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BravHart1969 -> Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 2:00:20 PM)
I’m looking to buy my first flogger.. I want something, that is good for a “beginner” .. But not something I’m going to grow out of to fast.. Something with a bit of “sting” to it… So can ya point me in the direction of what type of material and style is good for that? Thanks, Tom

Hotch -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 2:20:59 PM)
Deerhide = soft Cowhide = medium Bullhide = heavy Rubber = stingy Chain = deadly There's flat, round, knoted, braided and beaded tails. Short tails, Long tails, medium tails. Thin tails, thick tails. Black, blue, red and green tails... See where I'm going with this? The best way is to go shopping and find what suits you.

TieNTeas -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 3:18:34 PM)
Not to mention how it feels in your hand, where the balance point is, length of tails and handle, etc. If you don't have a local shop, ask others in the community if you can try theirs out to get a feel for what you like.

azropedntied -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 4:31:47 PM)
Do not skimp on quality for the sake of price point .Pay the extra bucks for the better crafts people out there so you buy the item once not buy it use it break it replace it and repeat .Ask the people if they stand behind the product . What i mean by stand by it if it falls apart from miss use too bad but from poor quality or workmanship will they fix or replace it . Hotch put up a good gauge there too , but also take into account of the number of falls , the end cut ,tightness of the weave ,length of falls as well as the material used .

Thorns82 -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 7:11:24 PM)
When we were looking we checked out a club that had a vendor section. We were able to find a high quality shop and test out a few in order to find the kind we would like.

Hotch -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/15/2008 9:00:19 PM)
One thing I do like about S&M, is the fact that many impliments are finely crafted works of art, not cheap Chinese imports. On the other hand, you can always unlay some rope and make a cat'o nine tails like an old salt.

ThunderRoad -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 2:10:30 PM)
All that said, if you are a true newbie, get deerskin. It's soft and you won't kill yourself as you are learning from whapping your owns. You'll also be using it always as a warm-up flogger so it's a good investment. I also need to echo the sentiments of DON'T SKIMP ON QUALITY for the sake of price.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 3:31:11 PM)
The way the lengths are cut matters a fair bit. I'd say go to a quality shop where you can take a whack or two on yourself with them to understand what they'll feel like. 'Stingy' is more surface sensation, which I was always told is the best place to start, and work into 'thuddy' the deeper muscular impacting blows. Of course the first flogger I was handed to practice with was a heavy moosehide with 18" diamond cut tails. [&:] I don't suggest starting there!

MsBearlee -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 3:41:01 PM)
I would suggest something thuddy; perhaps elkskin with lots of long falls. Were you to choose something like one I have, made of some sort of rubber floor-matting, you might hurt somebody. I'd avoid chain for your first flogger. ...she says drolly. MsB

liks2plzlf -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 6:04:22 PM)
CHAIN! What do you mean chain?

Hotch -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 7:07:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf CHAIN! What do you mean chain? It was a joke... or was it? Muhahaha!

azropedntied -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/17/2008 11:00:01 PM)
well i sell the chain floggers in my line up , they do exist though not a big heavy chain like i used to carry way back when to lock my bike up at school , rather key chain ball connector types .They can also double as sensation play items used in hot or cold , and texture also can be electrified with a violet wands body contact probe or pad . Hotch > i have seen the cheap made in china floggers , they are better than a Halloween prop or what spencers has but thats about it and just slightly above that . I know a new person could be fooled easy by those, thinking they are getting a deal and just not know what they are looking at or looking for as far as a good or even better quality item .I would also suggest buying from people who are in bdsm using the items and ask fro references or referrals from others , you see someone nice flogger ask where it was acquired .

MsBearlee -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 6:23:03 AM)
liks2, yeah chain! :D http://www.detailstoys.com/high_inten_floggers.html http://leathersensations.com/inventory.htm http://www.fools-errant.com/bdsm/floggers/bcflogs.html My birthday is comin' up...wanna send a tribute? heh heh heh They're yummie! MsB

liks2plzlf -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 7:18:50 AM)
Not quite the chain I first imagined, but that still has to hurt. Leave a mark! May I ask just when the big day will be? It would be great to please you for your birthday. I used to tell former vanilla girl friends on their birthdays, I would be their slave for the day. None ever really picked up on it though.

MsBearlee -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 7:59:42 AM)
awwwwwwww, liks2, I keep telling you EVERYTHING is relative! It would only hurt if I wanted it to hurt. It would only leave a mark if I intended it leave a mark. I was teasing about my birthday...it's not till the middle of July. <smiles> But, you keep saying things like that and yet you stay out of Colorado. What is a woman to think? MsB

ThunderRoad -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 8:15:40 AM)
Of course, as soon as you get a flogger, next you'll need to get a cross. And then you need to explain to roommates and parents what it's doing in your living room and then pretty much all of your disposable income is going for toys ....

MsBearlee -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 8:21:41 AM)
LOL While it's true about my extra money...I just put eye-bolts in the ceiling; any one of which can support a large man's full body weight. <WEG> B

liks2plzlf -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 9:52:33 AM)
I have been planning a trip to Colorado, but home repairs keep getting in the way. Just spent $600 on the furnace. But hopefully towards the end of the month. Eye-bolts! I would rather be kneeling, but I guess it is not my decision. Poor slaves!

MsBearlee -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 1:21:47 PM)
Kneeling! Once you said, to your dissappointment, you can't kneel much anymore; then you implied you couldn't kneel for a moment (to offer a Lady a cup of tea) and now you say you'd rather kneel than...what? I don't actually hang men, ya know...it's just how strong the eyebolts are. I like a man to keep his feet firmly planted on the ground. Anyway, I'm thinking you're just a big tease. Still, don't come to Colorado to serve me...we'd have to 'do lunch' first. Yeah, I'm that cautious..........well, and picky. LOL MsB

liks2plzlf -> RE: Looking for my first flogger... (2/18/2008 8:32:57 PM)
I might be wrong, but I thought I said I can't kneel as long as I used to. I thought I remarked that kneeling to serve you tea would be one of the desirable things. I have been trying to get away, but about eleven hundred dollars for emergency home repairs has hampered a little. Plus your damn Colorado mountains have not been very cooperative with all that snow. We have had one storm after another here too. Who is shoveling all that snow for you? It is good to be cautious, I would not want to rush into anything to quickly either.

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