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girlygurl -> RE: Perving Protocol (2/17/2008 4:20:53 PM)
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ORIGINAL: WalterRego
When you see that someone has viewed your profile, do you have an overwhelming desire to see who they are? Do you go immediately to see who they are and what they are like? To figure out why they looked at you, or whether they might even be a “person of interest”?
No I don't. If I recognize the name from the boards I may go look. Or if I'm realllllllly board, I may perv the person back.... and even on occasion I'll send a quick "hello"
Do you at least immediately assume now it’s now "okay" to look at theirs? Do you feel even partly “obligated” to reciprocally look at theirs? To send a note of some sort?
I don't feel obligated to perv someone that's perved me.
Or to preserve your cool, do you at all costs resist the urge to look at theirs? And instead try to satisfy your curiosity based on the truncated half sentence that comes up when you roll over their name?
If I want to look I look
What if it’s obvious by those few words you read that it must have been something you wrote in a post, and nothing else? Does that make it easier to look ...or harder?
Don't care
If you see by those few words that they are clearly not of your orientation do you feel rude, nosey or uncomfortable about reading their whole profile?
Does merely posing these questions mark me as a closet humiliation slut just begging for public abuse?
(by the way, these questions were not provoked by anyone who may have looked at my profile within the last week. I've wondered about it for a while. And I will not look or even peek at your profile under any circumstances. Well, not at least for a week, until a sufficient period of time has gone by )
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