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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

Okay, we all know it's about yer butt, but what has an anus to do with a bowel?  Bowels are internal...an anus hardly is.  And...anal sex goes not much further inside a body than does a long finger; so...whadup? 

I do not see them as related...other then making sure one is comfortable, clean and not cramping when the attempt is made.  Who would make such an attempt otherwise? 

I'm sorry, I just do not see these things as connected physically.  (yes, I see a difference if we are discussing Crohn's or actual rectal fissures or other problems.)  Seems to me phone sex has little to do with any thing physical and everything to do with fantasy.

Having experienced Diverticulosis, I can understand your concern...but I wonder if it is warranted.  How 'bout just go slow..and with a friend.

MsB.