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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/27/2005 11:39:47 AM

LadyKim

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I am sure there are some that would be interesting in threatening and following through with not allowing a chastized sub to cum ever again. I don't view chastity in that way at all. For me it is like putting a chain on a bike when unattended or locking the door to my car when I'm not using it. Now, if a sub's behavior or attitude needs a bit of adjustment, I may use the device in his punishment; however, I enjoy sexuality too much to lock it up and throw away the key for good. Yes, I know about cuckholding, and I know about poly; however, I believe a sub that hands over his keys is very special indeed, and enjoy rewarding him rather than constantly punishing him.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/29/2005 12:08:57 AM

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I've heard many say that there is no such thing as an inescapable chastity belt. Knowing the cost of the CB's, would you be willing to pay, or have your sub pay say five or ten times that amount for a belt that he flat out can't get out of until you let him out. I mean under any circumstances. Treat this as hypothetical if you wish.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/30/2005 4:55:46 PM

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Better than Tollyboy IMO is Neosteel.

They're at www.neosteel.de

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/30/2005 5:11:28 PM

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What is it about the Neosteel that makes it superior?

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 9/30/2005 7:43:20 PM

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The neosteel is a nice belt, but thr tollyboy comes with more options such as the thigh rings that can immobilize the wearer, and and assortment of different size and style plugs. I also don't think the neosteel belt offers inescapable plugs, but I'm not sure about that. I just prefer the tollyboy for it's looks and since the are both designed about the same, they should be equally secure. Thanks for the input.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/3/2005 4:12:09 AM

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Call me old fashion, but I really perfer the pierced tubes to the full belts. I can see the 'appeal'; however, the piercing holds a very high level of significance for me. As my former boy use to say....... bagged and tagged.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/4/2005 6:19:44 AM

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actually the neosteel comes with all of those features. thigh rings, locking plugs, even am electrics unit

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/4/2005 6:52:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyKim

I am sure there are some that would be interesting in threatening and following through with not allowing a chastized sub to cum ever again. I don't view chastity in that way at all. For me it is like putting a chain on a bike when unattended or locking the door to my car when I'm not using it. Now, if a sub's behavior or attitude needs a bit of adjustment, I may use the device in his punishment; however, I enjoy sexuality too much to lock it up and throw away the key for good. Yes, I know about cuckholding, and I know about poly; however, I believe a sub that hands over his keys is very special indeed, and enjoy rewarding him rather than constantly punishing him.

I would so agree with that.
Just dont see any use of a man without his "equipment", sorry, obviously I am yet too unexperienced.

I should say that only "chastity belt" I would put on someone would be his own will power.

I was once married to a man that just "had to cum" whenever he was aroused, at any cost. I despised him for that, I considered him to have no controll whatsoever over his physicall needs.

Now, I am married to another man who has perfect control - sometimes we start having sex Friday evening and continue it whole weekend, and then its another working week and he is on his way...... without cumming. Till about maybe next weekend. And thats one of the things I respect him very much for.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/6/2005 2:18:20 PM

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I should say that only "chastity belt" I would put on someone would be his own will power.

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and THAT is where "I" am. i have NOT had sex since 2001.
and since 09/01...i have only done masturbation once.

aside from the fact........when my p.a. and guiche is healed SHE wants to lock-it-up......for a power trip......."I" just do not let the small head control the big head.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/6/2005 2:40:51 PM

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IMO the Neosteel and Tollyboy both have things going for them.

Neosteel is more advanced in design technology, with remote control options and hip/sports models; but Tollyboy has neater locking system. It depends what you want and where you are geographically. Neosteel are in Germany; Tollyboy in UK, and other steel models elsewhere. Jones, which started as a copycat of Tollyboy, is in USA; and another steel option, which may suit some, i.e. Carrara, are in Belgium.

But IMO the imprortant thing is to have a cb that works, and does what is wanted of it, in the context that the KH decides what the wearer is permitted and denied within the context/parameters of the agreed KH/wearer relationship.

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RE: I've read alot about chastity here...... - 10/9/2005 12:46:10 PM

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The only trouble I have run into with the CB2000 is escaping balls! Ring sizing can be tricky.

About those escaping balls, that is very painful.. I was placed in the CB2000 when I was serving my Lesbian Pro Domme in NJ, and I really hated that thing because it was either to loose, or I was on the very of slow castration.. The smallest one about killed me, my balls turned purple, along with the rest of my package.. The 3rd size up was just enough to breath so to speak, and while I thought all was well... I was sleeping and woke to a very painful ball prison break.. To say the least it felt like Mistress had placed me in the humbler, and made me stand up.. I do not miss that experience at all.

Do not get me wrong I very much hope to be placed in full chastity if I am ever owned again, and or serving someone. I can not control myself wacking off 50 million times a month.. I need my Domme to control my release, if I am even allowed one.

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