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Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 3:47:37 PM   
MasterLawrence


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Status: offline 		I am seriously look to improve my ability to master the art of performing Verbal Humiliation.
Anyone ever seen any good resources either books, movies, or on the internet?
Thanks


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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 3:53:38 PM   
sexysubbunny


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Status: offline 		I would be very interested in also finding out more about this too!
Any information would be greatly appreciated... my Dom is into practicing this and has lots of experience, but i am wanting to know more of the whole aspect of its meaning, and a subs attitude while in training with it!

Thank so much!!

bunny..

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 4:00:37 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Like all humiliation it has nothing to do with the actual words being said.

It takes attitude, it takes hooking into the person and knowing what will push them down and knowing you can dangle them on that edge and though they might be cringing and shivering and sobbing at that moment, that they will kiss and worship you for it later.

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 4:25:14 PM   
MasterLawrence


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Status: offline 		You make it sound so simple. I was think more complex on words and more of a script.
I want to really learn to do this correctly.

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 4:31:04 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Aye that is the rub. It really IS that simple and yet it really is that hard.

I adore humiliation and heaven help me but I couldn't think of the first thing to tell you HOW to humiliate me other than what I've already said.

Although I will have to say that scripts only work on newbies who haven't heard it/seen it all before and transfer EVERYTHING into hot/new/OMG.

You have to reach into them, their minds, their sense of being, and push on the buttons that make them the most vulnerable.

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 4:53:22 PM   
Fawne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Like all humiliation it has nothing to do with the actual words being said.

It takes attitude, it takes hooking into the person and knowing what will push them down and knowing you can dangle them on that edge and though they might be cringing and shivering and sobbing at that moment, that they will kiss and worship you for it later.

Well said, EmeraldSlave2. Thanks!

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 7:06:53 PM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		I think EmeraldSlave2 has the right of it. You might finde a resource that gives examples, bu thter is no universal script. No two people have identicle buttons. Name calling for example (like slut or bitch) is humiliation for some but a term of affection for others.

I have enjoyed verbal humiliation from both sides, and even what works on me has changed. And what works on me varies by the one performing it as well.

Nuke }:-


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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 7:21:31 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		How could I humiliate a submissive if I do not know her? I couldn't. I may piss her off, or embarass her, but humiliation is from knowing your partner. Atleast that is my opinion.

If I call my sub a cum slut bitch whore, I'm not humiliating her, I'm turning her on.
Those words may humiliate others though? That's my point.

For me to humiliate my lil pet, I'd have to say something like "Oh, you are such a pretty little MILF, I bet all the boys want you, but not the men!" Coz, I know her!

That's my .02 good luck, Kevin


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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 8:05:49 PM   
Hallittlelolita


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Status: offline 		Try an advanced google search for example bdsm verbal humiliation tips or ideas

Sincerely andie and her Master hal

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/12/2005 8:42:43 PM   
KittenWithaTwist


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Status: offline 		Fetish Diva Midori has two essays on erotic humiliation in her latest book, "Wild Side Sex". She also teaches a class on the subject.

Humiliation is one of my absolute favorite activities, not only verbal, but also physical objectifcation and humiliation. If you ever have any questions, feel free to message me on collarme.

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RE: Verbal Humiliation - 9/13/2005 12:56:51 PM   
obis


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Like all humiliation it has nothing to do with the actual words being said.
...it takes hooking into the person and knowing what will push them down


Indeed, trying to use a script would be too generic. Just to show the individuality of folks, I have typically used praise like "good girl" as a comforting/bonding phrase, but the girl I am with now finds it demeaning and condescending rather than reassuring.

So of course I use it in exactly the OPPOSITE situation of when I would use it with someone else. "Good Girl" is what I call her to indicate she's being restrained and needs to push on her barriers, and she finds it quite humiliating to be told how "good" she is being.

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