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RE: online slaves - 2/19/2008 4:59:30 PM

PsyVamp

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I tried it once or twice, wasn't for me. It's a lot of time with no reward outside of a little "kick" power trip.
I have a pet, a full time job, um's, school... the only on line anything I do is with my friends, there is no time for anything else.

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RE: online slaves - 2/20/2008 4:21:45 PM

bisub4play

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I enjoy online fun and serving Dommes in that fashion via webcam but have had one bad experience. I have a male friend that likes to dominate me also and makes me suck him off on cam. I met a Domme online and we began an online D/s relationship and she enjoyed watching and directing me while I was orally servicing my friend. This went on for like 2 months with me doing cam shows for her like 4 or 5 times a week. Then I found out she was not really a Domme or even a she. It was a guy pretending to be a female Domme online so now I am much more careful who I serve online here...

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RE: online slaves - 2/20/2008 6:09:31 PM

marsneedswomen

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bisub4play

I enjoy online fun and serving Dommes in that fashion via webcam but have had one bad experience. I have a male friend that likes to dominate me also and makes me suck him off on cam. I met a Domme online and we began an online D/s relationship and she enjoyed watching and directing me while I was orally servicing my friend. This went on for like 2 months with me doing cam shows for her like 4 or 5 times a week. Then I found out she was not really a Domme or even a she. It was a guy pretending to be a female Domme online so now I am much more careful who I serve online here...

Yeah, there is a lot of assumption and trust when it comes to camming. I don't do much if any, but I certainly wouldn't cam with someone I had not met or with someone who doesn't share their image. I would like to see the reactions to what I am doing and it being one sided just makes it seem so dishonest.

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RE: online slaves - 2/20/2008 8:17:54 PM

MistressDolly

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Well, I'm an online slave and not a jack off loser ... my shit is together and I do it RT whenever possible... Here's a link to a similar thread... and my answer as to why... It'd be nice if you didn't call people names... Even Thumper from Bambi knows not to do that.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1562989/mpage_7/key_dirt/tm.htm#1567793

You don't have to serve in the flesh for it to be "real". Every day millions of people serve and worship a God they never see or hear. Does this make their worship false?

Regarding serving on-line, there are many ways to show your devotion. Sexual, monetary and psychological pathways can be explored without the flesh.

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RE: online slaves - 2/22/2008 7:36:50 AM

jovonna

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Online means little to me. No control or respect . I am more of a real-time domme.

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RE: online slaves - 2/22/2008 1:22:50 PM

PreeminentMiss

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Check out this link:

http://www.thestar.com/living/article/305282

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RE: online slaves - 2/22/2008 1:34:29 PM

parfait

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what are dommes views on online slaves? am new to the scene and just to make it clear this is not an add lol im just wondering if dommes are actually genuilly interested or if most of you a just into the real thing?

I have a question for you. What in your mind are the benefits for a Mistress of an online slave? This is not a sarcasm but seriously.. if you think of it..what does the Mistress benefit of it ?

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RE: online slaves - 2/22/2008 8:22:54 PM

BossyLadyPamela

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This lifestyle is always filled with people of both sides that are so quick to judge for other people. I have my opinions of many others choices and know they are not for me.. BUT clearly I respect their choice to do what ever they want.....   back then waay back then for me, I started out with online associations with men who I put through fbi clearances..

the security was something that was not negotiable. never.. when they passed .. and their desire after extensive phone and online and non in touch interactions......... after I had no doubt left, I met them in person for what usually always was the first of many real time get togethers...... sometimes for a weekend at a time or a few hours......   This is the entry to my associations always, on line first with the combination of phone and other.. it is intense and very personal and was the determining factor whether I wanted to see them.. I am not telling anyone to try it, I am telling you that it can be very intense.........very... it has given me some of the most joyful submissive associations I have ever had.

I saw some of these submissive graduates for years every few months.. still talk to some of them.. I have today a few that I feel very close to that I still have never met face to face.. Two from here on CM that I will very likely when my time is right meet them for a face to face interaction....

I can tell you on line with some bores me to tears and it doesnt work.. but there are some others who have given me what I want with who they are and it is powerful.. they can not think of anything else but me in their idle thoughts.. they crave me and it is just how I want it.. I want them to be positive and healthy though, so when their missing me or craving me is too much I must remind them they are not going to be near me anytime soon... if at all.

In this lifestyle, there is so much judgement of what others do..     my feeling is always be open for things that may surprise you..    I remember standing in front of an event once that did nothing to me at all.. not a thing.. it was rather yuckie actually...

then years later, with my time and experimentation of my deep feeling of who I am-- totally free exploration of my domme power flowing.. .. just getting older and more in tuned, I get drunk with this very activity when done right and under the right circumstances.. never say never-- ( I have my never hard limits though that I do mean never on-- kids, animals and violence)

but other than that.. anything probably will go..

On line is intensely powerful as a entry to the next sense of audio.. .. I enjoy adding things non traditional.. like adding smellling and taste without ever meeting..   this topic is one dear to my heart as I know I can become extremely close with another who is in tuned and honest to receive me................ really.

then when the meeting by my clock happens if at all, is life changing.. so online for me is wonderful.

Imagine this:   there was this one man who I enjoyed nearly daily phone and email exchange with for nearly a year.. the first meeting was in a hotel ..him waiting with his mask and all his instructions..    we met with our voices now including touch and breathing... dear god it was hot.. to unfold the senses way out of natural order..   again, I got drunk with it with absolutely no alcohol...

my domme space is my drug.

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RE: online slaves - 2/23/2008 5:12:20 AM

irishdan

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in answer to your question Parfait i really dont know if a domme does benifit from it and thats why i am asking dommes for their opions

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RE: online slaves - 2/23/2008 11:09:10 AM

Parataxis

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quote:

ORIGINAL: parfait

quote:

ORIGINAL: irishdan

what are dommes views on online slaves? am new to the scene and just to make it clear this is not an add lol im just wondering if dommes are actually genuilly interested or if most of you a just into the real thing?

I have a question for you. What in your mind are the benefits for a Mistress of an online slave? This is not a sarcasm but seriously.. if you think of it..what does the Mistress benefit of it ?

The same things that are the benefits to a submissive of an online Mistress - enjoyment, sexual titilation, an ability to experiment without the worry of real-life interactions, and fun.

Really, the way some people here talk, you'd think that dominating somebody wasn't fun at all.

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RE: online slaves - 2/23/2008 12:20:48 PM

chamberqueen

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I enjoy working with online subs. Because of my living conditions it is hard for me to have real time to play. (I travel overseas frequently, have no car, and stay at a room in my sister's house.)

I see a differentiation between sub and slave here. I expect no one to slave for me online because I don't have enough hours in the day to pay them proper attention. However I have had subs that I've chatted with throughout the day, giving them tasks, answering their questions, helping them to see inside themselves. I enjoy this type of relationship because of my circumstances. You can still have a meaningful relationship over the internet - and I have had dozens of subs that way. It works for both them and me.

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