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Limits list every slave should be MADE to have this - 7/13/2004 10:03:24 PM

PlzSlaveMe

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there, it is down. If it were an original list I could see copyright being a problem. But I did use my own selections as well.

Thanks for the warning!

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RE: Limits list every slave should be MADE to have this - 7/13/2004 10:42:10 PM

Voltare

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This list, while excellent and comprehensive, has some copywrite issues. Castlerealm used to have an interactive webpage where you could use drop down menues and select the answers, and even email it to someone. They had to remove it due to concerns about who created it (in whole or part.)

I won't jump on the bandwagon about copywrite infringement - but thought I'd make that note first.

Second, I honestly don't think that people are the sum of their checklists. I think there's a great deal to me other then I am a

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Weight: 165 lbs

Age: 27

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Ethnicity: Caucasian

I think as a means of assisting casual play, or to explore specific interests, this list is fine. I think focusing on 'what you do' as a slave/sub/bottom/top/sadist/masochist/master/mistress/dom/domme/dominatrix is not nearly as important as -why- you do what you do, and -how- to do the things you do correctly, safely.

(apply usual caveats here.)

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RE: Limits list every slave should be MADE to have this - 7/14/2004 5:43:13 AM

SherriA

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I actually find these lists to be more of a hinderance than a help. Have I done some of these things? Sure. Do I enjoy them? Depends on the partner. What I'm into is very often dependent on the energy I have with the person in question. Watersports might be great with one partner but totally gross me out with another.

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RE: Limits list every slave should be MADE to have this - 9/6/2004 9:07:55 AM

MK007

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I Do agree with Voltare & SherriA . These can at times be a hinderance....And I certainly believe that the "how-to do it properly" and "why one is doing it" to be of much more , if
not the most importance . But, I think there must be a starting place . Why not with 'A Limits List' ? It is a good
place to start . It should trigger some thinking in the parties involved....important in relation to safe, sane, and
consensual ! I'm in favor of it !!

Regards ,
MK007

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RE: Limits list every slave should be MADE to have this - 9/6/2004 1:01:34 PM

Estring

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Plz, that will be your job to make sure every slave has this list. Start on the west coast and work your way eastward. Let us know when you are done. Thanks.

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