LadyPact
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My dear elan, This is exactly why I tend to hold you in higher regard than a Dom who would be contacting a Domme just in the hopes of getting laid. I'm not saying all males always think with their small head, rather than the one that's slightly north, but some stereotypes do exist for a reason. quote:
ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued Lady Pact, quote:
It may have to do with the fact that you said a couple of things in your profile. "Strap on" and "looking". Even though your journal entry from the tenth changes that, your entry on the fifth specifically talks about "meeting 3 from CM for a chance". In man-speak (grunt, grunt), that means "opportunity to get laid". Add to that being that you are obviously an attractive woman, who combined with another mention from your profile, "owns your own femme sex toy", equals, again, man-speak (grunt, grunt) "fantasy come true". Sorry, but I know a lot of males who, regardless of role, would gladly say anything, *do anything* to give them the opportunity to get in on that kind of situation. I'm a relatively monogamous pervert who doesn't separate BDSM from romance. Thus, I have no interest in a partner who keeps a stable of submissives. Even if that person also happens to own a female sex toy, this still counts as part of the stable. To me, what this all means is that I can't be the romantic focus of that person nor can she be mine. I don't want to share my partner with others so regardless of whether beautiful, intelligent, and sexy, someone with these needs is clearly incompatible with me. Likewise, while sexual and BDSM compatibility most certainly come into the picture, so does attraction on other levels and this is equally important to me. If I can't enjoy someone's company going out to dinner and the theatre, it's not likely we'll click in the bedroom / playroom. I say this (grunt, grunt) only to point out that some of us male submissives actually think with more than our small heads. All 912 "chance-to-fuck" translations aside, many of us consider attraction (thankfully) much more multi-layered than "getting the round peg in any, available round hole". :-) Elan.
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