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Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 11:00:27 AM   
LILPRINCESS2007


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i have not played in awhile an getting to where i feel depressed again cant sleep dont want to eat.no i have been to the Dr an she i was not crazy lol she is also in the lifestyle so i am able to talk with her an she wanted me to come to ask this question on this.
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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 11:09:18 AM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Yes, whenever we can't do something that brings us intense joy and connectedness we feel depressed. Whether it's playing the piano, playing with whips or playing with kids, if we can't do what brings us fulfillment and passion we get two things- depressed and climbing the walls.

You can either get to know people to play casually, or try and direct your energies elsewhere, exercise, new hobbies, clean out your house, distract yourself.

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 11:09:58 AM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
I fortunately have not had the experience of not being able to play for extended periods since I found myself. I have had short periods of no play and it seemed to knock me out of sync and leave me yearning for play time. It also left me very grumpy in my head. If people could have heard my thoughts I bet they wouldn't think I'm a nice girl anymore. Fortunately, Like I'd said before it was less than a month so I just grinned and bore it.
Good luck finding what you are looking for so that you can feel better soon,
sub suzanne

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 11:21:52 AM   
LILPRINCESS2007


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Status: offline 		thank you EmeraldSlave2*plantlady64
for the thoughts i have been doing other things to direct my thoughts else where i am still new to the lifestyle an the first play i had was with a Sadist,awsome experience.i will find one on a day not exspecting it,i am doing this question to get a better understanding myself.i am really shy it took alot to post this
sub/pain pup/lynn

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 12:03:49 PM   
Hallittlelolita


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Status: offline 		i agree it is hard Master says We/we cant play until 2 week s from now because we are really busy with appointments and such. Plus WE /we are going out of town to my parents next week and he said He will play with me when we get back from our trip. So i have no choice but to wait and i cant bug Master about because He said if i do He will make me wait longer. He says that He wants to wait until the timing is perfect and it hasnt been lately because our daughter has been sick with the flu me aswell. So i am just waiting patiently and throwing myself in my daily chores and being the best slave i can be and please my Master

sincerely andie and her Master Hal

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 1:34:29 PM   
Nuke718


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Status: offline 		The short answer is hecl yeah!

The more detailed answer is that when I am not indulging the sexual/romantic side of my nature (in which I nclude BDsM play for this discussion) it definately has consequences.

Whlie my customers might not notice, I am definately not as efficient in work. In fact I am distracted not only at work but a lot of the time. My closest friends and family eventually notice that I am a litte grumpy or down. My libido eventually decreases, and not only am I not getting any of what I need, I don't even fantasize about it as much.

But I find a lot of things can help, if not cure this situation. Exercise/physical activity is great for getting a positive physical rush. And evenjust flirting with the girl at the BK drive thru in the mornings keeps some juice flowing towards that part of my brain.

Not sure if this will help you or not lynn, but one of the things that has done the most to get me out of my recent slump is right here. These boards, whether reading or participating, have got me excited about the people that I could meet and play with out there. And that, is a good start!

Nuke }:-

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 1:59:23 PM   
NakedOnMyChain


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Status: offline 		I can only speak for me, but I know that I tend to get a bit depressed when I can't play.

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 4:10:24 PM   
sweetpettjenny


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Status: offline 		i am both into mental and very needy in the physical part of me being a slave...i tend to get down as well..then beg a friend to beat me !!!

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 7:22:40 PM   
Aquariansub


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Status: offline 		It certainly is not easy....I have a real physical need and get quite flat with it all...unfortunately there isnt alot I can do except I do as emeraldslave said try to put my mind elsewhere and get involved in some physical exercise of some sort...usually a good walk.

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 8:10:38 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		sheeez, I'm depressed everytime I look in the mirror and don't see my reflection.

This eternal life is not all it's cracked up to be.....I thirst tonight!



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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 8:44:46 PM   
Evanesce


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Status: offline 		I don't get depressed. Rather, I experience something totally different when it's been a while since we've played. Master is a truck driver, and He's gone a great deal of the time, so sometimes months can go by where we hardly even have sex, let alone get in some decent play time.

When it's been a long time... say a couple months or more... I get really agitated and easily distracted. It's almost as if I can feel the tension crawling under my skin, and I start to crave pain. Serious pain. The no-warm-up-show-me-what-you've-got-bring-it-on-make-me-scream kind of pain which, under normal circumstances, would have me begging for mercy in about two seconds.

Sometimes it sucks being a trucker's slave.

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/20/2005 10:06:24 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		Depressed? Yes I do.Where as I don't have a Mistress to play for, I do get depressed at times, but not overly, since I still have my wife, Fluffy and work. It still bothers me some, but I have to figure it will get better. I usually put something on that makes me feels good, and that helps somwhat, but not as much as the real thing.

BalletBob

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 1:19:03 AM   
Lordandmaster


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ORIGINAL: LILPRINCESS2007

i have been to the Dr an she i was not crazy lol she is also in the lifestyle so i am able to talk with her an she wanted me to come to ask this question on this.


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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 3:25:53 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I get depressed at the thought of waiting TWO WEEKS!

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 6:43:59 AM   
worshipmoons


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetpettjenny

i am both into mental and very needy in the physical part of me being a slave...i tend to get down as well..then beg a friend to beat me !!!



LMAO..I also get downa nd CRANKY !!! Wow is scares the snakes...LOL
I get so bd my friends OFFER to beat me....
I have worked on teaching a few to use a whip Correctly as to not hurt themselves...a whip will come back around sometimes and snap the person wielding it. **giggles**
pamela

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 6:51:44 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I know how you feel it was pure hell when my late Master had to go back ti NC for 2 weeks to visit family and then befire he died he was in the hospital for 6 months and that was very hard. Trust me keeping busy is the best thing.

littleone

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 10:54:27 AM   
LILPRINCESS2007


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Status: offline 		yes my Dr wanted me to post this because she is in the lifestyle herself an wanted me to try to get susport.as i am learning on a chat that its easy to get what it is really called a sub drop an depressed as i have not played for 6 months going on 7.have not really been with a man as well i talked with her today told her i am thinking very highly going back to my other lifestyle.i might not be able to play an its more dangerous then this lifestyle but its my choice i am finding to many think they are a Dom come to find out they aint.i will just keep to myself knowing i am a sub an start being happy again going back to other lifestyle again.i have met the most wounderful people for friendship thats all i have been doing caz they are looking for a model type lady.which dont bother me i am who i am an wanted to meet a Dom now that i see that its inpossible then returning to my other side would be for the best.thank You all for posting its helped with my descion

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RE: Do anyone get depressed hen ya can't play - 9/21/2005 4:56:36 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		Are Prozac and Viagra compatible?

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