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Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 7:04:16 PM   
wolfboy84


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Howdy All,

Well i've been officially tasked to do some research on some humiliation ideas for my Mistress to use against me. So i figured why not get some personal expeirences and tap into the creative stream called the FemDom community lol.

So if All of You would be kind enough to post some humilitation ideas here i would be most greatful. Thanks!

PS. if You could also post Your subs response if actually tried that would be great too. Thankya kindly again.
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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 9:36:41 PM   
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I suggest that your Mistress or you read this thread, there was some lovely ideas in this one.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1601174/tm.htm

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 10:57:19 PM   
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diapers can be fun, especially the ones that crinkle alot when you walk, slap one on and go for a stroll through the mall on a day with a big sale.

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 11:09:05 PM   
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quote:

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diapers can be fun, especially the ones that crinkle alot when you walk, slap one on and go for a stroll through the mall on a day with a big sale.

PM


Insert a suppository just before going in. :O

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 11:20:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly


quote:

ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

diapers can be fun, especially the ones that crinkle alot when you walk, slap one on and go for a stroll through the mall on a day with a big sale.

PM


Insert a suppository just before going in. :O


lol wow evil

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 11:23:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaJayde

I suggest that your Mistress or you read this thread, there was some lovely ideas in this one.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1601174/tm.htm

DJ




Thank Ya much Miss

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/22/2008 11:24:55 PM   
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I would suggest insertion of an anal plug, while making the slave walk around doing daily things...working, cleaning, what have you...while keeping it in place with some tape, and sheer will.

I find that this would serve a few areas the least of which would be humiliation.....

Just one of many...

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/23/2008 11:04:05 AM   
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hehe keep em coming please :P

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/23/2008 11:22:17 AM   
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Why doesn't your Mistress just think of ideas herself?  It's a lot more fun that way.  The whole, "My Mistress asked me to go find stuff to do" tends to make me think there really isn't a Mistress involved and the person posting is just looking for wank material.

That being said, my Owner and I don't really do humiliation, beyond private teasing.

DV's Fox

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/23/2008 3:40:09 PM   
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Gawd......I am sounding like a stuck record on this topic.

It is a bad idea for any of us to try to guess how to humiliate you.  We don't know you.  We don't know what would be erotically embarassing and what would give you a full blown nervous breakdown.  That is your Mistress' job

And only you know what really pushes your humiliation buttons.  Humiliation is a feeling and only you can choose how you will - or will not - feel. 

No-one can control another person's emotional response without his or her consent. 

So if you find it humiliating, it is humiliation

If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't

Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things' Mistresses do

I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism).  And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation)

Same play: totally different psychological response

Same dilemma with strap on play, golden showers, forced bisexuality, ass insertion, age play, cuckoldry etc etc ......one sub's fun humiliation is another sub's abuse. Humiliation is edge play for Mistress and sub.

How can a bunch of strangers guess what will push your buttons without f*cking you up or ruining your D/s relationship?  Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual.  That takes one on one communication. 

We can throw out a whole lot of pornagraphic ideas to titillate you, but I recommend that your Mistress give you a BDSM Checklist (google it) and ask you to tick the ones that you think would be fun humiliation, not degrading. 

< Message edited by MsCfromMelbourne -- 2/23/2008 3:43:30 PM >


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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/23/2008 5:28:15 PM   
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Even though I feel this thread is just looking for jerk-bank materia...I will recommend try some of the ideas on FrugalDomme.com

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 8:29:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Shawn1066

Why doesn't your Mistress just think of ideas herself?  It's a lot more fun that way.  The whole, "My Mistress asked me to go find stuff to do" tends to make me think there really isn't a Mistress involved and the person posting is just looking for wank material.


Especially someone who is brand new to the forums.  Yep yep.

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 9:03:50 AM   
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I agree  its like cheating on your bdsm mid term exam's .If you need wank material buy a penthouse forum .Shawn,MsC,rob,Pandora -all well said .

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 10:16:58 AM   
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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 11:05:05 AM   
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Elaine i was thinking more line with have him buy the maxi pads, some depends ,Tampons , douche , and make sure they get a price check on all those items ,Maybe add some Hemmeroid cream too .

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 11:21:17 AM   
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go to the women's department, select some panties, go to the men's department, try them on over your briefs--have Her approve them---heh.
 
have Her purchase a remote control shock toy--go shopping--heh.
 


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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 3:03:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: azropedntied

I agree  its like cheating on your bdsm mid term exam's .If you need wank material buy a penthouse forum .


Or how about Aakasha's website?  OP's Mistress would probably enjoy that more

Here's a sample:
http://www.akashaweb.com/stories/bcd/1999-11-08.html

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 2/24/2008 8:41:05 PM   
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Okay....this topic has entertained me from the beginning. But i'm curious...are Diapers really that humiliating to alot of submisives/slaves? I could see how, having it checked in public or stated out loud that he/she was wearing would be. But the actual act of wearing..meh, The Crinkles aren't even loud enough to draw the attention of others.



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RE: Humiliation ideas - 3/5/2008 11:18:02 AM   
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forbid the sub to use the bathroom then take him or her on a nature hike that includes walking near a flowing river.

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RE: Humiliation ideas - 3/5/2008 11:32:09 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: azropedntied

Elaine i was thinking more line with have him buy the maxi pads, some depends ,Tampons , douche , and make sure they get a price check on all those items ,Maybe add some Hemmeroid cream too .


Why is that humiliating?

Other than the Depends and Prep H, they are obviously not for him.  And I have never seen a clerk REALLY care about what anyone was buying anyways. 

Just have never understood that one.

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