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jadedserendipity -> RE: Daddy's and Daddy's Girls (2/10/2008 2:29:58 PM)
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I need a Daddy, a man who can without skipping a beat control me yet guide me, one who is not afraid to say, "little one think about what you are doing and why you are doing it." A man who can nurture and love me, guide me and teach me, own and possess me, all while he holds the reigns so to speak.
There is nothing familial about the dynamic in my opinion, and I think referring to me as "daughter" would throw me, there are terms that I personally will never be comfortable with and that would be one.
You see I seek a Daddy, not a Father, I had one of those and that is not what I need. I need the man whose lap I can sit upon and sort out the mess of the day when I have had a rough day one evening, and the next be naked besides his collar and leash and feel more secure and covered than I ever have. It is a strength with nurturing that I need and that seems to be what is found within a Daddy/babygirl dynamic for me.
Do I think I seek this due to a lack of relationship with the man who donated the sperm to create me? I suppose that could be a small part of it, but I would not heap it all into one basket, I think in a relationship I have always had a need for nurturing and guidance. Just someone who can hold me upon his lap and listen to my bad day tirade, even though in the back of his mind there is a gnawing thought that he is just dying to bend me over the ottoman that his feet rest upon. And I need him to do just that when we finish up........
I dunno if that helps at all but thats my two cents.
~*Jaded*~
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