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Machismo Masochism - 3/2/2008 7:30:29 PM

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The title is a phrase I coined while speaking to a slowly becoming mentor on here, a brutal man from new york who's attention I lately crave.

Sir's do you have any such relations with a Dom lady, I don't mean as your submissive but as your equal, a yin to your yang? Could even be outside of marriage just someone you click with as a partner or friend?

I have to say his not being around has not helped my slowly curbing intrest in Masochism and our discussions for it Masochisms many roots has my deeply seeded aggressions running high, all feelings Im still new to and slowly craving to taste more. And yet it has no vision of submission to me, I am still in control yet I have a huge need to pick a fight with a stranger on the street just to feel the rush and most likely pain of it all.

I think Im growing even more a Monster who's just found a great vien to feed on.

Lil Miss Action(Monster)

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/2/2008 9:04:00 PM

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Well I'd be wary of a person who had NO friends they didn't click with. So I'm not sure if that's really the question you are asking.

If force or primal play is what you are after, many people enjoy that on many levels.

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/3/2008 7:01:34 AM

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Action,

After reading twice, I am still not sure what your asking.

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/3/2008 7:07:21 AM

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I think this is like the one where the OP asked if any of the Doms would submit to her. About a month ago, I think.

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/3/2008 7:41:38 AM

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Seriously...if I was to submit to someone else sexually, I could not call myself a Top-I'd be a switch. And that just doesn't work for me.

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/3/2008 5:00:39 PM

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Wow,

Now there is a question I can seriously sink my teeth into.

It sounds as thought (At least in my seriously demented and perverted head) that the OP has discovered a Outlet to a Masochistic latent desire through the friendship of someone she sees as an equal.

That she is craving the pain this person and given to her and was asking if anyone has ever had a similar situation.

I cannot say that I have ever felt this way due mostly because I am neither a Masochist nor am I a Sadist I am simply Dominant in nature and so the only situation I have ever had that could mirror what you spoke of would be that time I was Mentally Dominated and I can Assure you it was NOT a Plesant situation nor something I sought out again, instead I learned a great lesson from it and that was to only play in playgrounds I was suited for and unless invited to play I should remember that other peoples games sometimes have unspoken rules.

As far as having an EQUAL I have had MANY, They are people I respect and admire for thier abilities and often they feel the same. I must admit that rarely is it a member of the opposite sex only due to the fact that at times it is difficult to draw the line between conversation and Inquisiton. Often times conversations with the Opposite sex will end with one or both of us felling pressure to defend our own nature and thus this makes for a difficult thing to maintain.

I find that I perfer to confide in members of the same sex as I feel they relate better to what I am expressing. I find that when I confide to women they take a position that I find a little to advaserial and although this might not always be the case I live by the concept if you think an animal might snap at you even once it is better to admire it from afar then try to touch it.

If you have found something you crave in this person I hope you enjoy it, as it is rare that we get to feel new things for very long as eventually we become comfortable with everything. To experience something NEW is truely a gift. Enjoy it.

As Always

Steel

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RE: Machismo Masochism - 3/3/2008 6:33:09 PM

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Are you asking if you can be a dominant masochist, I will say, Certainly. But I am not sure if that's what you're driving at...

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