulls me to him if I roll away.  He snores and I sleep through it until he stops. Then I wake up and usually watch him sleep for a little bit before shutting my eyes again.

well wishes ~ fairer




sunshinemiss -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 6:01:58 AM)

well, when with a Dom/Master, usually I sleep with Him... when alone I have a regular western bed but I prefer my bed on the floor... it's warmer and I've always preferred sleeping on a futon on the floor. 




parttimehotty -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 6:05:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: suessub

I sleep at my Mistress's feet. That is to say, when I climb into bed, I grab my pillow, do a 180 and snuggle up to her feet. Since now my feet are near her head, I make sure to angle them toward the edge of the bed, away from her.

Funny thing, this was not deliberate on either of ours part. Couple months back, after a particularly intense evening that really woke up my submissive self, when I came to bed I could not get comfortable. Something in me just felt unsettled. So, half-awake and not knowing why, I grabbed my pillow and cuddled her feet. And a wave of calm and contentness came over me and I fell fast asleep.

To this day, she does not demand I sleep thus. But she does invite me to. I think it is important to her that me sleeping at her feet is my choice. She enjoys it for me to offer her this submission. We no longer sleep as husband and wife, but now as Mistress and slave. As it should be.

Confuses the kids, but there's a topic for another day.

So...where do you sleep and how did that arrangement come to be?


i've always slept next to my Dom. Once, during a particularly brutal session, during "breaktime" and he napped to rejuvinate, i felt happier sleeping on the floor though he kept his hand on my leg as he fell asleep, indicating he wanted me near him, when he started to snore, i hit the floor!  (Hey, i'm a poet and didn't know it:)

Btw, i hit the floor because that was my 1st really "brutal" session and i was not enjoying it at all so cuddling w/him didn't appeal to me in the least....i know it's not about MY feelings, but i was only 2 months into my intro to bdsm and didn't have the correct mindset at the time and thought about my feelings only ;(




childoftheshadow -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 6:32:31 AM)

It depends . . . if I got to bed first, I starfish in the middle of the bed until he comes in and makes me move . . . if we go to bed together, I just curl up on my side.




Shawn1066 -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 7:19:46 AM)

I sleep next to my Owner.  Usually curled up in her arms.

DV's Fox




AquaticSub -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 7:24:27 AM)

In the bed, next to him, like a "vanilla" couple. It's comfortable and how we've always slept.




RCdc -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 7:27:44 AM)

Always in Darcys' arms.
 
the.dark.




ProlificNeeds -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 7:34:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: childoftheshadow

It depends . . . if I got to bed first, I starfish in the middle of the bed until he comes in and makes me move . . . if we go to bed together, I just curl up on my side.


Sounds like me. even when trying to conform to my side though, limbs tend to fall out of the bed or wander into the other half of the bed.




littlebitxxx -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 7:38:57 AM)

I take my half out of the middle, or crosswise....well, until he crawls in then it's back to my own side.  When the snoring gets to be too much, it's the couch or spare room.




missturbation -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 8:17:28 AM)

It varies.
When with Him it could be in the bed or on the floor next to Him. Usually when on the floor i am restrained.
When Sir isnt around i sprawl in my big double bed or curl up on my dog bed with my dog blanket.




hejira92 -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 10:55:06 AM)

About 5 nights a week I sleep curled up on the edge of my way-too-big king sized bed.[:(]
 
But 2 nights a week, I sleep cuddled up to, or at least within arm's reach of, Master. [:D] One of those nights is my house, the other, His.
 
The hardest part is leaving Him in my bed to go to work. [:'(]
 
But, I am doubly blessed in that He doesn't snore. [:)]




breatheasone -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 11:01:10 AM)

When Master and I are together, I sleep in bed next to Him. I'm old and have arthritis, NOT sleeping on the floor thanks LOL [:)]




kyraofMists -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 11:19:43 AM)

We sleep where he wants us to sleep.  Mostly that is with me on his left and Alandra on his right.  I usually sleep with ear plugs since he snores so loud you can hear it in the entire house. 

One night when I couldn't get comfortable in bed (he was taking up too much room) I slept on the floor.  He was rather annoyed that I did and now I have instructions to wake him up and get him to move if he is taking up too much room.  There were a couple nights when I was very sick that I slept sitting up in his recliner.  I could not breathe if I was laying flat, so I had to sit up.

Knight's Kyra 




completenz -> RE: Where Do You Sleep? (2/6/2008 1:53:44 PM)

we sleep in each others arms and that is exactly where He wants me to be
c




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