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WickedKev -> Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 9:43:44 AM)

I have noticed alot of things said lately about chat rooms, most in the negative. I do agree to some extent with the cyber chatrooms (can't abide them myself but there are some good talk ones. There is one that I go into where I know loads of them r/l. We go to munches, clubs, functions and parties and I have found it to be a positive experience. I have even met my previous slaves there and I met my current slave in yet another. We started out just as friends then she came over here to the UK to meet another Dom and 8 years later we are living together. So yes there are plenty of jerks online both male and female and you just have to put up with them, but overall my experiences have been good.



nella -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 9:50:19 AM)

There is both good and bad in chat rooms, you can meet many good pepole, while some suffer from the internet syndrome and are simply players, secure in that the hurt they create and the words they say will have no consequeses for them there they hide behind the curtain of anonymity called the computer screen.



caitlyn -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 11:08:56 AM)

I don't chat very often, but when I do, my expectation is that I will find people to chat with, and nothing more. Rarely am I let down.

I think some people go to chat with completely unrealistic expectations, then feel that chat has somehow "let them down." Many then post online messages (like on this board), bashing online people. I wonder if they really think about how silly that makes them look.

The best place to find an offline encounter ... is offline. The best place to find an online relationship ... is online. The best place to find some good chat ... is in a chat room.

Funny how that works. [;)]



subversiveone -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 2:32:54 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: caitlyn


The best place to find an offline encounter ... is offline. The best place to find an online relationship ... is online. The best place to find some good chat ... is in a chat room.

Funny how that works. [;)]



I totally disagree. I've met more people online that really interested me enough to go 'offline' or r/l than i've met just hanging out. To say that you have never gone from online to off is fine by me but there wouldn't be a multi-million dollar industry of online matchmaking if it didn't work at all.
Chat? chat happens. I don't care if it's on or off line, it's just CHAT. You can often avoid annoying chat by doing it in r/l so when it turns annoying you can physically boot the annoy-er as opposed to just ignoring them. That being said, chat is a place where one goes to kill time, to run their 'mouth', to accidentaly bump into someone that likes their quips and nick. You can't compare it to a message board because it takes more effort to read posts and reply with some modicum of intellect. LOL is that a word? ;)



caitlyn -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 2:58:03 PM)

With all due respect, I think you may be missing the stupidly obvious truth of the statement. ha-ha!

While you can initially met a person online, the only place you can have an offline encounter, is offline. I used "best place" almost sarcastically. [;)]



subversiveone -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/19/2005 3:07:42 PM)

Oooh, I get it now.
Dee-de-dee!



HalloweenWhite -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 10:43:36 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedKev

I have noticed alot of things said lately about chat rooms, most in the negative. I do agree to some extent with the cyber chatrooms (can't abide them myself but there are some good talk ones. There is one that I go into where I know loads of them r/l. We go to munches, clubs, functions and parties and I have found it to be a positive experience. I have even met my previous slaves there and I met my current slave in yet another. We started out just as friends then she came over here to the UK to meet another Dom and 8 years later we are living together. So yes there are plenty of jerks online both male and female and you just have to put up with them, but overall my experiences have been good.



While Im glad your experiences have been good,Ive had My fill of chat-rooms;I only seem to attract...er...less than stable people,(yes,I know what youre all thinking-I attract them cos Im unstable My self lol), So I give them a wide birth.


HalloweenWhite.



ChastityLocked -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 11:37:09 AM)

im always let down in the chats, esp in the main lobby. Seems like everyone has there own clicks or groups, much like high school, and nobody ever discusses anything to do with fetishes or bondage. I tend to go to the small chat rooms, where chatting seems to be more important. I get so lost in the main room as soon as i go in, so i usualy avoid it.



BalletBob -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 12:13:07 PM)

Hi WikedKev and All. I love to chat, but NEVER in a chat room. There are too many people there and hard to keep track of messages. I would rather have a Yahooo Chat or conference with a couple NICE people, than have to deal with the couple Bone Heads on a normal chat.

Wish I was Tied and Gagged En Pointe, BalletBob



sultryvoice -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 12:19:12 PM)

The lobby chat is many of the same people and they aren't as welcoming as it could be. But there are many chats like it. I have chacked out many and only have liked 1. I am just not one to go to the chatrooms much, but I just like to look around on occasion.

Respectfully,
sultry




BalletBob -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 12:23:21 PM)

Hey Sultry, would you "LIKE" to chat on Yahoo sometime insted?

Curious BalletBob



sub4hire -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 2:02:15 PM)

I think if you're going to chat in a chat room you should use it for what it is. Once you are in one within 2 minutes you know what you are going to draw out of it.
I haven't been in a chat room in year's for any length of time. I feel I'm missing nothing.

I do recall those old days when I would spend five minutes a day in a room...back when the subs would run in and sit on the sub sofa, greeting everyone who entered as master and giving all blow jobs.

I just need a bit more reality for it to work for me.




WickedKev -> RE: Chat Rooms (9/21/2005 4:04:22 PM)

quote:

I do recall those old days when I would spend five minutes a day in a room...back when the subs would run in and sit on the sub sofa, greeting everyone who entered as master and giving all blow jobs.


Those are the cyber rooms and I leave them well alone. Afraid cyber just isn't for me. I did try it and found I was writing a scene that would be read once and disappear andI thought it would be better in a story and/or novel so I never have gone back, instead I write. The room I was talking about is a normal BDSM chat room no scening is allowed, you know a bit like a munch. As we are such a small country over here in the UK, we tend to all go to the same functions. Can't say I spend as much time in the room as I use to but I do go in to find out what is happening and who is going to what and where.



wantinaSireorSir -> RE: Chat Rooms (10/2/2005 8:36:40 PM)

I am on other sites under different names and there is one website i go to that no matter if I am logging in for a brief moment I attach the attention of all the guys because of my name and I think it is so funny.

wantinaSireorSir



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