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cravespleasure -> RE: Humiliation (9/10/2006 9:40:36 PM)
walking up to the center of town wearing leather cuffs with big metal rings that clanked, a rope threaded around wrists, and up my arms, down around my chest and up between my ass cheeks with benwa balls "inside". with every step i could hear the faint jingle. with every hand movement i heard the clank. i could feel the restraints all over my body. getting introduced to friends and as shaking their hands hearing the clank. removing my coat in the restaurant and the cuffs being visible at the edge of my sweater. the waiter being very interested in the dynamic between the Dom and i. i had to be very very careful not to clank against the plate.

ayasha -> RE: Humiliation (9/10/2006 10:29:24 PM)
What is humiliating to one person isn't to another - besides, it would not be humiliating if it pleased one's Master, would it?

angielouwhos -> RE: Humiliation (9/10/2006 10:29:39 PM)
I was a "puppy" a few times and one time in particular for the better part of weekend. I enjoyed it but at the same time it was very mentally challenging. The humiliation parts of it were because I was dirty and tired and eating real dogfood no less. That was hard and there was a lot of degrading talk during the play too. It was draining. Sorry to be gross.. but here goes. The single act that I really think back to as very humiliating though was "pooping" in front of about six people at a private party. I had never saw myself as doing that. Peeing is hard to do in front of others but that is really really hard for me.

dcnovice -> RE: Humiliation! (9/16/2006 9:48:07 PM)
quote: I had to support Republican public policy positions over the course of a two hour long discussion with people who did not know the restrictions I was under. Oh, that's downright brutal!

slavelinda -> RE: Humiliation! (9/18/2006 8:41:45 PM)
Most of my humilation usually just happens without any intention at all. Worst humiliation i ever experienced was by accident. i was in the 8th grade in California, where we had classrooms that opened to the outside and it was customary to leave the door open when the weather was nice, which it usually was. One morning i was sitting at my desk and had hung my coat over the back of my chair. i was listening to the teacher, when i suddenly noticed a growing sound of snickering coming from behind me. i looked around and saw the other kids in the class trying to hold in their laughter. Then, i noticed something by my desk. A small dog had wandered into the class and was furiously humping my coat. i turned as red as my coat and had to live out the rest of Junior High being asked how my coat was doing. The second most humilating experience that i ever had was on my 22nd birthday. my Husband/Master took me to a strip bar, as He had done many times before, but, this time W/we both sat right at the bar and i had to put dollars in the girl's g-string and then i had to try to talk with her and ask her if she would like to come home with me to help me celebrate my birthday. It took so long for me to get up the courage. She was really great about it and said that she had a husband and child she needed to go home to. i'm sure i wasn't the first customer to be turned down by her but, it was humiliating, just the same. slave joy owned property of Master David

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliation (9/18/2006 9:49:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ayasha What is humiliating to one person isn't to another - besides, it would not be humiliating if it pleased one's Master, would it? Something certainly can be both.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliation (9/20/2006 8:53:06 PM)
I figured I'd add a post here just to be relevant and to share something nice (and to be a bit humiliating to my partner as well). Today I sliced up a peach to eat on our way to the gym. As we reached the last piece, we walked through a path that was partically obscured and there were no people around that I could see. I turned, put the piece of the peach on my sneaker and made him kneel down to suck and eat it off of the shoe. It was very spontaneous, fun and humiliating for him.

WhyteRavenne -> RE: Humiliation (9/20/2006 9:03:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I figured I'd add a post here just to be relevant and to share something nice (and to be a bit humiliating to my partner as well). Today I sliced up a peach to eat on our way to the gym. As we reached the last piece, we walked through a path that was partically obscured and there were no people around that I could see. I turned, put the piece of the peach on my sneaker and made him kneel down to suck and eat it off of the shoe. It was very spontaneous, fun and humiliating for him. That is so beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing that with everyone! How sweet!

LTRsubNW -> RE: Humiliation (9/21/2006 6:57:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross I figured I'd add a post here just to be relevant and to share something nice (and to be a bit humiliating to my partner as well). Today I sliced up a peach to eat on our way to the gym. As we reached the last piece, we walked through a path that was partically obscured and there were no people around that I could see. I turned, put the piece of the peach on my sneaker and made him kneel down to suck and eat it off of the shoe. It was very spontaneous, fun and humiliating for him. After reading that, it's entirely possible I may be in love.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliation (9/21/2006 6:59:30 PM)
Whyte & LTR- thanks so much. My partner laughed in hearty half embarassed laughter when he read the responses.

LotusSong -> RE: Humiliation (9/21/2006 7:42:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Keep in mind, that what is acceptable in Norway is not neccessarily acceptable in the US. Showing breasts in public is not acceptable here. You may be forcing a parent to have a conversation with their child on your schedule instead of theirs. My point is....it is not our place to decide what others are comfortable with. I think it shows a lack of respect to involve vanillas in your play without their consent or knowledge. You're telling them that you don't care if they're shocked or offended, just as long as you got what you needed. What she said.. Well said.

peterK50 -> RE: Humiliation (9/22/2006 10:43:26 AM)
In the state of New York it is legal for women to go topless. The "Topfree 7" brought suit in state supreme court alledging sex descrimination because men could go shirtless. They won, & now they can.

Silvermoon -> RE: Humiliation (9/22/2006 11:04:44 AM)
Thank heavens it's legal to go Topless in Ontario too! And yes some do take advantage of that face raises hand Sincerely Silver

Zinja2007 -> RE: Humiliation (9/22/2006 11:49:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2 I had to beg for a piece of cake. Humiliation isn't about the act, it's about the internal reactions. That's a good one - begging for a piece of cake. lol, I like that one!

rubyleu -> RE: Humiliation (9/22/2006 2:03:11 PM)
i have 2, both were equally as humiliating. i was in a room with 2 other bdsm couples and Master ordered me to strip naked while everyone was dressed. i was invited to one of Master's male friends country home and was ordered to strip naked outside while they watched and He made me bend down and stick my ass out. He then tied me to the dog fence naked and whipped me hard while the dogs tried to sniff or bite my ass on the other side of the fence, and cars were going by on the highway.. i dont think anyone saw us cos the cops didnt come..

shoedog -> RE: Humiliation (9/28/2006 6:22:09 AM)
Some good ones there! I was humiliated by a girl at univeristy who found out that I had a shoe licking fetish. She saw me in a club pretending to be drunk, and falling at the feet of girls. She found out I was pretending, when I got up and moved to another part of the club. She saw me standing tall and sober!! Obviously she clicked.... She told me she will be back in 5 minutes and I can pretend to be drunk and lick her shoes while she sits in the corner. When she appeared, I fell to the floor, pretending to be drunk, and she made me lick her shoes for over an hour. Then when she had enough, she told me to get up and look across the dance floor.... and I realised, all her freinds were looking at me and laughing. That was by far the most humiliating thing that has ever happenend to me. I left that University soon after.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Humiliation (9/29/2006 6:27:33 PM)
My Sir commanded me to pee on the kitchen floor when i asked to go to the bathroom. It took me forever to actually start - because #1 i was standing up and #2 he was watching me. Then i had to clean it up. Very difficult.

CrappyDom -> RE: Humiliation (9/29/2006 6:43:38 PM)
Speaking as the leaders of teenage boys all across America, we heartily give our complete consent to the exposure of any female bodypart at any time. As a man, no matter how old, about when he has seen flashes from women and they can generally name them all the way back to childhood and they are fond memories. The stick in the muds can go pound sand over as innocent an act as a woman exposing herself which is rarely if ever done as a power trip which is exactly the opposite of how men do it when it IS a power trip and IS negative experience.

Sensualips -> RE: Humiliation (9/29/2006 9:18:12 PM)
quote: I had to support Republican public policy positions over the course of a two hour long discussion with people who did not know the restrictions I was under. Hahahahaha. That sadistic bitch/bastard! I am not sure I have really been humiliated, but a very difficult thing I had to do was refrain from speaking to a particular person at an event for the duration of the evening. I was casually acquainted with her and she approached me a few times with a greeting or a comment. To see her perplexed at me avoiding eye contact and essentially ignoring her was uncomfortable -- initially because it was an awkward moment and I am more socially graceful than that. Eventually I knew that she realized I had been "told" not to speak to her and was "obeying" and then I felt borderline humiliated. Two or three times I have been told to beg for a particular food item (and yes, I always flash on Tross' cake story.) I stubbornly state never mind, I no longer want it.

AquaticSub -> RE: Humiliation (9/29/2006 9:22:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FLButtSlut Nella, As a PARENT, if I took my TWELVE year old son to the movies (which incidentally, at 12, could occur later at night) and we walked by and saw some woman with her breasts hanging out, I can assure you that those people would be reported BY ME, the parent to the proper authorities. I have taught my son about nudity, sex and all the other things he needs to know at this point of his life. That is MY JOB as his parent. It is not the job of a dom/master or sub/slave to make the decision as to what MY child sees, should see, or should develop a "thick skin to make it in society" with. I am a submissive in this lifestyle, but I am a parent 24/7, 365 days a year. Anyone who would publicly overstep the bounds of what I deem appropriate for my child had better be prepared for the consequences, because quite frankly, as it is my duty to see to his upbringing, I don't really care about what happens to someone foolish enough to violate the law for their own pleasure at the expense of others. As Bobbi said, the general public is not consenting to the "play" or "punishment" that is taking place. So if the "players" still choose to do this, they should also be prepared to face the punishment that may come from violating the law. Lewd and lascivious behavior is enough to put you on the sex offender registry. Not worth the risk to me, but hey that's just my opinion. claps

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