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Sinergy -> RE: How many subs share this situation? (7/19/2004 9:33:34 AM)
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Sinergy...Your discription of life as You've experienced it reminds me of my own in a lot of ways. Sometimes i think the Internet is an unintended trap regarding this lifestyle. What i mean is, nobody's going to go out tomorrow and find a public place where they can meet others practicing BDSM. So it seems logical to look here where people can safely explore and contact others. But since it's not as simple as that, we get drawn into expending our energy here online instead of out there where there are living, breathing human beings.
The internet is what it is, anthrosub, and I have worked in cyberspace since I was in (me? hacking? pshaw!) the CSUNET back in the early 1980s. To me, it is the Singles Bar Scene of the 90s, filled with womanizers, menanizers (is that a word?), trolls, as well as the population of actual sincere people seeking relationships.
I dont meet many people from the internet. I could say that it is my job, etc., but that would only be partially true. I dislike the denoument of relationships, so I dont like starting things up when I dont see a future for us as a couple.
To me intention is the motive force, everything else is just details. If we want to be together, we will make it happen.
-- Sinergy
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