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rubymyside -> Where do i begin? (9/17/2005 9:09:36 AM)

For those who have been here, and done this:

I am going to become a Dominant woman. Im reading a educating myself, and now i am here after lurking around for sometime.
I am not entirely familiar with collar me, but didnt see this as needing to be addressed by role specific replies. But where the hell do i start???

I am pretty sure i identify by what i understand this role to be for me. Im clear on what i want to achieve. I have a need to do this, i want to take small steps, its a little scary still. I realise that i am not a Domme, but that is what i aspire to be.

I may not have this right, but i am differentiating Topping from Domming. I think the former is what i have dabbled in enough-to know, i wish to be the latter.
I want more. I want the control.

Id like to meet someone one day, and enjoy a loving relationship that is in someway, a D/s lifestyle. But that is a long way off.
My question is, how do i get there?




Arcanum808 -> RE: Where do i begin? (9/17/2005 10:50:06 AM)

Figure yourself out... your wants and your desires... good to get some information on BDSM and the dynamics of D/s... read what others have done and gone through - then figure it all out for yourself. There is no 'one true' way to Dom/me. How you do it is up to you - and perhaps there will be someone out there who'll share the experience with you.




theRose4U -> RE: Where do i begin? (9/17/2005 11:59:53 AM)

castlerealm.com as well as members of my local clubs have been very helpful in helping me to develop my own style.




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