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What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 6:12:34 PM

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I know lots of Mistresses and they get many applications from slaves but some slaves are willing to commit in some ways when others won't, and some are willing to jump thru hoops to prove themself a good slave to own but some won't and just except instant ownership. For some there's issues of distance, live sessions only, live in only, email only, certain fetishes, and other restrictions.

If your a male slave what would you do or not do to become owned by a Mistress?

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 6:41:57 PM

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As jaded as this might sound, I find that for the vast majority of the s-type males on the net, "owned" means "fucked"...and they'll do "anything" meaning "things that turn me on" in order to be "owned". I know this doesn't apply to every man, but it's a common theme.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 7:33:52 PM

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I would not do anything that went against who I really was in order to be owned, I would always tell her the truth.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 8:31:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

As jaded as this might sound, I find that for the vast majority of the s-type males on the net, "owned" means "fucked"...and they'll do "anything" meaning "things that turn me on" in order to be "owned". I know this doesn't apply to every man, but it's a common theme.

Master Fire

Well, maybe if I joined the AcademyForSlaves and realized all my fantasies as
promised there.

My experience here at the collarme hive has been one of viewing quite the
opposite as submissive postings go. I find most of the submissive males
who post here advance an agenda contrary to your belief, and well above
simpleton applications.

Of course I am not privy to the billions of emails the long suffering Dominants
so valiantly wade through on a daily basis. My condolences to those whom
are burdened with such.

Identifying one's self as a submissive, does not make one such.

There is no written law which one must adhere to in order to be such.

Dominant sexuality is far from hidden when one surfs the collarme wave.

Though the sight of myself in the mirror spinning wildly around in circles
trying to spy that price tag on my ass is adorable I must say.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 9:11:06 PM

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What would I do? I'm owned, I can't answer that...

What did I do? I was myself and I genuinely offered my loyalty and my companionship...in all walks of our life. Not the over the top answer people normally expect. Why should it be any more complicated than that?

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 10:22:35 PM

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is this a What Would You do for a Klondike Bar question?

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 11:10:52 PM

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Since joining C M, many of the things I considered hard limits, I now might submit to. Assuming I was in love with her, I would submit to anything to please her. I know assume, makes an ass out of you and me, but assuming again, her hard limits were the same as mine. I am sure for the right situation, woman, anything is possible.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/1/2008 11:19:38 PM

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hard question to answer, all i can say is i won't play games. i'll read a long ass profile and 9 pages of journal entries but regardless if it's apparent i read it, i won't be using "key words" when i speak to them to let them know i did. i'm not opposed to jumping hoops i don't consider a "game", but i won't stand with my back arched and arms spread wide saying "tada look at me" afterwards. i'm shy and the polar opposite of assertive, so i'm not one to engage things or start conversations or even insinuate i'm looking to get "owned", i just play by ear and do what comes naturally.

i don't know though, maybe i'll think of a better answer after some sleep.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 5:32:26 AM

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The same things I would do for any woman I loved. I don't imagine submission as some arcane set of rules, like passing the bar exam, or getting a securities trader's license, nor as a game or sport. I wish to please a wonderful woman. It would be even better were the woman a strict top/Domme.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 5:37:00 AM

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Anyone trying to jump through hoops for me and show me what a wonderful slave they can be, as their title suggests, rather than what a wonderful person and possibly partner they are as their life with me would require stands no chance.
Fox did nothing to impress me. Thats why he did. Angel did something similiar, his impressive idea was taking me to a park on our first meeting and having lunch with a deer.
Neither would impress the salves bending over backwards to get my attention. Which is why Fox and Angel are my boys, and others arent.
Show me who you are, we cna work on what you can do later.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 7:46:16 AM

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his impressive idea was taking me to a park on our first meeting and having lunch with a deer.

Okay, that's just hot! I hereby pronounce you one of the most romantic posters on CM -- much to your amazement and amusement, I'm sure.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 8:03:14 AM

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to be honest, to be an open book and not conceit anything... as it is the only way really both sub and Dominant will be able to see if there is a potential fit.

to go at the Dominant's pace, and not at my own.

to see what i can do for Her, not the other way around.

so if there are hoops to jumo through, then so be it, no matter the extent and number of them, if i feel there is a fit between She and i.

at least that's my humble view of the world;)

unravel

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 8:14:14 AM

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As far as I can tell from the bulk of the emails I receive (except for a few delightful individuals like my friend Peter who sends me lots of fun photos of his babies) it is not about what they will do but what the dominant will do for/to, them!

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 8:18:14 AM

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how long is a piece of string

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 9:57:11 AM

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Real, honest slavery involves a conscientious decision to commit one's live to the well being and happiness of their Owner. As such, this involves a total power exchange in which the slave concedes all rights to him or her self to the Owner. All possessions, their physical body, their mind their time and life are now given to the Owner. Only this total commitment of a life to Another qualifies as true slavery. By the way, it is an exhillarating, free experience that i have been fortunate enough to experience and live to experience again.

Being a slave to a Dominant Woman is most satisfying for one such as i, as i believe wholeheartdly in the natural superiority of Women and Their supreme ability to rule over and own men. Indeed, Women should own men for the good of Womankind and the civilization in general.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/2/2008 7:56:06 PM

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quote:

If your a male slave what would you do or not do to become owned by a Mistress?

It really depends on compatibility, as I don't want to be "owned" by just anyone.

If the compatibility is there and I can't seem to stop thinking of her.. Pretty much whatever it takes in terms of hoops.

But as another one said, I would not do anything that went against who I really am.

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/3/2008 7:44:38 AM

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I was very straightforward with Mistress when I initially contacted Her. I told Her what I was looking for in a domme, my interests and kinks, and the fact I was looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship. Since a lot of our kinks lined up well and the fact I wanted monogamous and long-term, She took the chance in getting to know me. After a rocky start, we really started getting to know each other and decided to communicate with each other exclusively. It was our initial commitment to each other. I stopped looking for any other dommes and She stopped looking for other submissives. I really didn't do anything particular other than just being myself and showing Her that She was the only one I wanted to get to know. A little while after that and after getting to know each other more, I whispered the three little words that made Her catch Her breath..."I love you." I told Her She seemed to be exactly what I've been dreaming to find in a domme and a lifemate. Everything just snowballed after that. ***feeling my heart pitter-patter at the thoughts***

After months of phone calls, text messages, and e-mails, She is finally flying down to see me on March 23rd! Yay!!! I cannot wait to scoop Her up in my arms and show Her not only true southern hospitality, but the love and devotion She never thought existed.

Shawn, you might be named one of the most romantic posters on CM, but I'm coming for that title, my friend!

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/4/2008 2:33:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

Since joining C M, many of the things I considered hard limits, I now might submit to. Assuming I was in love with her, I would submit to anything to please her. I know assume, makes an ass out of you and me, but assuming again, her hard limits were the same as mine. I am sure for the right situation, woman, anything is possible.

Well said, liks2! I think a lot of people discount two, maybe three things; personal growth, growth together and of course loving your partner.

What pleases me, what I hope to enjoy with my sub/slave is going to be so much different than what pleases the next Domina or what she hopes to enjoy. That is why I liked the response “How long is a piece of string?”

In my mind there is nothing one can ‘do’ to become my boy…it would be a gradual process which begins with a meeting. From there, a garden grows or it doesn’t and we both move on. There is no right or wrong in this…it is just the way of us; all of us. It is why communication is so important.

Perhaps the thing that most impresses me with BDSM is the constant push to communicate. We use checklists, we use negotiation, we use all sorts of ways to tell each other really intimate stuff, including what it is that turns us on, what we want, hope for, want to provide; do and have done. I’ve never seen any other group so interested in communicating! Too bad we don’t teach this sort of stuff in high school, when kids are learning to love. It might save a bunch of relationships.

It doesn’t surprise me that a new person here slowly begins to see much of WIITWD is not as ‘sinister’ as at first it sounds, and in fact is pretty darn sexy and lots of fun. Still, much of it is quite intimate and for most people, I imagine…it works best in relationship rather than two ships passing in the night. (not that that’s a bad thing, of course!!!)

MsB

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RE: What would submissive males do to be owned? - 3/4/2008 4:42:09 PM

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I understand the question, as many male slaves are just so desperate to find someone to dominate them. One needs to meet one's perspective owner and get to know one another. One can then see if there are many areas of commonality, mutual agreement on life's meaning, and a deep understanding of each other's souls.

Realistically, the ratio of slaves to Dommes is so stacked in favor of the Domme that a slave might envision doing just about anything legal to win a place at her feet.

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