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So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/22/2005 2:05:28 PM

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My most satisfying and exciting domination moments are almost entirely defined by having a man submit who doesn't behave like a robot, act ridiculously "meek." His behavior might range from stoic and mysterious (but not bland) to slightly resistant to compliant and courageous. The common thread is that he shows emotion, passion, sensuality. I love it when a sub knows how to communicate with his body and his eyes.

The entire "beg with your eyes" thing, while it might seem campy, still gets me going every time. I nearly drove my car off the road recently when I saw this billboard:

http://www.elijahfan.com/gallery/index.php?spgmGal=Magazines/YouthAids-Aldo&spgmPic=6&spgmFilters=t#pic

Now, *that's* what I'm talking about.

Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/22/2005 2:20:41 PM

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I'm not a femdom, but I certainly do spend a lot of time looking into a submissive's eyes. There are a bunch of "looks" I like but probably my favorite is the battle between fear and desire.

[evil grin] It really doesn't matter which wins!

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/22/2005 2:29:18 PM

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Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

Absolutely AAkasha! That certain look, that reaction, the sounds. I feed off of a submissives reactions. The worst thing in the world to me is a submissive that never makes a sound, never wiggles and holds on to that composure with a death grip... it's just no fun.

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/22/2005 7:12:37 PM

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Looks can certainly be powerful (the image you posted is truly a gem!). I still remember the look on one sub's face...Whew, is it hot in here?

But, sounds do it for me too. One of my most powerful fantasies is a one second sound bite in just the right whisper:
Please hurt me, Ma'am.

Oh, yeah...does it for me!

Fire

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/22/2005 9:21:26 PM

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The eye’s have it. Nothing quite like a large dilated pupil. It gives off a soft look that tells me he is loving life at that moment in time and is putty in my hands.

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/23/2005 6:19:38 AM

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I so can not agree more! I find that my most memorable moments are the little things rather than a scene as a whole. A certain wiggle, a groan or grunt when I did something to him or a look from the corner of his eye when he knew something was coming but not quite sure what.. then when he figured it out ...mmmm that begging look!

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/23/2005 7:38:52 AM

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What a great poster.

I love the looks a sub can make and agree with John... that look of fear or shock with a slight stubborn "no way" quality to it that then melts to a "yes please". yummm

Oumae

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/23/2005 7:56:05 PM

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I feed off his looks, breathing, wimpers, squirms, and whispers :-)

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/24/2005 12:03:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

The entire "beg with your eyes" thing, while it might seem campy, still gets me going every time. I nearly drove my car off the road recently when I saw this billboard:

http://www.elijahfan.com/gallery/index.php?spgmGal=Magazines/YouthAids-Aldo&spgmPic=6&spgmFilters=t#pic

Now, *that's* what I'm talking about.

Akasha

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Arg... -twitch-... -falls over-... -zones out all sorts of blissful-

Mmm... now if only I could have the elf making that face. -finds a bucket and a drool cloth-

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/24/2005 6:58:38 AM

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welllllllllllllllll?????????????????

i guess...............you are all out of luck........coz when i get MY ass beat on............i keep MY eyes shut..........

so whatcha gonna DO about THAT?

wolfie
(i luv it when ya take power AWAY from dommes and let em sit n stew over it...)

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/24/2005 8:26:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

My most satisfying and exciting domination moments are almost entirely defined by having a man submit who doesn't behave like a robot, act ridiculously "meek." His behavior might range from stoic and mysterious (but not bland) to slightly resistant to compliant and courageous. The common thread is that he shows emotion, passion, sensuality. I love it when a sub knows how to communicate with his body and his eyes.

The entire "beg with your eyes" thing, while it might seem campy, still gets me going every time. I nearly drove my car off the road recently when I saw this billboard:

I love mindfarks scenes and that look is way hot! ;) I swear I come on the spot everytime a sub reaches the point of asking me to do something they never imagined in their wildest dreams they'd have agreed too when they walked through my door...I adore those little fleeting moments when you're telling them they have to beg you to do a,b,c to them...and they suddenly think hmm there might be some merit in those who adocate not jumping out of perfectly good airplanes...

Aakasha thanks for sharing the billboard *drool* ;)

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 2:32:42 PM

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Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

It is all about the reaction for me. The look that tells of them being in that space between agony and ecstasy. That is what I get off on.

- LA

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 4:44:59 PM

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The most intoxicating moment for Me is when I bring My boy to tears. That look of quiet supplication with the eyes brimming with tears.

Yep. That's THE LOOK.

Texas Maam

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 4:50:28 PM

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welllllllllllllllll?????????????????

i guess...............you are all out of luck........coz when i get MY ass beat on............i keep MY eyes shut..........

so whatcha gonna DO about THAT?

wolfie

I have a delicious concotion of herbs that contains peppermint oil, lavender, patchouli, mint, rosemary, clove oil, and several other anti inflammatory herbs that are suspended in DMSO to apply to bruised and freshly broken skin. It burns. It's pungent. I can guarantee you'll open your eyes and gasp. Shall I send a small bottle along to Laura?

lolololol

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 4:57:28 PM

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Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

It is all about the reaction for me. The look that tells of them being in that space between agony and ecstasy. That is what I get off on.

- LA

My sub tries to hide it, and averts his eyes...the look of total vulnerability... his need...and fear...when I make him face me... that's what I get off on. Yummy!

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 7:51:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

It is all about the reaction for me. The look that tells of them being in that space between agony and ecstasy. That is what I get off on.

- LA

My sub tries to hide it, and averts his eyes...the look of total vulnerability... his need...and fear...when I make him face me... that's what I get off on. Yummy!

I bet. I have to say more often then not, I hook up with bold boys who like to look at me straight in the face. I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>

- LA

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 10:40:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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ORIGINAL: Misstoyou

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

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Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

It is all about the reaction for me. The look that tells of them being in that space between agony and ecstasy. That is what I get off on.

- LA

My sub tries to hide it, and averts his eyes...the look of total vulnerability... his need...and fear...when I make him face me... that's what I get off on. Yummy!

I bet. I have to say more often then not, I hook up with bold boys who like to look at me straight in the face. I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>

- LA

We've all shared variations of "the look" (or one of many looks) that get to us.

Do any femdoms here recall ever being turned on by a sub behaving the way subs are often portrayed in femdom porn: crawling around pathetically, saying "yes Mistress" robotically, slobbering on her feet, talking about how worthless he is, or just sitting there like a lump?

Akasha

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/25/2005 10:42:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

My most satisfying and exciting domination moments are almost entirely defined by having a man submit who doesn't behave like a robot, act ridiculously "meek." His behavior might range from stoic and mysterious (but not bland) to slightly resistant to compliant and courageous. The common thread is that he shows emotion, passion, sensuality. I love it when a sub knows how to communicate with his body and his eyes.

The entire "beg with your eyes" thing, while it might seem campy, still gets me going every time. I nearly drove my car off the road recently when I saw this billboard:

http://www.elijahfan.com/gallery/index.php?spgmGal=Magazines/YouthAids-Aldo&spgmPic=6&spgmFilters=t#pic

Now, *that's* what I'm talking about.

Do other femdoms feel this way about a certain "look" from the right sub?

Akasha

In a follow up to "It must be the week to tease Akasha with imagery of men in bondage and helplessness," a pre season hockey game featured intermission clips of the recent "boot camp" the NY Rangers attended as part of their training camp. They did a real military boot camp, and the clip they showed was of hockey players blindfolded and led by teammates, relying them to trust them as they manuevered them through an obstacle course.

Blindfolded hockey players? Obstacle courses? Team building? Why can't they send them to *my* boot camp!?

Akasha

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/26/2005 12:19:56 AM

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I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>

I love that point too...because when they think I'm gonna lower my eyes, they getta wink instead. Priceless. HAR!

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RE: So how much does your sub's reaction count? - 9/26/2005 4:04:43 AM

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I love when I push them to the point that they avert their eyes... and then I make them look at me. <weg>

I love that point too...because when they think I'm gonna lower my eyes, they getta wink instead. Priceless. HAR!

- The Ranger

That wink would cost you!

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