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MistressFaye1 -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 12:02:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: solvr70

oh yes. words are very powerful things. i still remember the first time i was called a "good bitch". it was in the middle of a scene, and well, it did not take long for it push me over the edge.

a few choice words were also used the first time my then gf was taking me from behind, i had cum, and she was not ready to stop, to get me right back "up" again.

then being made to repeat things back, well, that takes it to a whole new level as well. [;)]



Hey there!  you know where My mind is right about now!

OP...  it does wonders!  I love it when I am literally topping a vanilla guy that has all of these preconceived notions about the lifestyle and in the midst of it all, when he is "close", I look him in the eyes and say something like, "are you ready to cum for me my little slut?" causes the pouring out of a lot of yes! oh yes!  Then to add the icing on the cake have him repeating that he's my slut and that I can use him the way I see fit.

With submissives, I find it gives them a sense of pride and "belonging".  "MY" denotes "possession".  I love it!

Faye



moki1984 -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 12:08:27 PM)

oh your dirty dirty Lady Pact hehe. I find this post even more interesting since I know who that lil slut is *grins*

I have personally always found side comments like that that are slightly degrading and dirty and just plain out kinky add a great deal. I find enjoyment in saying such things to others, but receiving them..mm. The hubby is the only I will be submissive with, and recently he was having some fun with me doing some tease and denial etc etc. and he is not one to do deeply into comments like this so it suprised me that out of no where he pulled my hair back and called me his dirty slut and started saying things like "your my good whore. look how bad you want it" talk about sending me over the edge haha....

words like that can carry such a strong conotation to them..sur ethey are degrading to some and some may even take offense, but they make that person feel dirty...feel kinky and rawr (animal sound inserted their) it just heightens that inner beast...the inner slutty beast that we all have lol.



KindLadyGrey -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 4:23:20 PM)

This thread makes me think I'm missing out! I have difficulty calling a boy a name that doesn't seem to apply. I mean, if the only person he ever sleeps with is me, and he is a gentleman all the time, then "slut" just doesn't seem a good fit. There is one boy I call a slut all the time, but that's because he totally IS.

If I'm of the mind to make a boy repeat something to me, I like him to tell me that, yes, he is MINE. Not my little slut, not my good boy, just MINE. Strange how I can be poly and so possessive at the same time :P

On the other hand, it is fun to have the ability to insult people in a safe context. I call one of my best girlfriends a fat stupid whore all the time and it always makes us giggle. She's got her own insults she slings back at me.

Still, the rational disconnect of calling someone something that is patently false sometimes pops me out of the right headspace.

On the sub-side, I am completely ambivalent to names like slut or whore or cuntbag or whatever. A Dom/me can call me whatever they want and I won't be insulted or upset, but I don't have that orgasmic melty thing that many subs seem to get. I just figure they can call me whatever they want; it's their prerogative. My lack of response to this sort of verbal foreplay is very disappointing to most Domly types. I do get all melty at "good girl" just like every other sub on the planet ;)

I think I'm missing out. *pout*



Politesub53 -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 4:49:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

I do get all melty at "good girl" just like every other sub on the planet ;)

I think I'm missing out. *pout*



Hi Ma`am, personally speaking " Good boy " works better for me.

i have to say that the whole name calling using My Mine ect is very erotic, especially combined with tone of voice and "That" look.



SixFootMaster -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 5:49:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey

This thread makes me think I'm missing out! I have difficulty calling a boy a name that doesn't seem to apply. I mean, if the only person he ever sleeps with is me, and he is a gentleman all the time, then "slut" just doesn't seem a good fit. There is one boy I call a slut all the time, but that's because he totally IS.

If I'm of the mind to make a boy repeat something to me, I like him to tell me that, yes, he is MINE. Not my little slut, not my good boy, just MINE. Strange how I can be poly and so possessive at the same time :P

On the other hand, it is fun to have the ability to insult people in a safe context. I call one of my best girlfriends a fat stupid whore all the time and it always makes us giggle. She's got her own insults she slings back at me.

Still, the rational disconnect of calling someone something that is patently false sometimes pops me out of the right headspace.

On the sub-side, I am completely ambivalent to names like slut or whore or cuntbag or whatever. A Dom/me can call me whatever they want and I won't be insulted or upset, but I don't have that orgasmic melty thing that many subs seem to get. I just figure they can call me whatever they want; it's their prerogative. My lack of response to this sort of verbal foreplay is very disappointing to most Domly types. I do get all melty at "good girl" just like every other sub on the planet ;)

I think I'm missing out. *pout*



Try "wanton little sex toy"?

Six.



KindLadyGrey -> RE: My lil slut (3/10/2008 6:23:40 PM)

Funny you should say that :)

Just last night I told a boy that if he were anywhere close I'd tie him up and use him as my own personal sex toy ;)

I'm also fond of "horny little fucker."



probablyknowme -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 12:16:01 AM)

I'm an instant puddle when the Domly One calls me "toy," "My toy" or even better "My fuck toy." Slut, bitch, whore, cockhound..all very effective too.

Okay, now I have to ummmm...go toooooo...

kat



MaamJay -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 2:45:58 AM)

I have found, with subs (as with dogs!) ... "what a GOOD boy" (or girl) works a treat too! Personally, probably because I am most definitely NOT little, using the word little makes my sub side melt and I like to use it as a Domme too. I don't tend to use the word slut as much, though I don't mind it. Not fond of whore though. But to each their own!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



solvr70 -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 7:50:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1

Hey there!  you know where My mind is right about now!

OP...  it does wonders!  I love it when I am literally topping a vanilla guy that has all of these preconceived notions about the lifestyle and in the midst of it all, when he is "close", I look him in the eyes and say something like, "are you ready to cum for me my little slut?" causes the pouring out of a lot of yes! oh yes!  Then to add the icing on the cake have him repeating that he's my slut and that I can use him the way I see fit.

With submissives, I find it gives them a sense of pride and "belonging".  "MY" denotes "possession".  I love it!

Faye


very well put m'Lady! i never have been able to put it into words. but the sense of pride in being a good slut (sounds a little different,but 'tis true), the sense of "belonging" are all part of it.  i'm not really perfect at knowing all the "why's" for things that cause a reaction. but words and phrases like "My bitch, My slut, My lil cum Whore" all put my mind in a new place, and help me "let go" and get more into my role as such.

oh and hummmm....what might m'Lady be thinking now? [;)]



DiurnalVampire -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 7:55:52 AM)

Ive called Fox my little slut, my whore, my good little boy or my good girl... all of them work wonders.
With Angel its my pretty little baby girl...

I love the squirm and the squeal when either hears theyr phrase.
DV




Pyrrsefanie -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 11:33:03 AM)

I try to avoid using too much verbal humiliation in my play so that I don't sound like that Mistress Mandy character from the cable commercials... but there are definitely a few choice words I like to use, and "slut" is one of them.

If I feel he's getting too quiet or I'm not getting enough of a reaction out of him for my tastes, I'll suddenly say "You love it when I do this to you, don't you, slut?" and nine and a half times out of ten I'll get a moan and a squirm.  And it brings a huge smile to my face because it reminds me just how much control I have over his sexual desire at that moment, that one word from me could make him react so strongly.

Seconding what was said by a couple of others in this thread about making them repeat it back.  I'll say "You love being my little slut, don't you?" and if all I get out of him is a "Yes!" I'll intensify whatever I'm doing and command him to say it, first in a whisper, and then louder... louder... till he's practically yelling that he's my slut!  Now there's a serious thrill for me, to have him saying these things that I know he never dreamed of saying before I got a hold of him.

Completely an indescribable sensation... I've got chills just thinking about it.



solvr70 -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 1:59:33 PM)

that is all part of the mix. a Woman not just calling me things like Her slut, Her whore. But having me repeat it back, and loud does make for an intense time. and i could go on about when being taken by a strapon and Her not letting me cum until i really beg for Her "cock". also way up there on the intensity scale!



moki1984 -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 3:34:41 PM)

verbal humuliation is not like mistress mandy...

verbal humuliation/degradation and praising can be very powerful with the right tone and conotation in your voice .

and i like mistress mandy's boots



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: My lil slut (3/11/2008 4:25:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: moki1984

verbal humuliation is not like mistress mandy...


I never said that all verbal humiliation was like Mistress Mandy.  In fact, I believe what I said was

"I try to avoid using too much verbal humiliation in my play so that I don't sound like that Mistress Mandy character from the cable commercials"

which should have implied that I believe ending every sentence with "worm" or "worthless fuck bitch" in that extreme, straight-outta-porno type of way is Mistress Mandy style, not that I thought any verbal humiliation at all fell under the cheese factor.

Basically, if I feel like I should be wearing a PVC catsuit and cracking a whip when I say it... I try to avoid saying it.  Unless I'm in the mood for such things, but that's a whole 'nother story, heh heh.




solvr70 -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 9:17:10 AM)

i agree "worthless" is not a good thing.
things like:
"my lil slut, my lil whore, cum-slut, etc.* do have a strong effect, physical even.

quite a number of other things i have not mentioned here as well, wondering if that might get me flamed or something.



Kitte9 -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 2:42:46 PM)

My Mistress says 'my good kitte' and it makes me want to purr. Ah, hell, I'll be honest. I do purr!



aidan -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 4:14:58 PM)

Hooray for fellow cute noise makers! ^__^



SixFootMaster -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 4:32:08 PM)

I purr, but it's not a cute sound - kind of like a tiger inspecting its soon to be meal ;)

Six.



vampchick88 -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 5:39:41 PM)

  I love to call pet names when things are getting heated up, my good little slut, bitch, my whore, etc. It does add a lot of heat to the moment at least I seem to think so since pet usually begins to get all cute and melty. I can't wait until my collar is around his neck and I'm pulling him close to me with his hands bound behind his back, unaware of what I have in store for him. I do know when I ask him who my personal slut is he'll say "me Mistress" *Sighs in complete contentment and begins to daydream.~Lorelei



DominaJayde -> RE: My lil slut (3/12/2008 9:25:56 PM)

One of my boys is much the same way, if I call him my 'needy little slut' it just drives him wild(er), makes him so very much more submissive, more aroused, more everything, tis quite delightful the response.

DJ




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